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Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman

Brandon Kyle Goodman
Relationships
Communication
Sexuality
Mental Health
Intimacy
Queer Identity
Sex Education
Friendship
Self-Love
Sexual Assault
Sexual Exploration
Dating
Body Positivity
Kinks
Love Island
Sexual Wellness
Polyamory
Pleasure
Self-Acceptance
Sexual Health

Tell Me Something Messy is your unfiltered companion for relationships, adulting, and defeating shame! Each week, writer and comedian Brandon Kyle Goodman invites listeners (aka Messy Mob) to leave perfectionism at the door and wade into the wonderfully unhinged world of dating, personal growth, and getting comfortable with disappointing your mom! (Seriously, it’s okay!) With candid guests and ple... more

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Latest Episodes

Actress Danielle Pinnock opens up about caregiver burnout. From learning to schedule rest and say "no," to breaking generational patterns and normalizing therapy and medication, this messy, honest conversation is for anyone who's ever run themselves ... more

The Villa is in shambles and Brandon has thoughts. This week, Brandon recap the messiest Love Island USA episode yet — who got dumped, why America's votes don't add up, and whether Sincere is really "changed. Then, PEN15 co-creator and The Sane One a... more

Anna Konkle (PEN15, Murderbot) pulls back the curtain on emotional incest — the covert, rarely-discussed wound of becoming your parent's confidant, spouse, and caretaker as a child. the family dynamics most people are too scared to name. Anna and Bra... more

Brandon recaps Love Island's most chaotic week, drags KC, weighs in on Oprah and NeNe, and brings back Dr. Joshua Gonzalez for the real tea on penis filler! 🏝️ Join us on YouTube for a Love Island Recap LIVE on Thursdays after the show! 📩 Got somet... more

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Recent Guests

Danielle Pinnock
Guest on the show, actor/comedian
Ghosts (TV show)
Episode: Caregiver Burnout, Aging Parents & Being Chosen to Break Generational Curses w/ "Ghosts" Star Danielle Pinnock
Anna Konkle
Actor and writer, author of The Sane One
Episode: Going No-Contact, Emotional Incest & Becoming "The Sane One," w/ Emmy-nom Anna Konkle
Devere Rogers
Frequent guest and host-side contributor
Tell Me Something Messy
Episode: "You Can Get Filler Where?!": STIs, PrEP & Queer Sexual Health w/ Dr. Joshua Gonzalez & Devere Rogers
Dr. Joshua Gonzalez
Urologist and sexual health expert
Urology practice
Episode: "You Can Get Filler Where?!": STIs, PrEP & Queer Sexual Health w/ Dr. Joshua Gonzalez & Devere Rogers
Justin Sylvester
Guest referenced as part of a prior conversation; described as being from The Yestergays
The Yestergays
Episode: "Girth Check!": Casa Amor Chaos, Zryce Core, and Threesome Commandments with Justin Sylvester of Yestergays
Nithya Raman
Los Angeles City Council member
City of Los Angeles
Episode: A Pride Weekend Oopsie, Love Island's Next Star, Why Queer Parties Hit Different & Los Angeles' Nithya Raman on the Leak That Changed Everyt
Yvie Oddly
HOST of HIGHKEY, drag performer and reality TV winner
HIGHKEY
Episode: Dog Owners Are Narcissists, Bathhouse Confessions & Calling Our Moms—The Messiest Pride Crossover w/ RuPaul's Drag Race Winner Yvie Oddly an
Ryan Mitchell
HOST of HIGHKEY, creator/host
HIGHKEY
Episode: Dog Owners Are Narcissists, Bathhouse Confessions & Calling Our Moms—The Messiest Pride Crossover w/ RuPaul's Drag Race Winner Yvie Oddly an
Taylor Tomlinson
Comedian and guest on the show
Comedian
Episode: The 'Toy Story' Hookup, Pick-Me Burnout & Inner Child Healing w/ Taylor Tomlinson

Host

Brandon Kyle Goodman
Host and lead discussion facilitator; widely credited as the driving creative force behind the show.

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 598 ratings
  • Love the show, your voice is needed!

    I’ve gained so much as a listener, new and diverse perspective is always needed — I hope you’re moved to continue at least until it no longer serves YOU, then I’ll allow it. Sending listeners your way, thank you for sharing your words and life with us.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    LoveRonni
    United States3 months ago
  • Brilliant, informative and fun

    Heart-opening, informative, warm and funny. This show helped me grow to understand others and our human kinks with kindness and insight.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Your Aunt Su-Su
    United States3 months ago
  • Best show EVER

    Brandon is authentic, honest, and simply pure joy. You always pick me up with deep meaningful conversations that are fun. Thank you thank you thank you and please don’t go anywhere!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Fan#999
    United States4 months ago
  • It’s the laughter for me!

    Fab ambience and safe space for all.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    tofugurrrllk
    United States5 months ago
  • Honest and shame free

    Brandon never ceases to bring both the fun and the heart to their work. They create a beautiful safe space for everyone.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    fwilson4
    United States6 months ago

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Caregiver Burnout, Aging Parents & Being Chosen to Break Generational Curses w/ "Ghosts" Star Danielle Pinnock
Q: How do you care for aging parents as an only child without losing yourself in the process?
Balance is essential: secure part-time caregiving support, enlist a small circle of friends for regular help, and set up practical systems (will, paperwork, access to finances) so you aren't shouldering everything alone; protect your own well-being by scheduling rest and boundaries.
NeNe Leakes' Return, Oprah on Whitney and We're So Done with KC from Love Island! Plus: Dr. Josh on Penis Filler
Q: What's a common misconception about sexual health education you encounter?
Many miss the element of pleasure in sex education; emphasizing that sex is not only about STI prevention and pregnancy but also about enjoyment and healthy communication.
NeNe Leakes' Return, Oprah on Whitney and We're So Done with KC from Love Island! Plus: Dr. Josh on Penis Filler
Q: What is penis filler and how long does it last?
Penis filler is a cosmetic procedure to enhance perceived girth; effects can last about two to three years, with careful technique to keep results discreet and natural.
NeNe Leakes' Return, Oprah on Whitney and We're So Done with KC from Love Island! Plus: Dr. Josh on Penis Filler
Q: What made you want to become a urologist?
Dr. Josh explains discovering a passion for surgical subspecialties during medical training, choosing urology for its mix of procedures and ongoing patient care, and a focus on men's health and sexual health to significantly impact patients' quality of life.
The 'Love Island" Toxic Loop and America's Rigged Votes: A Love Island USA Recap PLUS Anna Konkle on Estrangement, Beyoncé, and Aging
Q: How does a young creative stay weird, tender and politically awake without getting eaten by the industry?
Keep a core sense of self, break the rules when possible, and focus on purpose rather than chasing external validation.

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Recent guests on Tell Me Something Messy include:

1. Danielle Pinnock
2. Anna Konkle
3. Devere Rogers
4. Dr. Joshua Gonzalez
5. Justin Sylvester
6. Nithya Raman
7. Yvie Oddly
8. Ryan Mitchell

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