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The Erotic Realm is the world's leading Erotic Psychology podcast, exploring the psychology of desire, kink, intimacy and erotic identity through conversations with kinksters, researchers, educators and experts.

Hosted by Emma, Sexologist and founder of Psychology of Desire, each episode explores the erotic realm of an individual one on one with a deep dive into their erotic psychology.

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Latest Episodes

Can sexual energy be used in magick? And could BDSM, ritual and altered states of consciousness be connected in ways we don't yet fully understand?

In this episode I'm joined by Sanhre to explore the fascinating intersection of sex magick, BDSM, occ... more

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What happens when the very communities built around consent, freedom and sexual exploration develop their own forms of toxicity, manipulation and abuse?

In this episode I'm joined by Ayzad, a pioneering Italian BDSM educator, author and kink coach w... more

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Why does the human brain sometimes transform pain into sexual pleasure? And what can BDSM teach us about neuroscience, desire and consciousness?

In this episode I'm joined by Hermes Solenzol, a pain neuroscientist, writer and lifelong kinkster, to e... more

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Why does the human brain sometimes transform pain into sexual pleasure? And what can BDSM teach us about neuroscience, desire and consciousness?

In this episode I'm joined by Hermes Solenzol, a pain neuroscientist, writer and lifelong kinkster, to e... more

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Hermes Solenzol
Pain neuroscientist, writer and lifelong kinkster
Episode: #142 The Neuroscience of BDSM: Pain, Pleasure & the Kinky Brain with Hermes Solenzol Part 2
Andrea Feinberg
Author of Sex, Sensuality and the Senior Woman and a professionally trained business coach
Episode: #140 Desire After 70: Sex, Sensuality and the Senior Woman with Andrea Feinberg
Bethany Burgoyne
Pansexual non-binary woman, switch, sensualist, creator of The Sassy Show
The Sassy Show / Sassy Talent (talent agency)
Episode: #139 The Sassy Switch: Dominance, Submission, Gender & Kink Confidence with Sassy
Dr. Leigh Barlow
GP with a focus on LGBTQIA+ health, Kaleido Health Centre
Stigma Health / PrEP Health / Hyphen Health
Episode: #138 What Your Doctor Wants You to Know About Sex: STIs, PrEP & Queer Sexual Health with Dr Leigh Barlow
Caroline Hood
Sex therapist and clinical social worker
Private practice / Clinical work in sexuality
Episode: #137 Can You Keep Desire Alive? Female Desire, Sex & Long-Term Relationships with Caroline Hood
Kim Debron
Guest describing herself as MJ's girl and Master Joe's slave for 21 years
Former partner of Master Joe in Melbourne kink scene
Episode: #136 When Your Master Dies: MJ's Girl on Love, Loss & 21-Years of M/s Relationship
Red and Black
Kink practitioner focusing on control, power exchange, and ethical sadism
Independent educator/performer in Melbourne
Episode: #135 The Psychology of Ownership: Total Power Exchange, Erotic Identity & the Desire to Own with RednBlack
Justin Adams
Founder of The Dominance Academy
The Dominance Academy
Episode: #134 The Psychology of Male Dominance: Justin on Power, Masculinity & Submission
Amanda Dames
The Kink Consultant, sex and relationship coach specializing in kink and mismatched desire in couples
The Kink Consultant / Sematica
Episode: #133 The Psychology of Mismatched Desire: The Kink Consultant Amanda Dames on Sex & Relationships

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Emma
Host of The Erotic Realm, Sexologist and founder of Psychology of Desire

Reviews

3.6 out of 5 stars from 178 ratings
  • Fantastic show!

    A very insightful and real deep dive into kink and community. I love this show.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    The_Queensman
    Australia7 months ago
  • Tedious

    Despite the content and the presenter’s background in the subject, the pace is slow slow slow. The presenter sound like she is reading from a script, the guests are variable in interest and quality, and the episode are generally far too long. Needs production values and editing.

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    John626206
    Australia8 months ago
  • Informative, Fun, and Interesting

    The interviews focus on the experience of each guest and uniquely meets them where they are at in their erotic journey. It’s so nice to hear perspectives and about roles that might not resonate with me for play but would love to know more about.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    TxLadySage
    United Statesa year ago
  • Wow so fascinating!

    I’m a few episodes in and can’t wait to get through the catalogue. I like how Emma creates a calm and safe space for sharing, I’m learning alot.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    annie rainflower
    Australiaa year ago

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Pacing and production quality vary; some episodes feel lengthy or episodic in style.
Calm, safe space for sharing deep personal experiences, making listeners eager to explore more catalog
Interviews meet guests where they are in their erotic journey, offering varied perspectives even for listeners with different interests.
Insightful and real deep dives into kink and community; listeners appreciate candid conversations.

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#142 The Neuroscience of BDSM: Pain, Pleasure & the Kinky Brain with Hermes Solenzol Part 2
Q: So you're talking about whether or not we've always been kinky. You also mentioned that you wanted to discuss polyamory and monogamy, and whether these were natural aspects of being human as well.
Solenzol contrasts animal pair bonding with human relationships, arguing that humans have more flexibility and choice in love. He describes moving with his wife from ethical non-monogamy to polyamory and says people can choose how they approach love and relationships.
#142 The Neuroscience of BDSM: Pain, Pleasure & the Kinky Brain with Hermes Solenzol Part 2
Q: Do you have a particular definition of pain that you've defined it as, that you describe it as, or is that still something that you find hard to define?
Solenzol says pain represents a state of the body confronted with a physical threat, but that pain can sometimes be experienced as pleasant. He argues that defining pain as necessarily unpleasant reflects cultural conditioning.
#141 The Neuroscience of BDSM: Pain, Pleasure & the Kinky Brain with Hermes Solenzol Part 1
Q: Have you noticed these two different types or, you know, perhaps even more different types of subspace? And is this different chemicals being activated in the brain?
Solenzol distinguishes dissociation from subspace and describes pain-related noradrenergic and endorphin subspaces. He characterizes endorphin subspace as an embodied state, while dissociation involves separation from the body and may indicate distress.
#140 Desire After 70: Sex, Sensuality and the Senior Woman with Andrea Feinberg
Q: What do you hope a woman in her 60s, 70s or beyond believes by the time she closes your book?
Andrea hopes readers understand that their erotic life does not have to be over if they want to revive it. She suggests beginning with self-perception and everyday sensuality, which can be explored with or without a partner.
#141 The Neuroscience of BDSM: Pain, Pleasure & the Kinky Brain with Hermes Solenzol Part 1
Q: So how can pain become pleasure?
Solenzol says people may enjoy pain for its sensation, because it represents submission, because choosing pain can feel empowering or relieve stress, or because it can lead to subspace. Which sensations are pleasurable varies from person to person.

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Across recent episodes, the show consistently centers erotic psychology, sexuality education, and relationship dynamics within kink-informed contexts. Listeners hear intimate conversations with researchers, educators, and practitioners who unpack desire, consent, power exchange, attachment, and the social stigma surrounding non-normative sexuality, often weaving in practical guidance for communication, safety, and boundary-setting. Notable throughlines include tantra and energy work, Shibari and artistic practice, online communities and platform dynamics, trauma and healing in kink, and how culture shapes erotic identity. The format tends to combine personal storytelling with actionable insights, making it a compelling resource for professi... more

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Recent guests on The Erotic Realm include:

1. Hermes Solenzol
2. Andrea Feinberg
3. Bethany Burgoyne
4. Dr. Leigh Barlow
5. Caroline Hood
6. Kim Debron
7. Red and Black
8. Justin Adams

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