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Private Parts Unknown: Sex & Love Around the World

Courtney Kocak
Sexuality
Sex Work
Motherhood
Onlyfans
Mental Health
Polyamory
Consent
Online Dating
Relationships
Non-Monogamy
Abortion
Sobriety
BDSM
Reproductive Rights
Aging
Pornography
Erotica
Feminism
Pregnancy
Parenthood

Private Parts Unknown (FKA Reality Bytes) is a Bourdain-style podcast exploring sex, love, relationships, gender, and seductive subcultures around the world. Join host Courtney Kocak and expert guests for hilarious, sex-positive conversations—destigmatizing everything from abortion to Ashley Madison, polyamory to PMDD, sex work to Shibari, and more. Travel series include Helsinki, Finland; Mexico ... more

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Episode: A Veteran Sex Worker-Turned-Death Doula on Domination, Self-Defense, Sober Sex & Life Lessons from the Dying with Vanessa Carlisle
Dana DuBois
Writer and podcaster; author of Pink Heron Pronouns; co-host of The Daily Whatever Show
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Billy Procida
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Kate Helen Downey
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Gustavo Turner
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Tess Barker
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Ian Kerner
Psychotherapist and sex therapist, author of She Comes First and So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex
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Jo Piazza
Bestselling author, journalist, podcaster, and mom of three
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Episode: Trad Wives, Momfluencers & Sex After Kids with Jo Piazza

Host

Courtney Kocak
Host of the show; leads long-form conversations on sex, relationships, and culture; associated with Pleasure Podcasts network.

Reviews

4.6 out of 5 stars from 522 ratings
  • Intriguing and arousing

    This show is informative, entertaining, AND titillating. Love the dynamic chemistry between the host(s) and the amazing guests that they feature. So many beautiful and fascinating stories Keep up the great work!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Beetle C
    United States6 months ago
  • I just started listening to this podcast and it’s amazing. I’m learning so much and deeply appreciate Courtney’s approach to sex and conversation.

    Podchaser
    5
    Hazel Berry
    7 months ago
  • Very informative. Enjoyed the first of many more to come . . .

    Podcast Addict
    5
    Louisiana Leon
    a year ago
  • Loving your podcast

    I was expecting more about sex lol, which is what pulled me in. But I’m so glad to be here for all the many “parts” of life and relationships that you are highlighting. Keep it up! You’re doing a great job! Sincerely, The bored but so busy housekeeper !!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Fancy1974
    United States3 years ago
  • Thought provoking coverage of taboo topics!

    This podcast gets me thinking. She covers topics that aren’t mainstream, but in a sensitive, comprehensive and balanced way. It’s definitely the podcast that gets me and keeps me thinking, and I love discussing it with my partner!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Stasie Mc
    United States3 years ago

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Overall reception highlights engaging storytelling and informative, nuanced takes on sex and relationships.
Some episodes provoke debate about ethical and societal implications of sexuality topics, which can spark strong opinions.
Listeners praise the show's candid, humorous approach to taboo topics and its insightful guest lineup.
Audience notes strong chemistry between hosts and guests, with thoughtful discussion that educates and entertains.
Fans appreciate accessible, privacy-respecting conversations that still push boundaries.

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Gen X Dating, Demisexuality & Parenting Through Gender Exploration with Dana DuBois
Q: How do you distinguish between identity and temporary states when discussing gender and attraction?
She uses the ser/estar metaphor to illustrate immutable aspects of identity versus temporary, situational feelings, emphasizing the importance of emotional connection for demisexuality.
Gen X Dating, Demisexuality & Parenting Through Gender Exploration with Dana DuBois
Q: What has parenting through a child's gender exploration taught you as a caregiver?
She shares practical and emotional guidance: support unconditionally, seek community among other parents, and avoid prescriptive paths while acknowledging that outcomes may vary.
Trad Wives, Momfluencers & Sex After Kids with Jo Piazza
Q: Plug your book, girl. Where can listeners find it and what's it about?
Jo promotes The Parisian Heist, a sexy all-woman art heist set in Paris, and also highlights her previous works, inviting listeners to explore her broader bibliography, including The Parisian Heist as a current summer read.
The Louis C.K. Comeback & What Accountability Do We Actually Want After Sexual Misconduct? with Tess Barker
Q: How do we define the actual harm in Louis C.K.'s case and what counts as accountability?
Harm is framed through power dynamics, coercion, and the impact on victims, with emphasis on acknowledgement, transparent steps for treatment, safety measures in workplaces, and a shift toward humane separation when necessary.
Who Owns a Baby? Sophie Lewis on Ethical Surrogacy & the Future of Pregnancy
Q: What is ethical surrogacy look like if that's even possible?
Ethical surrogacy requires recognizing that surrogacy is already embedded in unequal global labor patterns, and the focus should be on reforming care systems, ensuring consent, fair compensation, and broader social support to reduce coercive dynamics.

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A bold, sex-positive interview show that explores sexuality, relationships, gender, and subcultures around the world through candid conversations with guests who bring professional expertise or lived experience. Episodes frequently tackle taboo topics—from sex work and polyamory to abortion, PMDD, and surrogate labor—while weaving in travel-driven perspectives from different cultures. The format blends personal storytelling with practical insights, often featuring guests who are writers, researchers, educators, or industry insiders, and the hosts' dynamic, witty style keeps complex topics engaging and approachable for curious listeners.

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2. Vanessa Carlisle
3. Dana DuBois
4. Billy Procida
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8. Ian Kerner

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