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Loving BDSM

Loving BDSM
BDSM
Power Exchange
Kink
Relationships
Power Exchange Dynamics
Communication
D/s Relationships
Power Dynamics
Self-Care
BDSM Community
Mental Health
Polyamory
Consent
Submissive Power
Lingerie
Community Support
Sensory Experiences
Dominant Responsibilities
Mutual Respect
Relationship Dynamics

We help kinksters have happy, healthy power exchange relationships.

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This probably seems really random, but we’re bringing you a quick “commercial” break to let you know our podcast/live stream plans for the week of Thanksgiving 2025. We hope you can join us on...

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Even though YouTube doesn’t impact the podcast, what they do to our channel does impact our plans. That’s why this week’s episode is a bonus section episode, lol. In this episode: Join us for...

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A submissive works in the medical field and can’t wear her usual collar and wants to know what she can do instead. Here’s the question: I am a collared submissive to my Daddy. I...

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Trying to figure out what “soft BDSM” even is took us on a journey. Let’s talk about it. In this episode: Our Holiday Cricket tier – and holiday party sign up – ends on...

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Hosts

Kayla Lords
Co-host of the podcast, involved in discussions about BDSM topics and focused on community support and education.
John Brownstone
Co-host focusing on working with submissives in BDSM dynamics, fostering discussions around power exchange relationships.

Reviews

4.6 out of 5 stars from 822 ratings
  • I love this podcast

    I love this podcast and how open and unapologetic it is. I’ve written some stories where the characters engage in BDSM. BDSM isn’t something to be afraid of but rather embrace with the person you love and trust.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    cdd78
    Canada5 months ago
  • Very informative

    I am a new listener, and I’m almost two years into the kink community. I find this show very informative, especially since I consider myself somewhat new. I love the variety of personal stories they share, advice, and humor. I plan to keep listening as long as they keep running the show.

    I have only one ick about this show: the wet mouth from JD when he speaks. I love his personality, but I have to turn the volume almost all the way down when he speaks. I know I can’t be the only person hearing... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    LadyLuck2626
    United States8 months ago
  • Is this really an 800-episode podcast? I just discovered it and went for the episode titled "Getting our D/s life back in 2025" and it was PAINFUL to suffer through the first 10+ minutes of nonsense before getting to the topic.

    I'm at the 20-minute mark as I write this and the whole thing feels sloppy, unstructured and, tbh, boring AF.

    I had great expectations. Maybe I'll give it a second try if I happen to see an attractive title in the future, but because of all these details (plus the anno... more

    Podchaser
    2
    johan.adrian1
    10 months ago
  • Thank you

    This was my first lifestyle podcast that I found and fell in love with. I can personally relate to these two and love listening to their experience and advice. They have really built a solid community to pull from and grow with. Please never stop.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    LadyBlooding
    United Statesa year ago
  • Amazing knowledge

    My favourite podcast so far, informative, respectful and fun with social media interaction. Loving John and Kayla thank you for all your hard work ❤️❤️

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Sebbybastian or lil windex
    Australia2 years ago

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Some feedback points to preferences on the hosts' speaking styles, indicating room for improvement in communication dynamics.
Overall, many describe the podcast as a safe space for exploring vulnerable topics around BDSM and relationships.
Listeners appreciate the openness and relatability of the hosts, often citing their informative discussions as a highlight.
The interactive Q&A format has proven engaging, allowing listeners to feel involved and valued within the community.

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Q&A: What Can I Wear Instead of My Collar?
Q: I'm a collared submissive to my daddy. I also work in medicine and cannot wear my collar at work. My daddy is very much okay with that. Any suggestions for a sort of comfort item for such high-stress situations?
Explore alternatives like day collars that aren't easily recognizable, or meaningful items like rings or bracelets that symbolize your relationship and provide comfort.
Q&A: Should I Change Our Dynamic Even Though I’m Happy With What We Have?
Q: What should I do if I'm considering changing the dynamic of my relationship?
Communicate openly with your partner about your feelings and desires, as they may also have thoughts on exploring new dynamics.
It’s Our 10th Podcast Anniversary!
Q: What apps or websites do you trust for meeting a kinky partner?
No singular trusted place exists; it's about finding places where kinky people gather, like FetLife.
It’s Our 10th Podcast Anniversary!
Q: How do you navigate shame related to being a kinky person in a vanilla culture?
Kayla mentions growing confidence in herself and surrounding herself with other kinksters.
It’s Our 10th Podcast Anniversary!
Q: Why would someone want to be a Dom? What's the appeal about all that responsibility?
John expresses that it allows taking back control, especially after a chaotic childhood.

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