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Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating.

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This week we’re discussing interesting fetishes from the internet, including extra-large Fleshlights, opening Magic cards naked, a straight couple roleplaying Heated Rivalry, and more!

Sex with Strangers | Fraysexuality | Anticipation & Flirting | “... more

Does group sex hit different in your thirties? This week, we reflect on our evolving relationships to threesomes, foursomes, orgies, etc.

Party Trick | Popular Fantasy | The Invite (2026) | Why Is It Hot? | Essay on Spectatoring in Teenage Sex & Dea... more

How do you maintain a vibrant sex life when tired and in pain all the time? This week Billy interviews Kate about her chronic illness, and the ways she’s used kink to manage it and feel better about it.

Fainting & POTS | Caretaking & Bottoming | Kne... more

Why are we so drawn to sexuality as a discussion topic and field of study, and how are people in our industry treated differently than those with more “vanilla” jobs? This week, we examine the intersections of sex and professionalism!

Why Sex? | Sel... more

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Recent Guests

Calvin Hauer
Theoretical bad/good therapist, sex-positive therapist in Minneapolis
Minneapolis, Minnesota
Episode: When Your Shrink is Kinky
Harris O'Malley
Dating coach, columnist, and author specializing in helping men with dating issues
Episode: Flirt Alert!
Tuck Woodstock
Host and creator of Gender Reveal, journalist, and co-founder of Sylveon Consulting
Gender Reveal, Sylveon Consulting
Episode: Gender & the City
Addison Finch
Artist and friend of the show, knowledgeable about leather history
Episode: Leather Whenever
Mx. Nillin Lore
Author, content creator, and sex blogger known for their erotica and previous work.
Episode: Gender Splendor
Tina Horn
Author and educator
Episode: Giving Good Hole
Danielle Bezalel
Creator and host of the Sex Ed with DB podcast and a long-time Magic Wand devotee
Sex Ed with DB
Episode: What Makes the Magic Wand So Magic?
Dr. Lori Mintz
Emeritus professor at the University of Florida, licensed psychologist, certified sex therapist, and author of 'Becoming Cliterate'
University of Florida
Episode: What Makes the Magic Wand So Magic?
Carol Queen, PhD
Staff sexologist at Good Vibrations and curator of the Antique Vibrator Museum
Good Vibrations
Episode: What Makes the Magic Wand So Magic?

Hosts

Kate Sloan
Sex journalist and podcaster; host of The Dildorks; appears across episodes discussing sex education, kink, relationships, and media representation.
Billy Lohr
Sex educator and porn maker; hosts with Kate Sloan; discusses sex education, kink, and related culture across episodes.

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 575 ratings
  • the wisdom!!!!

    the podcast simply gives you so many good tools in your tool box for navigating relationships and creating containers in play that is so widely applicable in life

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    toesimpon
    Canadaa year ago
  • Fave kinky podcast!

    I just enjoy the energy both of you bring, the fun and curiosity! Non judgemental, body positive, trans inclusive, and always a joy to listen to

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Nis Anders
    Germany2 years ago
  • This is by far my favorite podcast. The hosts are energetic, whimsical, spunky, and extremely knowledgeable. They both care deeply about the work they do and greatly enjoy what they do and it's evident in their work. I highly recommend this podcast to anybody who wants to learn more about sexuality, kink, and non-monogamy.

    Podcast Addict
    5
    Chrysanthema
    2 years ago
  • Fun, funny, and very informative

    I’ve been listening for years now, and every week I learn something new which makes me both a better partner and a better human. Kate and Billy feel like friends (perhaps friends I have a crush on?), and they are always entertaining!!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Pops Fury
    United States3 years ago
  • Life changing

    I started listening to them a little over a month ago and I'm obsessed! I listened to almost all their episodes now and I have to say they're all amazing. They are so smart, charming, and funny about sex, kink, relationships, gender, and everything around that. It changed the way I see myself and communicate with my partner. I recommend it to everyone who has sex solo or with a partner (or multiple), or a relationship, or (and) is curious about kink. I love all of their episodes they have great ... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    stuck in my head full of trash
    Switzerland3 years ago

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Fans highlight practical sex education, kink discussion, and relatable storytelling as standout strengths.
Audience notes the show helps normalize conversations about kink and sexuality.
Reviews emphasize the hosts' respect for consent and clear communication.
The hosts are described as funny, intelligent, and engaging with a strong chemistry.
Listeners praise openness, inclusivity, and body-positive conversations.

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Feet of the Moment
Q: Could you give us your elevator pitch on what the SoleHole is used for?
The SoleHole is a silicone toy worn on the feet to make foot jobs easier and more effective, addressing mobility and stability challenges and providing a smoother, more comfortable experience for both partners.
Blowing Smoke
Q: What would you do if you were in a situation like the movie Yesterday, but the world forgot about anal sex?
We'd explore how novelty and cultural memory shape arousal and willingness to experiment, while acknowledging that some people may want to keep or dissociate from those practices depending on personal history, safety, and consent. The premise sparks a broader discussion about how societal norms influence intimate life.
Blowing Smoke
Q: If you had the power of time travel, how would you use it to your advantage in sex, kink, dating or masturbating?
We'd use it to test and iterate on intimate encounters, learning what works and what doesn't, while discussing consent, communication, and boundaries in a way that helps both people feel seen and safe. It also opens up conversations about memory, hindsight, and how past experiences shape future desire.
Yearn, Baby, Yearn
Q: Do you have any tools for kind of adjusting the volume knob on that feeling of yearning?
Distraction is always a good thing to have in your tool belt for when you need it, whether that be going out to an event with friends or by yourself or like putting on a movie or something.
Flirt Alert!
Q: How does someone stay in the moment while flirting or dating?
Harris recommends taking improv classes and being willing to genuinely engage with the other person's input to foster connection without overthinking.

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Frequently Asked Questions About The Dildorks

What is The Dildorks about and what kind of topics does it cover?

Two long-time friends unpack sex, dating, kink, and relationships with warmth, humor, and practical clarity. Episodes span from kink education and relationship dynamics to media depictions of romance, family conversations, and make-up as self-expression, often weaving in personal anecdotes and actionable tips. A notable strength is the balance between candid nerdiness and inclusive, non-judgmental discussion, making complex topics approachable for curious listeners who want both education and entertainment.

Standout moments include thoughtful explorations of consent, communication, and safety across varied fetishes; candid family and metamour discussions; and regular calls to action for better sex education and body-positive dialogue. The ... more

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2. Harris O'Malley
3. Tuck Woodstock
4. Addison Finch
5. Mx. Nillin Lore
6. Tina Horn
7. Danielle Bezalel
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