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Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating.

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Latest Episodes

People believe all kinds of nonsense about anal play, so this week we’re busting myths about butt stuff.

Makes You Gay | Homophobe Ick | (Un)Natural? | Masculinity | “Sides” | Pain & Numbing | Sphincters | Permanent Damage | Pregnancy | Loophole | G... more

Are some sexual labels more cringe than others? Do our public labels differ from our private ones? And what’s up with people who don’t think we should use labels at all? This week, we’re continuing to dive deep on sex & gender identity labels.

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When it comes to sex and gender, labels can be helpful and affirming, but they can also be limiting and divisive. This week, we discuss our own labels, and what we think they achieve for us.

The Purpose(s) of Labels | Identity Affirmation | Internal... more

Asexuality is a highly misunderstood identity, so this week we’re discussing what it means to be ace – and why Kate is newly identifying that way!

What is Asexuality? | Access to Information | Neurodivergence | Why Use the Label? | (Not) Being Into ... more

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Recent Guests

Addison Finch
Artist and friend of the show, knowledgeable about leather history
Episode: Leather Whenever
Mx. Nillin Lore
Author, content creator, and sex blogger known for their erotica and previous work.
Episode: Gender Splendor
Tina Horn
Author and educator
Episode: Giving Good Hole
Dr. Lori Mintz
Emeritus professor at the University of Florida, licensed psychologist, certified sex therapist, and author of 'Becoming Cliterate'
University of Florida
Episode: What Makes the Magic Wand So Magic?
Carol Queen, PhD
Staff sexologist at Good Vibrations and curator of the Antique Vibrator Museum
Good Vibrations
Episode: What Makes the Magic Wand So Magic?
Hallie Lieberman
Sex toy historian, journalist, and author of 'Buzz, A Stimulating History of the Sex Toy'
Episode: What Makes the Magic Wand So Magic?
Danielle Bezalel
Creator and host of the Sex Ed with DB podcast and a long-time Magic Wand devotee
Sex Ed with DB
Episode: What Makes the Magic Wand So Magic?
Dr. Kris Taylor
An academic researcher from the University of Auckland focusing on masculinity and porn addiction.
University of Auckland
Episode: Messy Masculinity
Sage Monroe
Phone sex operator and consultant
Episode: Sage Advice

Hosts

Kate Sloan
A sex journalist and podcaster, co-hosting with expertise in various aspects of sexuality.
Billy Laura
A sex educator and porn maker, co-hosting and providing insights into sexual relationships.

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 553 ratings
  • the wisdom!!!!

    the podcast simply gives you so many good tools in your tool box for navigating relationships and creating containers in play that is so widely applicable in life

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    toesimpon
    Canadaa month ago
  • Fave kinky podcast!

    I just enjoy the energy both of you bring, the fun and curiosity! Non judgemental, body positive, trans inclusive, and always a joy to listen to

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Nis Anders
    Germanya year ago
  • This is by far my favorite podcast. The hosts are energetic, whimsical, spunky, and extremely knowledgeable. They both care deeply about the work they do and greatly enjoy what they do and it's evident in their work. I highly recommend this podcast to anybody who wants to learn more about sexuality, kink, and non-monogamy.

    Podcast Addict
    5
    Chrysanthema
    2 years ago
  • Fun, funny, and very informative

    I’ve been listening for years now, and every week I learn something new which makes me both a better partner and a better human. Kate and Billy feel like friends (perhaps friends I have a crush on?), and they are always entertaining!!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Pops Fury
    United States2 years ago
  • Life changing

    I started listening to them a little over a month ago and I'm obsessed! I listened to almost all their episodes now and I have to say they're all amazing. They are so smart, charming, and funny about sex, kink, relationships, gender, and everything around that. It changed the way I see myself and communicate with my partner. I recommend it to everyone who has sex solo or with a partner (or multiple), or a relationship, or (and) is curious about kink. I love all of their episodes they have great ... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    stuck in my head full of trash
    Switzerland2 years ago

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The hosts are commended for their chemistry and ability to tackle deep topics in a relatable manner, creating a safe space for exploration.
Listeners appreciate the engaging and humorous approach to sexuality, emphasizing education and support in sexual health and relationships.
Many listeners find the conversations empowering, particularly around issues like consent, women's pleasure, and inclusion in discussions of sexuality.

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Lip Service
Q: What are some of your favorite ways to get consent for kissing with a new person?
One effective way is to clearly express your desire, such as saying, 'I really want to kiss you right now,' which makes it clear without forcing a yes or no answer.
Lip Service
Q: Does this mean I'm actually a lesbian?
No, it could be about how the men are kissing or your feelings toward them, rather than an indicator about your sexuality.
Emotional Blue Balls
Q: How would you recommend processing these feelings on your own?
Be mindful to refrain from indulging in those feelings and pursue new interests instead to redirect your energy.
Ask Me (Almost) Anything
Q: What are your strategies for disclosing kinkiness?
It's important to include a disclosure of your own when asking someone about their kinks, as it shows vulnerability and creates a safe space for conversation.
And How About You?
Q: Have you ever been on one of these dates with someone who asked you like little to nothing about yourself?
Billy shares that being charming often leads him to carry conversations, and while he struggles with managing that expectation, he has learned to navigate the situation by engaging with his conversation partners.

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Frequently Asked Questions About The Dildorks

What is The Dildorks about and what kind of topics does it cover?

A vibrant exploration of contemporary sexual practices, relationships, and the intricacies of human behavior in intimate settings is at the heart of the discussions. The hosts tackle topics including consent, sexual dynamics, and the nuances of various kinks and fetishes, while also sharing personal experiences that enhance the relatability and humor of their dialogue. Episodes often feature insightful commentary on play parties, communication strategies surrounding intimacy, and explorations of sexual identity, making the content accessible for both newcomers and seasoned enthusiasts alike. Each discussion is imbued with chemistry and camaraderie, ensuring listeners not only learn but also find joy and affirmation in their personal journey... more

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1. Addison Finch
2. Mx. Nillin Lore
3. Tina Horn
4. Dr. Lori Mintz
5. Carol Queen, PhD
6. Hallie Lieberman
7. Danielle Bezalel
8. Dr. Kris Taylor

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