
This isn't a show about therapy. It is therapy. Each episode, you're invited to be a fly on the wall for a raw, unscripted, and intimate session with a real couple. These are the conversations that usually happen behind closed doors - the painful truths, the confusing patterns, and the hard-earned breakthroughs that define a relationship. This is the sound of two people fighting for a future toget... more
| Publishes | Twice weekly | Episodes | 19 | Founded | 8 months ago |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Number of Listeners | Categories | Society & CultureDocumentaryRelationships | |||

Have you ever had a fight with someone that starts off small but then suddenly turns super personal, like you’re back in primary school, trading playground insults?
In this episode of But Are You Happy, clinical psychologist Dr. Anastasia Hronis sh... more
What happens when you're not just climbing the ladder, but standing at the very top? For Lize Ratliff, that meant achieving her dream job as Head of Podcasts at Mamamia, after 10 years hustling to get there.
Lize’s journey is a masterclass in pure ... more
What happens when a six-month holiday turns into a 14-year life chapter? You pack a bag for a gap year in the snow and accidentally stumble into a whole new world - a career, a husband, a mortgage, and three children. On paper, it’s the fairytale exp... more
This mum & daughter have been asked to reflect on the default behaviours that keep them stuck in the unhelpful dynamic they’re in when conflict arises, and what to seek more positive and helpful behaviours that foster connection and communication.
... more
People also subscribe to these shows.





I’ve listened to the first 3 relationships and wow. I feel so privileged and grateful that people have been so brave to let us be apart of their journey. The negative comments are interesting…. I think what people don’t understand is that most relationships come to therapy because the rupture has been so bad it’s gotten to an unmanageable and unhealthy state and that’s why what you hear can be shocking. But being able to hear in realtime people letting us in on their healing has been incredible.... more
Kate and Dean - the therapist has failed to identify that Dean is coercive and abusive towards Kate. Their difficulties are conceptualised as a result of communication problems, when in fact Dean has a narcissistic personality structure and has an underlying agenda in gaslighting Kate and making her feel insecure. Dean completely lacks empathy and clearly lies to Kate.
A privilege to listen to real people share their vulnerability, pain and hope. I found parts of my fight style in lots of these people and hearing how to think about changing that behavior prompted a lot of reflection. At times challenging to listen to, the judge in me wanted people I don’t know to be held to account more for their appalling behavior but that also had me reflecting on myself. Who does that serve? The way the host artfully walks the line of keeping people engaged with the process... more
Dear lord, some of these women are painfully insecure
So interesting to sit in on these sessions!
The episode with Kate & Dean is very hard to listen to!
Dean is obviously an abusive partner & has clearly broken that poor woman.
I hope Kate has left him & is safe!
Key themes from listener reviews, highlighting what works and what could be improved about the show.
How this podcast ranks in the Apple Podcasts, Spotify and YouTube charts.
Apple Podcasts | #100 | |
Apple Podcasts | #127 | |
Apple Podcasts | #210 |
Recent interactions between the hosts and their guests.
Listeners, social reach, demographics and more for this podcast.
| Listeners per Episode | |
|---|---|
| Gender Skew | |
| Location | |
| Interests | |
| Professions | |
| Age Range | |
| Household Income | |
| Social Media Reach |
This show centers on real, unscripted relationship therapy sessions where couples navigate intimate conflicts, patterns, and healing breakthroughs in front of a therapist. Episodes cover topics like communication breakdowns, parenting pressures, trust and intimacy, and the impact of past trauma on current dynamics, often highlighting resilience, accountability, and actionable steps to rebuild connection. Notable is the format itself: couples openly wrestle with difficult truths in a live-therapy-style setting, offering listeners honest takeaways about navigating complicated partnerships and making meaningful changes over time.
Rephonic provides a wide range of podcast stats for This Is Why We Fight. We scanned the web and collated all of the information that we could find in our comprehensive podcast database. See how many people listen to This Is Why We Fight and access YouTube viewership numbers, download stats, audience demographics, chart rankings, ratings, reviews and more.
Rephonic provides a full set of podcast information for three million podcasts, including the number of listeners. View further listenership figures for This Is Why We Fight, including podcast download numbers and subscriber numbers, so you can make better decisions about which podcasts to sponsor or be a guest on. You will need to upgrade your account to access this premium data.
Rephonic provides comprehensive predictive audience data for This Is Why We Fight, including gender skew, age, country, political leaning, income, professions, education level, and interests. You can access these listener demographics by upgrading your account.
To see how many followers or subscribers This Is Why We Fight has on Spotify and other platforms such as Castbox and Podcast Addict, simply upgrade your account. You'll also find viewership figures for their YouTube channel if they have one.
These podcasts share a similar audience with This Is Why We Fight:
1. MID
2. No Filter
3. Mamamia Out Loud
4. Everyone Has An Ex
5. Parenting Out Loud
This Is Why We Fight launched 8 months ago and published 19 episodes to date. You can find more information about this podcast including rankings, audience demographics and engagement in our podcast database.
Our systems regularly scour the web to find email addresses and social media links for this podcast. We scanned the web and collated all of the contact information that we could find in our podcast database. But in the unlikely event that you can't find what you're looking for, our concierge service lets you request our research team to source better contacts for you.
Rephonic pulls ratings and reviews for This Is Why We Fight from multiple sources, including Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Castbox, and Podcast Addict.
View all the reviews in one place instead of visiting each platform individually and use this information to decide if a show is worth pitching or not.
Rephonic provides full transcripts for episodes of This Is Why We Fight. Search within each transcript for your keywords, whether they be topics, brands or people, and figure out if it's worth pitching as a guest or sponsor. You can even set-up alerts to get notified when your keywords are mentioned.
Recent guests on This Is Why We Fight include:
1. Lize Ratliff
2. Georgia Louise
To view more recent guests and their details, simply upgrade your Rephonic account. You'll also get access to a typical guest profile to help you decide if the show is worth pitching.