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Loving BDSM

Loving BDSM
Power Exchange
BDSM
Kink
Communication
Power Exchange Relationships
Mental Health
Kink Community
Relationships
Consent
Communication In Relationships
Power Exchange Dynamics
Trust
Parenting
Non-Monogamy
Dominance and Submission
Relationship Dynamics
Kink Relationships
Submission
Intimacy
Communication Skills

We help kinksters have happy, healthy power exchange relationships.

PublishesWeeklyEpisodes300Founded11 years ago
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In the final installment of our conflict in D/s series, we’re talking about what do to after you’ve resolved this conflict to learn from it and (hopefully) avoid future conflict. In this episode: Fundraiser...

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In this week’s episode, we’re continuing our series on conflict on D/s and answering the question, “What do we do about it when it happens?” In this episode: No episode next week Friday night...

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This week’s episode is the first in a series on dealing with conflict in your power exchange, and we’re talking about what can cause conflict. In this episode: New live stream time starts NEXT...

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Note: If you need to skip the part with a content warning, fast forward by about 7 minutes. In this week’s episode, we discuss the fact that Dominant’s may use their authority and control...

The post When a Dom Says No appeared first on Loving BDSM... more

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Hosts

Kayla Lord
Host of the show, part of the couple featured in the discussions
John Brownstone
Co-host and partner in discussions on kink, relationships, and balance

Reviews

4.6 out of 5 stars from 836 ratings
  • My Favorite Podcast!

    Loving BDSM is the only podcast I listen to on a regular basis. Kayla and JB are great together! They’re very informative and always make me laugh. I always stick around for the bonus section to hear about their escapades and about Lola, Onyx and Ella.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Listener since 2020
    United States3 months ago
  • Long time listener

    Kayla and John are the best at giving advise for this kinky world we navigate. Very informative, lots of advise. Been listening since 2017!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Jessjeanf2002
    United States5 months ago
  • The best podcast 🙌🏻

    This podcast is top class. The best energy og great topics. This is my Friday treat.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    The Danish mamabear
    Denmark5 months ago
  • I love this podcast

    I love this podcast and how open and unapologetic it is. I’ve written some stories where the characters engage in BDSM. BDSM isn’t something to be afraid of but rather embrace with the person you love and trust.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    cdd78
    Canadaa year ago
  • Very informative

    I am a new listener, and I’m almost two years into the kink community. I find this show very informative, especially since I consider myself somewhat new. I love the variety of personal stories they share, advice, and humor. I plan to keep listening as long as they keep running the show.

    I have only one ick about this show: the wet mouth from JD when he speaks. I love his personality, but I have to turn the volume almost all the way down when he speaks. I know I can’t be the only person hearing... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    LadyLuck2626
    United Statesa year ago

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Feedback notes strong community-building and helpful guidance, with some complaints about audio quality or voice tones in rare episodes.
Audience values authenticity, humor, and respectful dialogues around sensitive topics.
Listeners praise the hosts' chemistry and practical, open discussions about kink and relationships.

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BDSM Q&A
Q: How do you find time to keep the DS going when you have limited time together?
Prioritize scheduling and small, meaningful acts that reinforce the dynamic, such as daily routines, text check-ins, and small tasks that remind both partners of their roles, plus plan for longer, dedicated time when possible.
Q&A: How Can We Have a Power Exchange as Parents?
Q: How can we have a power exchange as parents without the kids noticing?
You can integrate subtle actions that carry meaning for both partners, ensuring they appear as normal parenting behaviors to the children.
Q&A: Is Our 24/7 TPE Hopeless?
Q: How are y'all defining 24-7 TPE?
It's important to clarify definitions and expectations, as communication about what each partner wants is key for success.
Q&A: Is Our 24/7 TPE Hopeless?
Q: Is it hopeless? Can it be better?
Only you can know if it's hopeless; everything can always be better with the right communication and effort.
Let’s Talk About *Gestures Broadly at the World*
Q: Can you have a power exchange with someone you disagree with politically?
It depends; it heavily relies on shared morals and values.

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Across episodes, the show centers on healthy power-exchange dynamics, clear communication, and practical guidance for navigating kink in real life. Topics span conflict resolution, initiation and consent, long-distance DS dynamics, and balancing spontaneity with negotiated safety. Listeners frequently get personal anecdotes, concrete strategies for negotiation, and emphasis on mutual care, trust, and emotional intelligence within BDSM relationships. A notable strength is translating complex relationship concepts into actionable tips, with a candid, humorous tone that makes sensitive topics approachable for couples, singles exploring kink, and curious newbies alike.

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