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Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman

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Sexual Exploration
Sex Positivity
Kinks
Queer Relationships
Sexual Identity
Sexual Liberation
Emotional Connection
Hemorrhoids
Religious Impact On Sex
LGBTQ+ Relationships
Farts
Feet
Topping and Bottoming
Communication
Relationships
Consent
Herpes
Self Acceptance
Polyamory
Intimacy

It’s time for a messy kiki about relationships, love, and sex! Tell Me Something Messy is an educational comedy podcast hosted by writer, actor, and sexual/mental wellness advocate, Brandon Kyle Goodman, henceforth known as Messy Mom! Each week Messy Patrons are invited to leave perfectionism at the door and wade into the wild, wonderful world of dating drama, pleasure pursuits, and communication ... more

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Long-term relationships of any kind can be tricky, so Franchesca Ramsey shares her experiences in opening communication even when you can't respond right away.

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Recent Guests

Hernando Umana
Broadway star, animal loving entrepreneur, and HIV and queer activist
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Episode: Thriving with HIV! w/ Hernando Umana
Franchesca Ramsey
Writer and social activist known for her work on social justice and her strong voice in the online community.
Episode: MESSY BONUS: Give Me A Minute
Jay Jurden
Mississippi born, New York based comedian, writer and actor
Episode: Yes Ma'am w/ Jay Jurden
Durand Bernard
Guest who discusses intimacy among men
Episode: MESSY BONUS: There's A Line With Family
Durand Bernarr
Singer, songwriter, and producer of the album Bloom
Self
Episode: Non-Practicing Straight Homosexuals w/ Durand Bernarr
Sophia Bush
Actress, activist, and storyteller
Good Sam, One Tree Hill
Episode: Your Joy & Your Sacred Rage w/ Sophia Bush
Erica Chidi
A guest discussing shame and its role in learning.
Episode: MESSY BONUS: This Is What Freedom Looks Like
Duran Bernard
Collaborator discussing intimacy and comfort.
Episode: Tell Me Something Messy Season 2 Trailer
Abby Jacobson
Actress and comedian discussing honesty and transparency.
Episode: Tell Me Something Messy Season 2 Trailer

Host

Brandon Kyle Goodman
Host of the podcast, Brandon Kyle Goodman is a writer, actor, and advocate for sexual and mental wellness. Known for his dynamic approach to discussing relationships, love, and sexuality, he creates a safe space for open dialogues, encouraging guests and listeners alike to embrace their authentic selves.

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 545 ratings
  • Freaking great show

    I love this show to bits. Fun, informative, reflective. Should be required listening!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Mixmastaboombaxta
    Canada2 months ago
  • Messy, Sexy, and Absolutely Necessary!

    Bold, funny, and refreshingly real! Brandon Kyle Goodman makes every episode feel like a safe, joyful hangout where truth and laughter flow freely. A must listen!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    jagil70
    United States4 months ago
  • loooove it!

    Listening to this podcast is like listening to my friends chat. So good, so well produced. thank you Brandon!! You are wonderful

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Twunk Heaven ;)
    United States5 months ago
  • THANK YOU

    This podcast makes me laugh, cry, LEARN, and … apparently helps me step into my Daddy era?! Say thank you.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Donny, I Am The Cute One Pod
    United States6 months ago
  • It’s hilarious, but

    I understand podcasts need funding but I’m immediately put off when a podcast opens with a 3 minute ad break, and then the additional two 3-5 minute ad breaks are so excessive. Really find it takes away from the fun of listening, and they’re not even interested into the show (ie. Brandon telling us about something) they’re just infomercials dropped in

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    Cnnryng_
    United Kingdom6 months ago

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Thriving with HIV! w/ Hernando Umana
Q: How do we celebrate and normalize joy as people living with HIV and help the world move past the old shame-filled narratives?
It starts with accepting yourself and then talking to others so they can accept you too. Show them what joy looks like for those living with HIV.
Non-Practicing Straight Homosexuals w/ Durand Bernarr
Q: How do we create the space for intimacy between men, gay or straight, that has nothing to do with sex?
We need to be gentle with one another and create safe spaces for empathy and understanding.
Non-Practicing Straight Homosexuals w/ Durand Bernarr
Q: What do you think has made you the exception?
It's just proximity; there are people that your friends have that you know, you just need to connect.
Non-Practicing Straight Homosexuals w/ Durand Bernarr
Q: Where'd you get the confidence to do that?
I've always been curious by nature and I like to know if I'm doing something right or if I need to modify anything.
MESSY BONUS: This Is What Freedom Looks Like
Q: What are your thoughts about shame being a teacher?
Goodman expresses that while they strive for a shame-free environment, there are instances where shame can serve as a lesson on appropriate behavior.

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2. Franchesca Ramsey
3. Jay Jurden
4. Durand Bernard
5. Durand Bernarr
6. Sophia Bush
7. Erica Chidi
8. Duran Bernard

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