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The Way You Show Up

Kimberly Beam Holmes, PhD
Marriage
Mental Health
Burnout
Relationships
Communication
Trauma
Intimacy
Personal Development
Social Media
Goal Setting
Anxiety
Emotional Intelligence
Sleep
Divorce
Pies
Marriage Helper
Emotional Processing
Mindfulness
Trust
Self-Care

Most people are living a version of themselves that they never choose.You've been showing up for your spouse, your kids, and your career—but you've been doing it on autopilot. You're living within a ceiling built by your past and sustained by your habits.I'm Dr. Kimberly Beam Holmes. After a decade transforming marriages at Marriage Helper, I've realized that the greatest tragedy isn't a failed re... more

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Marriage Helper Couples Workshop: bit.ly/3PPVE1C

Stop Trying To Fix Your Marriage Fast: youtu.be/GxRUPCSELq8

Submit Your Questions for the Q&A Segment: bit.ly/3Tv4287

Save My Marriage Course Waitl... more

Learn more about the Marriage Helper Couples Workshop: marriagehelper.com/couples-workshop/

You are such an idiot.

That is what I said to myself. Out loud. For days.

Over a pair of AirPods.

I left the case on my bumper, drove off, and los... more

I failed my driver's test before I ever pulled out of the parking lot.

Sixteen years old. Red Miata convertible. The one thing I wanted more than anything.

Gone in under a minute.

I sat through the rest of that test convinced I could win her over.... more

Everyone wants to sprint through the hard part of marriage.

I understand why. When there's been infidelity. When trust has been broken. When you feel more like roommates than husband and wife. You want it over as fast as you possibly can.

But I'll ... more

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Recent Guests

John Gottman
Renowned relationship researcher, founder of the Love Lab
Gottman Institute / University research programs
Episode: Dr. John Gottman Reveals All The Top Secrets For Great Relationships
Katie Simkins
Guest sharing her faith journey and ministry work
Homeless ministry founder/director; Christian community leader
Episode: The Way God Shows Up — Katie Simkins
Eva Daniel
Speechwriter and speech coach
Ramsey Solutions (former), Focus on the Family (former)
Episode: The Confidence Blueprint: How To Own Any Room
Rubel Shelly
The guest, a theologian and long-time pastor with insights on Christianity and politics
Independent theologian and author
Episode: God Is Not A Republican (Or A Democrat)
Jared Pratt
AI savant; team member at Marriage Helper; AI expert
Marriage Helper
Episode: What No One Is Telling You About Using AI
Cory Shumate
Pastor, invited guest on the episode
Episode: Did Jesus Really Raise From The Dead?
Meredith Ball
LPC, Marriage Helper Certified Coach
Marriage Helper
Episode: The Biggest Mistake You Make When Friends Ask for Advice with Meredith Ball
Emily Allen
Friend of the host, guest sharing her personal journey with eating disorders
Episode: For Anyone Who's Ever Struggled With Their Body... Listen To This
Micheal Felker
Friend and peer of the host, discussing psychology and leadership topics
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Episode: How To Stop Living Everyone Else's Vision For Your Life with Micheal Felker

Host

Kimberly Beam Holmes
Host of The Way You Show Up, Marriage Helper

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 567 ratings
  • Best podcast

    I am always looking forward to the next episode. Thank you! 🙏🏻

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Anaivis8
    United States2 years ago
  • So much wisdom and heart!

    This is a great podcast with so much wisdom and heart.

    Episodes are compelling and fly by—and contain gems and life lessons that will serve you for the rest of your life.

    Wonderful podcast. One of our favorites!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Euphoric Team
    United States2 years ago
  • Excellent Show!

    Kimberly delivers a wonderful show with a variety of topics.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Sharononp
    United States2 years ago
  • Great Program

    Took the three day course and now, almost completed the PIES University. What an eye opening program. I have learned so much in the short amount I time I have been involved.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    AOL review
    United States2 years ago
  • Dr. Daniel Lieberman's dopamine podcast was very well done.

    Hi Kimberly, I enjoyed your conversation with Dr. Lieberman, and got a lot out of the podcast, especially towards the end of the episode where he discussed how dopamine and the PIES concept go together. Thx!

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    Bigstepper12
    United States2 years ago

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Dr. John Gottman Reveals All The Top Secrets For Great Relationships
Q: How do you define commitment across dating and marriage?
Commitment is an active, daily process of appreciating, communicating, and staying connected, not just a vow at the altar; it involves keeping voice to concerns and maintaining trust.
Dr. John Gottman Reveals All The Top Secrets For Great Relationships
Q: What led you to want to study marriage and relationships to begin with?
The guest explains that personal challenges in his own relationships, plus collaboration with a partner, motivated early research into what makes relationships work and how masters differ from those who struggle.
The Confidence Blueprint: How To Own Any Room
Q: What role does authentic storytelling play in effective speaking?
Authenticity keeps the audience engaged; speakers should share their own stories and unique perspective, credit others where due, and avoid outsourcing thought leadership to AI or others.
The Confidence Blueprint: How To Own Any Room
Q: How should someone overcome nerves and deliver a confident presentation?
Use techniques like distanced self-talk, power poses, grounding, strategic pauses, and thorough practice with real people to ensure content is clear and authentic rather than relying on filler words.
The Confidence Blueprint: How To Own Any Room
Q: What is the Spark Framework and how does it help someone write a speech quickly?
It's a fast, structured approach that starts with a story, defines the problem, outlines actions, resolves the narrative, and ends with a knockout close, guiding the speaker to a clear, audience-focused core message.

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What is The Way You Show Up about and what kind of topics does it cover?

A show built around personal growth, high-performance living, and relationship leadership through the lens of the PIES framework (Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, Spiritual). Episodes blend practical coaching, faith-informed reflections, and interviews with researchers, coaches, and faith leaders to help listeners show up more intentionally in marriage, family, and work. Noteworthy is a consistent emphasis on actionable frameworks, like communication skills, boundary setting, and self-differentiation, paired with candid storytelling from the host and expert guests. The format tends to mix science-based insights with faith-informed guidance, making it especially helpful for busy professionals seeking to improve relationships and leadership... more

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2. Katie Simkins
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4. Rubel Shelly
5. Jared Pratt
6. Cory Shumate
7. Meredith Ball
8. Emily Allen

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