Rephonic
Artwork for How To Destroy Everything

How To Destroy Everything

HTDE | QCODE
Family Dynamics
Richard Jacobs
Narcissism
Parenting
Narcissistic Personality Disorder
Courtship
Therapy
Childhood Trauma
Marriage
Mental Health
Toxic Relationships
Emotional Healing
Psychology
Religion
Sandy Jacobs
Richard M. Jacobs
Supreme Court
Trauma
Emotional Manipulation
Law

This is the true story of Richard Jacobs – a narcissist who destroyed a childhood, a marriage, a family, and a community. He sued every sentient being on the face of the earth, got banned from restaurants, and inspired a support group composed solely of people he traumatized. He stole notary stamps, hacked emails, forged signatures… and won a U.S. Supreme Court case. He was also my dad. Join us ea... more

PublishesWeeklyEpisodes44Founded2 years ago
Categories
DocumentarySociety & Culture

Listen to this Podcast

Artwork for How To Destroy Everything

Latest Episodes

In this special bonus episode, we hear Toughen Up from the shared perspective of Stephen’s sisters, Lisa and Sheila. Hear how they navigated a childhood of fear, loss and abandonment, and more importantly, where they are today.

Learn more about your... more

In the season finale, unable to carry on alone, Eugene finally surrenders and moves into an Assisted Living facility. He’s not there long before he is hospitalized and enters into a steep decline. Before he passes away, Stephen’s father finds his ver... more

It’s 15 years later and Eugene’s wife Helen dies very suddenly, leaving him very much adrift. At the urging of a priest, Stephen’s father learns to ask for help at the gravesite, then pushes on alone.

In our interview, Danny and Darren learn how Ste... more

With Stephen off to college, his mother strikes out on her own, renting a room in a house and scoring her dream job. Not long after, however, Maureen is diagnosed with terminal cancer and eventually makes peace with Eugene and her past. After her ash... more

Key Facts

Accepts Guests
Accepts Sponsors
Contact Information
Podcast Host

Similar Podcasts

People also subscribe to these shows.

Deep Cover
Deep CoverPushkin Industries
Hysterical
HystericalWondery | Pineapple Street Studios
Betrayal: Weekly
Betrayal: WeeklyiHeartPodcasts and Glass Podcasts

Recent Guests

Lisa Kieran
Sister of Stephen Kieran
Episode: How To Destroy Everything Presents: Toughen Up - The Interview with Lisa and Sheila (Bonus Episode)
Sheila Kieran
Sister of Stephen Kieran
Episode: How To Destroy Everything Presents: Toughen Up - The Interview with Lisa and Sheila (Bonus Episode)
Stephen Kieran
Writer and performer of Toughen Up, sharing personal stories related to his mother’s struggles.
Episode: How To Destroy Everything Presents: Toughen Up - Episode 8: Albertsons, Aspirin and Telling the Truth
Ky Dickens
An award-winning acclaimed filmmaker and podcast host known for diving into complex social issues to spark change.
Host of The Telepathy Tapes
Episode: You Might Also Like: On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Mark Kruger
Lawyer who helped Sandy Jacobs
Episode: Interregnum: How to Destroy a Live Show
Katie Jacobs
Danny's wife, supporting the podcast's emotional journey
Episode: Interregnum: How to Destroy the Calm Before the Storm
Tom Ranolo
A man whose mother was represented by Richard Jacobs in a divorce case and who played a critical role in gathering evidence against him for disbarment.
Episode: Episode 15: How to Destroy Richard Jacobs
Danny's Brother
Close family member sharing personal insights
Episode: Episode 14: How to Destroy a Brotherhood Part 2
Susie Alice
Mother-in-law of Danny Jacobs
Episode: Episode 12: How to Destroy a Daughter-in-Law

Hosts

Danny Jacobs
Co-host of a podcast focusing on the impact of narcissistic behavior within familial relationships, with a personal narrative intertwined with the content.
Darren Grodsky
Co-host alongside Danny Jacobs, exploring deep familial narratives and the repercussions of a father's narcissism on relationships and community.

Reviews

4.4 out of 5 stars from 3.2k ratings
  • Worth it!

    This was wonderful storytelling and so enjoyable to hear. I wish the author & his sisters could tell us more.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Soul’s Core
    United States3 months ago
  • A trip sometimes worth taking

    I have had a full range of emotions regarding this podcast. I liked being the fly on a wall for the family drama although the reenactments could be a little cringe sometimes. I didn’t like jumping back and forth with the timeline, it made it feel more like a brain dump or chaotic. The rumination in some episodes was a bit much, I think it would have been more helpful if Danny had the discussions with a therapist or specialist in narcissism so they could guide the conversation more. I cannot get ... more

    Apple Podcasts
    2
    St.ace82
    United States3 months ago
  • Give me more Stephen

    Loved both seasons but they are extremely different. I especially loved hearing Stephen talk at the end of the episodes in Toughen Up. I want to know more snd hear all your lessons! When is the one man show touring?

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    fizzcan
    United States4 months ago
  • Love this podcast

    This podcast is like listening to a great TV series. It’s funny, shocking and a great story. Danny and his sidekick are interesting to listen to and I enjoy their back and forth. I love the music in the background and love, love, love the little reenactments. I also love Danny’s mom - God love her! She’s been through a lot.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    DLS0626
    United States4 months ago
  • Dear Lisa

    I was you in my family dynamic. I wonder if you will ever know how truly remarkable you are.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    andi.b22
    United States4 months ago

Listeners Say

Key themes from listener reviews, highlighting what works and what could be improved about the show.

Some find certain aspects challenging due to the discomfort surrounding the subjects discussed, yet express gratitude for the bravery in addressing such topics.
Many enjoy the mix of humor amidst serious themes, creating a unique blend appealing to a wide audience.
Overall, listener feedback highlights the potential for emotional growth and healing through shared experiences.
There is criticism regarding the production choices in recent seasons, with some feeling it has detracted from the intimacy of earlier episodes.
Listeners appreciate the vulnerability and honesty in storytelling, often finding the narratives deeply relatable and eye-opening.

Chart Rankings

How this podcast ranks in the Apple Podcasts, Spotify and YouTube charts.

Talking Points

Recent interactions between the hosts and their guests.

How To Destroy Everything Presents: Toughen Up - Episode 10: Assisted So-Called Living, Something's Gotta Get Ya and The Punchline
Q: Has it moved you at all, do you think?
It has moved my perception of what's possible.
How To Destroy Everything Presents: Toughen Up - Episode 10: Assisted So-Called Living, Something's Gotta Get Ya and The Punchline
Q: If your mom and dad heard Toughen Up, what would they say about it?
I think they would have a real good laugh and feel the love that I hope people fall in love with our family.
How To Destroy Everything Presents: Toughen Up - Episode 10: Assisted So-Called Living, Something's Gotta Get Ya and The Punchline
Q: Do you think you're also trying to tell yourself something through this?
It's okay in a way, like that everything is okay now.
How To Destroy Everything Presents: Toughen Up - Episode 8: Albertsons, Aspirin and Telling the Truth
Q: What does it mean to process during this time?
It means things are moving and resolving, or at least changing form.
How To Destroy Everything Presents: Toughen Up - Episode 8: Albertsons, Aspirin and Telling the Truth
Q: How was it for you, Stephen, just now listening to that here?
The hardest part was that the part where she, I felt, left her body.

Audience Metrics

Listeners, social reach, demographics and more for this podcast.

Gender Skew
Location
Interests
Professions
Age Range
Household Income
Social Media Reach

Frequently Asked Questions About How To Destroy Everything

What is How To Destroy Everything about and what kind of topics does it cover?

Exploring the tumultuous impact of a family's history intertwined with dysfunction and trauma, the content is enriched by personal narratives that cover the complexities of growing up under the shadow of a narcissistic father. Episodes frequently dive into themes of grief, emotional expression, and resilience within family dynamics, as the hosts share vivid and often humorous recollections from their childhoods. The storytelling often features heartfelt discussions about loss, support groups for those affected by narcissistic behavior, and the broader societal implications of such personal experiences. The unique juxtaposition of humor and serious themes provides listeners with a raw yet insightful glimpse into navigating familial trauma an... more

Where can I find podcast stats for How To Destroy Everything?

Rephonic provides a wide range of podcast stats for How To Destroy Everything. We scanned the web and collated all of the information that we could find in our comprehensive podcast database. See how many people listen to How To Destroy Everything and access YouTube viewership numbers, download stats, audience demographics, chart rankings, ratings, reviews and more.

How many listeners does How To Destroy Everything get?

Rephonic provides a full set of podcast information for three million podcasts, including the number of listeners. View further listenership figures for How To Destroy Everything, including podcast download numbers and subscriber numbers, so you can make better decisions about which podcasts to sponsor or be a guest on. You will need to upgrade your account to access this premium data.

What are the audience demographics for How To Destroy Everything?

Rephonic provides comprehensive predictive audience data for How To Destroy Everything, including gender skew, age, country, political leaning, income, professions, education level, and interests. You can access these listener demographics by upgrading your account.

How many subscribers and views does How To Destroy Everything have?

To see how many followers or subscribers How To Destroy Everything has on Spotify and other platforms such as Castbox and Podcast Addict, simply upgrade your account. You'll also find viewership figures for their YouTube channel if they have one.

Which podcasts are similar to How To Destroy Everything?

These podcasts share a similar audience with How To Destroy Everything:

1. The Binge Cases: Where is Daniel Morcombe?
2. The Binge Crimes: The Vanishing of Janis Rose
3. Deep Cover
4. Hysterical
5. Betrayal: Weekly

How many episodes of How To Destroy Everything are there?

How To Destroy Everything launched 2 years ago and published 44 episodes to date. You can find more information about this podcast including rankings, audience demographics and engagement in our podcast database.

How do I contact How To Destroy Everything?

Our systems regularly scour the web to find email addresses and social media links for this podcast. We scanned the web and collated all of the contact information that we could find in our podcast database. But in the unlikely event that you can't find what you're looking for, our concierge service lets you request our research team to source better contacts for you.

Where can I see ratings and reviews for How To Destroy Everything?

Rephonic pulls ratings and reviews for How To Destroy Everything from multiple sources, including Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Castbox, and Podcast Addict.

View all the reviews in one place instead of visiting each platform individually and use this information to decide if a show is worth pitching or not.

How do I access podcast episode transcripts for How To Destroy Everything?

Rephonic provides full transcripts for episodes of How To Destroy Everything. Search within each transcript for your keywords, whether they be topics, brands or people, and figure out if it's worth pitching as a guest or sponsor. You can even set-up alerts to get notified when your keywords are mentioned.

What guests have appeared on How To Destroy Everything?

Recent guests on How To Destroy Everything include:

1. Lisa Kieran
2. Sheila Kieran
3. Stephen Kieran
4. Ky Dickens
5. Mark Kruger
6. Katie Jacobs
7. Tom Ranolo
8. Danny's Brother

To view more recent guests and their details, simply upgrade your Rephonic account. You'll also get access to a typical guest profile to help you decide if the show is worth pitching.

Find and pitch the right podcasts

We help savvy brands, marketers and PR professionals to find the right podcasts for any topic or niche. Get the data and contacts you need to pitch podcasts at scale and turn listeners into customers.
Try it free for 7 days