
This is the true story of Richard Jacobs – a narcissist who destroyed a childhood, a marriage, a family, and a community. He sued every sentient being on the face of the earth, got banned from restaurants, and inspired a support group composed solely of people he traumatized. He stole notary stamps, hacked emails, forged signatures… and won a U.S. Supreme Court case. He was also my dad. Join us ea... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 44 | Founded | 3 years ago |
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In this special bonus episode, we hear Toughen Up from the shared perspective of Stephen’s sisters, Lisa and Sheila. Hear how they navigated a childhood of fear, loss and abandonment, and more importantly, where they are today.
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In the season finale, unable to carry on alone, Eugene finally surrenders and moves into an Assisted Living facility. He’s not there long before he is hospitalized and enters into a steep decline. Before he passes away, Stephen’s father finds his ver... more
It’s 15 years later and Eugene’s wife Helen dies very suddenly, leaving him very much adrift. At the urging of a priest, Stephen’s father learns to ask for help at the gravesite, then pushes on alone.
In our interview, Danny and Darren learn how Ste... more
With Stephen off to college, his mother strikes out on her own, renting a room in a house and scoring her dream job. Not long after, however, Maureen is diagnosed with terminal cancer and eventually makes peace with Eugene and her past. After her ash... more
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I really enjoyed both seasons and really loved the analysis, healing, honesty, friendships, and most of all the forgiveness. Everyone has their traumas, but not everyone can process and see their parents as humans. Thank you all for sharing, it was helpful in my journey.
I recommend this podcast to all my friends!
Impressed by the introspection and self awareness, in spite of the childhood trauma endured.
First season was amazing. I tried to listen to the second season but the way this man tells the story. It’s just too much for me. I accidentally had in my queue the bonus episode with Lisa and Sheila and oh my gosh that was fascinating so I tried to go back and listen to the episode. Specifically, the one with the car trip. This is a great story but it’s just told and too dramatic check me out kind of fashion that loses my interest. Just tell the story, he’s enough on his own. Trying to make... more
Maddening. I quit halfway through episode 4. There is clearly an interesting story here, but the producers are not interested in telling a story... they spend two minutes dropping a little story nugget here and there (they lived in a house in which dad had secret compartments within secret compartments, he received packages in the middle of the night and said it was because he was working for the CIA, he installed secret video cameras in their bedrooms, he tapped their calls) and then they spend... more
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Exploring the tumultuous impact of a family's history intertwined with dysfunction and trauma, the content is enriched by personal narratives that cover the complexities of growing up under the shadow of a narcissistic father. Episodes frequently dive into themes of grief, emotional expression, and resilience within family dynamics, as the hosts share vivid and often humorous recollections from their childhoods. The storytelling often features heartfelt discussions about loss, support groups for those affected by narcissistic behavior, and the broader societal implications of such personal experiences. The unique juxtaposition of humor and serious themes provides listeners with a raw yet insightful glimpse into navigating familial trauma an... more
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