
The Erotic Realm is the world's leading Erotic Psychology podcast, exploring the psychology of desire, kink, intimacy and erotic identity through conversations with kinksters, researchers, educators and experts.
Hosted by Emma, Sexologist and founder of Psychology of Desire, each episode explores the erotic realm of an individual one on one with a deep dive into their erotic psychology.
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| Publishes | Twice weekly | Episodes | 137 | Founded | 2 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | SexualityHealth & FitnessRelationshipsSociety & Culture | |||

What happens when the kink you're having is no longer the kink you actually want?
In this episode I'm joined by RednBlack to explore the psychology of ownership, Total Power Exchange, sadism and erotic identity.
After years within kink, Red experie... more
Can a man learn to be Dominant — or is dominance something you either have or you don't?
In this episode I'm joined by Justin, founder of The Dominance Academy, to explore the psychology of male dominance, masculinity and consensual power exchange. more
What happens when you love each other — but you don't want the same things sexually?
In this episode I'm joined by Amanda Dames, The Kink Consultant, to explore the psychology of mismatched desire, sexual compatibility and kink in relationships.
We... more
What's missing when the standard rules of kink assume everybody's brain works the same way?
In this episode Auntie Vice returns to explore the intersection of BDSM, neurodivergence and mental health — and her new book, Kinky & Complicated.
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A very insightful and real deep dive into kink and community. I love this show.
Despite the content and the presenter’s background in the subject, the pace is slow slow slow. The presenter sound like she is reading from a script, the guests are variable in interest and quality, and the episode are generally far too long. Needs production values and editing.
The interviews focus on the experience of each guest and uniquely meets them where they are at in their erotic journey. It’s so nice to hear perspectives and about roles that might not resonate with me for play but would love to know more about.
I’m a few episodes in and can’t wait to get through the catalogue. I like how Emma creates a calm and safe space for sharing, I’m learning alot.
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Across recent episodes, the show consistently centers erotic psychology, sexuality education, and relationship dynamics within kink-informed contexts. Listeners hear intimate conversations with researchers, educators, and practitioners who unpack desire, consent, power exchange, attachment, and the social stigma surrounding non-normative sexuality, often weaving in practical guidance for communication, safety, and boundary-setting. Notable throughlines include tantra and energy work, Shibari and artistic practice, online communities and platform dynamics, trauma and healing in kink, and how culture shapes erotic identity. The format tends to combine personal storytelling with actionable insights, making it a compelling resource for professi... more
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2. Amanda Dames
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