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Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman

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Sexual Exploration
Sex Positivity
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Queer Relationships
Sexual Identity
Sexual Liberation
Emotional Connection
Hemorrhoids
LGBTQ+ Relationships
Feet
Religious Impact On Sex
Farts
Topping and Bottoming
Communication
Relationships
Consent
Herpes
Self Acceptance
Polyamory
Intimacy

Tell Me Something Messy is your unfiltered companion for relationships, adulting, and defeating shame! Each week, writer and comedian Brandon Kyle Goodman invites listeners (aka Messy Patrons) to leave perfectionism at the door and wade into the wonderfully unhinged world of dating, personal growth, and getting comfortable with disappointing your mom! (Seriously, it’s okay!) With candid guests and... more

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A messy romance story and and queer-coded characters from Sister Act 2.

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Trixie Mattel
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Atsuko Okatsuka
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Nina Parker
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Host

Brandon Kyle Goodman
Host of Tell Me Something Messy

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 574 ratings
  • Honest and shame free

    Brandon never ceases to bring both the fun and the heart to their work. They create a beautiful safe space for everyone.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    fwilson4
    United States2 months ago
  • Life changer

    Heart opening, warm, informative and so funny. This show has helped me grow to love myself and others with more thought, kindness and care.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Your Aunt Su-Su
    United States2 months ago
  • LOVE

    The message, the attitude, the vulnerability. Everything you do we are in awe of Brandon. Thank you for living in your light and proposing new ways of being!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    fatwitchbaby28
    United States2 months ago
  • Obsessed

    This show makes me so happy. I love Brandon and how thoughtful and caring he is with his guests and his audience.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    lreyes613
    United States2 months ago
  • Freaking great show

    I love this show to bits. Fun, informative, reflective. Should be required listening!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Mixmastaboombaxta
    Canada6 months ago

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The show blends humor with candid insights, though some listeners complain about ads distracting from the content.
Listeners praise warm, safe space for messy conversations and vulnerability.
Praise for inclusivity and authentic storytelling that feels like a chat with friends.
Guests are diverse and bring practical relationship wisdom.

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The 30s Reckoning: When Who You Were No Longer Fits w/ Foster Wilson and Cesar Cardona
Q: How do you balance personal evolution with accountability for past harms?
Acknowledge what happened, make amends where possible, own your mistakes, learn from them, and use those insights to guide future behavior while maintaining boundaries and harm reduction.
The 30s Reckoning: When Who You Were No Longer Fits w/ Foster Wilson and Cesar Cardona
Q: What is your approach to navigating a midlife crisis without blowing up your life?
Go slow, lean on your community, and ask questions about what would make you happier; embrace fear as a sign to grow and let change unfold piece by piece rather than all at once.
How to Deal With Jealousy in Open Relationships & Become A Better Partner w/ Scott Evans
Q: What are your thoughts on jealousy in non-traditional relationships?
Jealousy is a natural part of opening a relationship and can inform you about your own feelings and insecurities, but you must process it individually while communicating with your partner.
Makeup Counters, Hooking Up in Drag, and TikTok Snake Churches with Trixie Mattel
Q: What's your most controversial food opinion?
I don't like condiments and especially hate buttermilk ranch.
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Q: Which celebrity or fictional character could ruin your life and you'd say thank you?
RuPaul. She's brilliant and has permanently changed the world.

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Tell Me Something Messy centers on relationships, dating, personal growth, and navigating sexuality with warmth, humor, and a no‑shame ethos. Across episodes, conversations dive into attachment styles, open relationships, dating after gender transition, and the realities of modern love, often featuring guests who bring lived experience from LGBTQ+ communities, comedy, media, and relationship coaching. The show stands out for its candid, compassionate approach that invites listeners to own their messiness, learn, and laugh together, making complex topics feel accessible and welcoming for a wide audience.

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