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New York Times best-selling author and relationship coach, Allison Raskin, has spent the last few years researching what it really means to get married in today’s society. And now she is expanding her investigation with hands on experience as she navigates her first (and hopefully last) marriage with her husband and co-host, John Blakeslee. Pulling from the latest research, other couples and vario... more

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In the series finale of the podcast, Allison and John answer questions from the audience about how they deal with being attracted to other people, the process of online dating, and whether this show has been good for their marriage. During Marriage M... more

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Ash Perez joins the show to talk about his divorce and how to know when to walk away from a marriage that isn't working. It's a raw, vulnerable conversation about societal expectations, being in the public eye and finding yourself again. Former cowor... more

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John interviews Allison about her career as a relationship coach, including her reservations about coaching and the pressure she feels to be a perfect wife. During Marriage Moments, Allison appreciates being humored when she insists on an excessive p... more

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Allison and John share the harrowing story of their dog Phantom’s medical emergency, a crisis that left them overstretched, emotionally exhausted, and reckoning with their newfound responsibility for three different lives. They open up about what mak... more

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Recent Guests

Ash Perez
Writer, director, author and producer; former BuzzFeed coworker
Author of Speak Now; independent creator
Episode: When To Leave Your Marriage with Ash Perez
Nora McInerny
Author, speaker, host of Thanks For Asking
Thanks For Asking podcast
Episode: How To Marry A Widow with Nora McInerny
Bri LeRose
Successful writer and director
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Episode: I Never Thought I'd Get Married
Vicki Lawson
Journalist and author who co-wrote 'The New I Do'
Author, Journalist
Episode: You Don't Have A Real Marriage
Jackie Johnson
Podcaster and creator of 'How to Get a Second Husband'
Episode: I'll Be Remarried In A Year
Jen Glantz
Founder and CEO of Bridesmaid For Hire, providing hands-on support for weddings.
Bridesmaid For Hire
Episode: Why People Hire Fake Bridesmaids
Katie Schuette
Wedding planner and co-runner of KB Events
KB Events
Episode: Rehashing Our Wedding Day
Adam Schuette
Wedding planner and co-runner of KB Events
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Episode: Rehashing Our Wedding Day
Gabe Dunn
Writer, director, and co-host of the podcast 'Just Between Us'
Just Between Us
Episode: Allison’s “First Husband” Sits Down with her Second

Hosts

Allison Raskin
Host of Starter Marriage, relationship coach and New York Times bestselling author (commonly described as a relationship advocate and mental health influencer).
John Blakeslee
Co-host of Starter Marriage; former CIA officer; writer and policy researcher (as described in episode materials).

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 398 ratings
  • Thank you!

    I’m so sad that this podcast is ending. I was always so excited to listen to it every week. I am so grateful for your vulnerability and openness. I genuinely think this will shape me for a long time 🫶🏻. Also, you’re the first podcast I’ve left a review for!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    7592194664291;6
    United Statesa month ago
  • love!

    i listen every week! excited to listen on youtube now

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    GRATEFUL LISTENER!!!!!!!!!!!
    United Statesa month ago
  • Fievel

    The mouse movie is An American Tail or Fievel Goes West

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    nowele
    United States2 months ago
  • Love

    love this podcast, and love it even more to watch them on YouTube. They have such great, honest and candid conversations.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    marianag
    United States2 months ago
  • My favorate podcast

    I just came here after reading Allison’s new sub stack post about the podcast ending. This has been my absolute FAVORATE podcast. I hope we still get to see Allison and John more. Your interactions are so genuine and your connection is so apparent. I really love you guys and this podcast so so much♥️

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    vaishwitch
    United States2 months ago

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Listeners appreciate the candidness, humor, and practical takeaways, even for those not currently married.
The hosts have a dynamic that's both funny and thoughtful, making tough topics approachable.
The show provides valuable perspectives on relationships that work for a wide audience, not just married listeners.

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Our Best Marriage Advice
Q: What's one thing you're trying to work on/improve in your relationship?
They emphasize realistic communication about needs, reducing pressure to fix every moment, and learning how to respond to each other's anxiety in a supportive, non-pressured way.
Our Best Marriage Advice
Q: How has this podcast impacted your relationship, including having tough convos in public?
The show provides a structured space to have difficult conversations, acting like a form of couples therapy, though it can be emotionally exhausting and invite external judgment.
Our Best Marriage Advice
Q: Up first, how do you deal with the anxiety slash tension that comes from one partner being ready for engagement before the other?
We discuss the importance of hearing the other person's reasons without judgment, validating their feelings, and finding a pace that respects both partners, including discussing fears about security, career, and parenting plans.
I Never Thought I'd Get Married
Q: What fears remain for you about marriage?
Bri expresses the need to discuss divorce in a non-taboo manner to alleviate fears.
You Don't Have A Real Marriage
Q: Should we be encouraging people to be more interested in marriage because of its perks?
There's no agenda; if marriage works for you, you can shape it to your desired structure.

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Frequently Asked Questions About Starter Marriage

What is Starter Marriage about and what kind of topics does it cover?

A relationship-focused show that analyzes modern marriage from many angles, blending candid personal anecdotes with practical insights on communication, parenting, finances, and navigating social circles. Episodes cover topics like juggling friendships in long-term partnerships, non-traditional relationship structures, parenting post-birth, and the emotional dynamics of commitment, infidelity, and divorce. Noteworthy is the duo's dynamic chemistry—humor paired with vulnerability—and frequent guest conversations that illuminate diverse relationship experiences, from weddings to living arrangements and mental health considerations. The format often blends self-reflection with actionable takeaways, making it helpful for listeners exploring rel... more

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1. Ash Perez
2. Nora McInerny
3. Bri LeRose
4. Vicki Lawson
5. Jackie Johnson
6. Jen Glantz
7. Katie Schuette
8. Adam Schuette

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