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Loving BDSM

Loving BDSM
BDSM
Power Exchange
Kink
Relationships
Power Exchange Dynamics
Communication
D/s Relationships
Power Dynamics
Mental Health
Self-Care
BDSM Community
Polyamory
Submissive Power
Consent
Lingerie
Community Support
Sensory Experiences
Relationship Dynamics
Dominant Responsibilities
Mutual Respect

We help kinksters have happy, healthy power exchange relationships.

PublishesTwice weeklyEpisodes300Founded11 years ago
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Emotional intelligence and emotional regulation is extremely important for communication and happy, healthy power exchange relationships. In this episode: Join our Patreon during the 2026 Membership Drive What is emotional intelligence? From HelpGuid... more

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This is a question we get asked a lot – in this case, it’s more about not seeming “obvious” to your children. Here’s the question: I grew up in a religious family and while...

The post Q&A: How Can We Have a Power Exchange as Parents? appeared firs... more

A submissive has been in and wants to remain in a 24/7 TPE but wonders if it’s hopeless now that their Dom isn’t communicating. Here’s the question: I am 78, and my Dom is...

The post Q&A: Is Our 24/7 TPE Hopeless? appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Consider this a “political” episode but instead of rehashing the news, we’ll offer ways to get involved plus we’ll answer a question we received: can you have a power exchange with someone you disagree...

The post Let’s Talk About *Gestures Broadly... more

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Hosts

Kayla Lords
Co-host of the show, Kayla Lords brings a wealth of experience from her journey within the BDSM community, focusing on empowering listeners through open dialogue and advice on power dynamics.
John Brownstone
Co-host who complements Kayla's insights with his own experiences, focusing on the importance of communication and mutual understanding in power exchange relationships.

Reviews

4.6 out of 5 stars from 829 ratings
  • Long time listener

    Kayla and John are the best at giving advise for this kinky world we navigate. Very informative, lots of advise. Been listening since 2017!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Jessjeanf2002
    United States2 months ago
  • The best podcast 🙌🏻

    This podcast is top class. The best energy og great topics. This is my Friday treat.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    The Danish mamabear
    Denmark2 months ago
  • I love this podcast

    I love this podcast and how open and unapologetic it is. I’ve written some stories where the characters engage in BDSM. BDSM isn’t something to be afraid of but rather embrace with the person you love and trust.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    cdd78
    Canada8 months ago
  • Very informative

    I am a new listener, and I’m almost two years into the kink community. I find this show very informative, especially since I consider myself somewhat new. I love the variety of personal stories they share, advice, and humor. I plan to keep listening as long as they keep running the show.

    I have only one ick about this show: the wet mouth from JD when he speaks. I love his personality, but I have to turn the volume almost all the way down when he speaks. I know I can’t be the only person hearing... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    LadyLuck2626
    United Statesa year ago
  • Is this really an 800-episode podcast? I just discovered it and went for the episode titled "Getting our D/s life back in 2025" and it was PAINFUL to suffer through the first 10+ minutes of nonsense before getting to the topic.

    I'm at the 20-minute mark as I write this and the whole thing feels sloppy, unstructured and, tbh, boring AF.

    I had great expectations. Maybe I'll give it a second try if I happen to see an attractive title in the future, but because of all these details (plus the anno... more

    Podchaser
    2
    johan.adrian1
    a year ago

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Some feedback points out the need for improvement in speaking pace or audio quality, but the overall reception remains positive.
The podcast is praised for creating a welcoming space for exploring BDSM and kink, with many finding it helpful in navigating their own relationships.
Many reviews emphasize the sense of community fostered by the show, encouraging listener participation and engagement.
Listeners appreciate the informative and relatable discussions, often highlighting the hosts' openness and authenticity.

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Q&A: How Can We Have a Power Exchange as Parents?
Q: How can we have a power exchange as parents without the kids noticing?
You can integrate subtle actions that carry meaning for both partners, ensuring they appear as normal parenting behaviors to the children.
Q&A: Is Our 24/7 TPE Hopeless?
Q: How are y'all defining 24-7 TPE?
It's important to clarify definitions and expectations, as communication about what each partner wants is key for success.
Q&A: Is Our 24/7 TPE Hopeless?
Q: Is it hopeless? Can it be better?
Only you can know if it's hopeless; everything can always be better with the right communication and effort.
Let’s Talk About *Gestures Broadly at the World*
Q: Can you have a power exchange with someone you disagree with politically?
It depends; it heavily relies on shared morals and values.
Q&A: Were They Right to Be Angry?
Q: Is their anger fair or reasonable?
The hosts suggest that while the anger may not be fair, it's understandable. They emphasize that the listener is not responsible for their ex-partners' feelings and that they acted reasonably by wanting to remove intimate pictures after their breakup.

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Featuring discussions that explore the intricacies of power exchange relationships within the BDSM community, this series focuses on the multifaceted aspects of engaging in kink. The hosts share personal anecdotes and offer insights on topics ranging from practical advice for navigating dynamics in everyday life to addressing common challenges faced in kink relationships. Unique in their straightforward and open approach, the conversations seamlessly blend humor with discussion of deeper issues related to consent, communication, and emotional health. Listeners can expect a supportive and informative environment that encourages self-exploration and community building among kink enthusiasts.

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