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Loving BDSM

Loving BDSM
BDSM
Power Exchange
Kink
Relationships
Power Exchange Dynamics
Communication
D/s Relationships
Power Dynamics
Self-Care
BDSM Community
Mental Health
Polyamory
Submissive Power
Consent
Lingerie
Community Support
Sensory Experiences
Relationship Dynamics
Dominant Responsibilities
Mutual Respect

We help kinksters have happy, healthy power exchange relationships.

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A kinkster hasn’t had a great time with a kinky friend, but they miss the friendship they had at one time. Here’s the question: My question is related to BDSM but it’s about a...

The post Q&A: Should I Reconnect with My Kinky Friend? appeared first... more

It’s the last episode of 2025, so we’re keeping it casual and chaotic with a bit of silliness. In this episode: This month’s virtual munch live stream is this Friday, December 19 starting at...

The post Answering 10 Silly Relationship Questions app... more

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They’re in a long distance relationship and each have their own partners and lives to balance. They want to know how to have a playful power exchange when they can’t be together. Here’s the...

The post Q&A: How Do We Maintain Playful D/s While LDR?... more

We made a goal to reconnect and become more intentional in our power exchange this year. Now that we’re near the end of the year, let’s talk about how it went! In this episode:...

The post Our D/s Life in 2025 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

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Hosts

Kayla Lords
Host and co-host, actively engages in discussions surrounding BDSM topics and encourages open communication in relationships.
John Brownstone
Co-host focused on sharing insights into BDSM dynamics and supporting open dialogues about power exchange relationships.

Reviews

4.6 out of 5 stars from 822 ratings
  • I love this podcast

    I love this podcast and how open and unapologetic it is. I’ve written some stories where the characters engage in BDSM. BDSM isn’t something to be afraid of but rather embrace with the person you love and trust.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    cdd78
    Canada6 months ago
  • Very informative

    I am a new listener, and I’m almost two years into the kink community. I find this show very informative, especially since I consider myself somewhat new. I love the variety of personal stories they share, advice, and humor. I plan to keep listening as long as they keep running the show.

    I have only one ick about this show: the wet mouth from JD when he speaks. I love his personality, but I have to turn the volume almost all the way down when he speaks. I know I can’t be the only person hearing... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    LadyLuck2626
    United States10 months ago
  • Is this really an 800-episode podcast? I just discovered it and went for the episode titled "Getting our D/s life back in 2025" and it was PAINFUL to suffer through the first 10+ minutes of nonsense before getting to the topic.

    I'm at the 20-minute mark as I write this and the whole thing feels sloppy, unstructured and, tbh, boring AF.

    I had great expectations. Maybe I'll give it a second try if I happen to see an attractive title in the future, but because of all these details (plus the anno... more

    Podchaser
    2
    johan.adrian1
    a year ago
  • Thank you

    This was my first lifestyle podcast that I found and fell in love with. I can personally relate to these two and love listening to their experience and advice. They have really built a solid community to pull from and grow with. Please never stop.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    LadyBlooding
    United States2 years ago
  • Amazing knowledge

    My favourite podcast so far, informative, respectful and fun with social media interaction. Loving John and Kayla thank you for all your hard work ❤️❤️

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Sebbybastian or lil windex
    Australia2 years ago

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There are mixed reviews regarding audio quality and speaking style, with some suggesting improvements for a better listening experience.
Overall, listeners value the encouragement of authenticity and the advocacy for healthy power dynamics in relationships.
The hosts effectively engage with the audience, creating a feeling of community and support within the kink lifestyle.
Listeners appreciate the openness and unapologetic nature of the content, finding it relatable and informative.

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Answering 10 Silly Relationship Questions
Q: What's something I would absolutely pack in an apocalypse bag, even if it made no sense?
Diet Coke, because it's sealed and you wouldn't find clean water.
Answering 10 Silly Relationship Questions
Q: If we were stuck in an elevator for 10 hours, what would I do first?
You would probably start whining or hit the call button.
Answering 10 Silly Relationship Questions
Q: If I got famous, would it be for something impressive or something chaotic?
It would be something chaotic, possibly a rant or chaotic moment that goes viral.
Answering 10 Silly Relationship Questions
Q: If you lost me in a shopping mall or plaza, which shop would you look in first?
You would probably look in a coffee shop or food court, else you would call me immediately.
Answering 10 Silly Relationship Questions
Q: If we swapped bodies for a day, what's the first thing you think I do in your body?
You would be playing with it, helicoptering and testing it out.

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