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The Openlove101 Show

John & Jackie Melfi
Open Relationships
Swinger Lifestyle
Consensual Non-Monogamy
Communication
Non-Monogamy
Jealousy
Swinging Lifestyle
Consent
Boundaries
Communication In Relationships
Swinging
Fear
Trust
Compersion
Sexuality
Honesty
Openlove101
Relationships
Swingers Clubs
Boundaries In Relationships

This is your show to discuss open relationships, the swinger lifestyle, consensual non-monogamy - however you describe it, we're here to talk about it. Your podcast is hosted by John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs and the award-winning blog Openlove101.com. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of coupl... more

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Today we have some swingers club advice to help you make your experience as fun and safe as possible. In fact, we have 23 specific tips for you! Open relationships can be a lot of fun and very rewarding and one of the first steps into the swinger lif... more

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In this episode of Openlove101, John and Jackie are joined by Jackie's daughter, Ashley, to discuss what it was like growing up with parents in a consensually non-monogamous relationship. Ashley shares that her biggest concern wasn't the lifestyle it... more

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In this episode of Openlove101, John and Jackie Melfi share their top recommendations for creating a positive, comfortable, and enjoyable experience at a swingers club. Drawing from years of experience in the lifestyle, they break down five essential... more

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n this episode of Openlove101, John and Jackie Melfi reflect on a recent visit to a swingers club after returning from an extended vacation. What stood out to them most wasn't sexuality—it was the atmosphere.

As they sat observing the room filled w... more

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Recent Guests

Mr. Jones
Co-host of We Gotta Thing podcast, longtime lifestyle participant
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Episode: How the Lifestyle Transformed a 29-Year Marriage
Mrs. Jones
Co-host of We Gotta Thing podcast, longtime lifestyle participant
We Gotta Thing
Episode: How the Lifestyle Transformed a 29-Year Marriage
Dr. Nancy Sutton Pierce
Clinical sexologist with a doctorate in human sexuality
Independent clinician/educator
Episode: Monogamy Myths: Are We Doing It Wrong?
Ying Ying
Founder of SOP Lifestyle Productions, specializing in travel and events for the alternative lifestyle community.
SOP Lifestyle Productions
Episode: Breaking Stereotypes in Open Relationships 🌍
Dr. Alyssa Webb McCune
Licensed Professional Counselor and sex therapist
Natural Balance Counseling
Episode: The Psychology of Open Relationships: Insights from a Sex Therapist
Diana Ryan
Lifestyle and counseling coach, licensed counselor
360 Life Skills
Episode: Boundaries vs Rules: The Key to Open Relationship Success
Black Coco
Owner of Coco's Pleasure Palace, mentor, and speaker
Coco's Pleasure Palace
Episode: Breaking Myths About Swinging: A Unicorn's Perspective

Hosts

John Melfi
Co-host and lead voice; host of Openlove101-related shows and related initiatives, with two decades of experience coaching couples in consensual non-monogamy.
Jackie Melfi
Co-host and program co-creator; partner to John with extensive experience in coaching couples and leading open relationship conversations.

Reviews

4.2 out of 5 stars from 46 ratings
  • Best Advice for All Stages

    This podcast is by far my favorite of all the lifestyle podcasts. They are engaging and give excellent advice grounded in reality. Thank you

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Intuitive Intelligence
    United States3 years ago
  • Bad Medical Advice

    They push their idea of a plant only diet early on, by citing non-peer-reviewed studies claiming it as a "sex tip". Maybe they have good info on others, but that's a huge red flag for any advice given.

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    MattSac
    United States3 years ago

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Engaging and practical advice grounded in reality.”
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How the Lifestyle Transformed a 29-Year Marriage
Q: How has the lifestyle affected your marriage and communication?
Communication and self-reflection improved dramatically, with a focus on speaking honestly about needs and boundaries, which ultimately strengthened their bond and teamwork.
How the Lifestyle Transformed a 29-Year Marriage
Q: What was the biggest emotional challenge you faced early on, and how did you overcome it?
Jealousy and possessiveness surfaced; recognizing these feelings, discussing them openly, and deciding to re-engage with experiences helped them overcome fear and build trust.
How the Lifestyle Transformed a 29-Year Marriage
Q: How did your journey into the lifestyle begin for you as a couple?
It began with a clothing-optional vacation that exposed them to an accepting, non-pushy community; they observed open, honest people and gradually participated, which shifted their perception from fear to possibility.
Unlocking the Biology of Open Relationships
Q: Can you touch upon that a little bit for our viewers?
Evolution shapes our biology in ways that influence sexual behavior, bonding, and even jealousy; by recognizing these underlying patterns, couples can better communicate and navigate open relationships.
5 Emotional Triggers Behind Jealousy
Q: So Courtney was just asking me if you can be jealous and still be in a non-monogamous relationship. Is that possible?
Yes, jealousy can exist as part of the experience, but understanding and addressing the underlying fears makes it possible to maintain a healthy non-monogamous relationship or even a strong monogamous one.

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A show focused on consensual non-monogamy, swinging, and open relationships, featuring long-time hosts who coach couples through relationship dynamics, boundaries, and communication. Episodes blend personal stories, practical tips, and occasional expert insights on biology, faith, and community impact, with a strong emphasis on honesty, compersion, and living openly with curiosity. Notable is the hosts' practical coaching approach, club-owner perspective, and ongoing exploration of how relationships evolve in modern society, which can be especially compelling for couples, relationship coaches, and professionals seeking real-world guidance and community support.

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2. Mrs. Jones
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