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Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating.

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Latest Episodes

We used to talk about spanking all the time, but is it still one of our favorite kinks? This week we discuss our current feelings on impact play!

Jump-Scared by Bruises | Spanking vs. Beating | Jillian Keenan Videos | Bastinado | Random Punching | T... more

This week, we chat with dating coach/columnist (and former pickup artist) Harris O’Malley, a.k.a. Doctor NerdLove, whose work we’ve admired for a long time! He gave us some advice on flirting, dating, conversational skills, and more.

Pickup Artistry... more

Romantic yearning can be deeply painful, but it’s also kinda hot and fun. This week we discuss our experiences with this unique emotion in contexts like long-distance relationships and unrequited love.

Is It Good? | General vs. Specific | Desire | D... more

This week, we discuss our favorite sexual fantasies of 2025, the sex & dating goals we set for ourselves last year, and our new goals for 2026.

Fantasies | Sex Robots | Work Sex | Forced to Be Bored | Safer Sex | Anonymous Sex | Femdom & Dorky Virgi... more

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Recent Guests

Harris O'Malley
Dating coach, columnist, and author specializing in helping men with dating issues
Episode: Flirt Alert!
Tuck Woodstock
Host and creator of Gender Reveal, journalist, and co-founder of Sylveon Consulting
Gender Reveal, Sylveon Consulting
Episode: Gender & the City
Addison Finch
Artist and friend of the show, knowledgeable about leather history
Episode: Leather Whenever
Mx. Nillin Lore
Author, content creator, and sex blogger known for their erotica and previous work.
Episode: Gender Splendor
Tina Horn
Author and educator
Episode: Giving Good Hole
Carol Queen, PhD
Staff sexologist at Good Vibrations and curator of the Antique Vibrator Museum
Good Vibrations
Episode: What Makes the Magic Wand So Magic?
Hallie Lieberman
Sex toy historian, journalist, and author of 'Buzz, A Stimulating History of the Sex Toy'
Episode: What Makes the Magic Wand So Magic?
Danielle Bezalel
Creator and host of the Sex Ed with DB podcast and a long-time Magic Wand devotee
Sex Ed with DB
Episode: What Makes the Magic Wand So Magic?
Dr. Lori Mintz
Emeritus professor at the University of Florida, licensed psychologist, certified sex therapist, and author of 'Becoming Cliterate'
University of Florida
Episode: What Makes the Magic Wand So Magic?

Hosts

Kate Sloan
Sex journalist and podcaster; an expert in sexual education and personal experiences navigating relationships and identities.
Billy Laura
Sex educator and podcaster; shares insights on sexual health, kink, and personal experiences within the realm of relationships.

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 558 ratings
  • the wisdom!!!!

    the podcast simply gives you so many good tools in your tool box for navigating relationships and creating containers in play that is so widely applicable in life

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    toesimpon
    Canada6 months ago
  • Fave kinky podcast!

    I just enjoy the energy both of you bring, the fun and curiosity! Non judgemental, body positive, trans inclusive, and always a joy to listen to

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Nis Anders
    Germany2 years ago
  • This is by far my favorite podcast. The hosts are energetic, whimsical, spunky, and extremely knowledgeable. They both care deeply about the work they do and greatly enjoy what they do and it's evident in their work. I highly recommend this podcast to anybody who wants to learn more about sexuality, kink, and non-monogamy.

    Podcast Addict
    5
    Chrysanthema
    2 years ago
  • Fun, funny, and very informative

    I’ve been listening for years now, and every week I learn something new which makes me both a better partner and a better human. Kate and Billy feel like friends (perhaps friends I have a crush on?), and they are always entertaining!!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Pops Fury
    United States2 years ago
  • Life changing

    I started listening to them a little over a month ago and I'm obsessed! I listened to almost all their episodes now and I have to say they're all amazing. They are so smart, charming, and funny about sex, kink, relationships, gender, and everything around that. It changed the way I see myself and communicate with my partner. I recommend it to everyone who has sex solo or with a partner (or multiple), or a relationship, or (and) is curious about kink. I love all of their episodes they have great ... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    stuck in my head full of trash
    Switzerland2 years ago

Listeners Say

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Listeners appreciate the humor and candidness of the hosts, appreciating their friendly banter and insightful discussions on sexuality and relationships.
Reviews highlight the educational value, with some noting the transformative and empowering impact of the knowledge shared.
Many praise the show's inclusive and sex-positive approach, making complex topics accessible and relatable.

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Yearn, Baby, Yearn
Q: Do you have any tools for kind of adjusting the volume knob on that feeling of yearning?
Distraction is always a good thing to have in your tool belt for when you need it, whether that be going out to an event with friends or by yourself or like putting on a movie or something.
Flirt Alert!
Q: How does someone stay in the moment while flirting or dating?
Harris recommends taking improv classes and being willing to genuinely engage with the other person's input to foster connection without overthinking.
Flirt Alert!
Q: What advice do you have for someone who doesn't know how to touch someone they're interested in?
Harris advises looking for casual, plausible reasons for touch, emphasizing the importance of nonverbal communication and adapting to the other person's comfort level.
Flirt Alert!
Q: How can someone gauge if someone is interested without being creepy?
He suggests using playful touch and gauging the other person's reactions to establish connection, while being mindful of boundaries and maintaining comfort.
Flirt Alert!
Q: How do you define flirting?
Harris describes flirting as a socially coded way of playfully saying, 'I like you,' which invites interaction, emphasizing its varied expressions depending on the context.

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Frequently Asked Questions About The Dildorks

What is The Dildorks about and what kind of topics does it cover?

This podcast features engaging and humorous discussions on a wide range of topics related to sexuality, dating, and personal relationships. The hosts explore the intricacies of human desires, dissect societal norms, and tackle the complexities of identities and preferences in the realm of sex. With episodes focusing on kink, vanilla vs. kink dynamics, self-confidence, and relationship communication, listeners can expect a mix of insightful conversations filled with personal anecdotes, expertise, and laughter, all while promoting a positive and inclusive approach to sexual education and exploration. Unique storytelling combined with candid banter creates a relatable atmosphere, making it appealing for anyone interested in understanding their... more

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2. Tuck Woodstock
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4. Mx. Nillin Lore
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7. Hallie Lieberman
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