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How To Destroy Everything

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Family Dynamics
Narcissism
Richard Jacobs
Parenting
Narcissistic Personality Disorder
Courtship
Therapy
Childhood Trauma
Marriage
Mental Health
Toxic Relationships
Emotional Healing
Psychology
Religion
Sandy Jacobs
Supreme Court
Richard M. Jacobs
Trauma
Emotional Manipulation
Law

This is the true story of Richard Jacobs – a narcissist who destroyed a childhood, a marriage, a family, and a community. He sued every sentient being on the face of the earth, got banned from restaurants, and inspired a support group composed solely of people he traumatized. He stole notary stamps, hacked emails, forged signatures… and won a U.S. Supreme Court case. He was also my dad. Join us ea... more

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Wherein Danny returns, at last, to the scene of the crime(s). Danny (alongside Darren and Sandy) go back to his childhood home, The Royal Manor, and Danny confronts his past head-on. In this, the season one finale of How to Destroy Everything, old fe... more

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Recent Guests

Ky Dickens
An award-winning acclaimed filmmaker and podcast host known for diving into complex social issues to spark change.
Host of The Telepathy Tapes
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Katie Jacobs
Danny's wife, supporting the podcast's emotional journey
Episode: Interregnum: How to Destroy the Calm Before the Storm
Tom Ranolo
A man whose mother was represented by Richard Jacobs in a divorce case and who played a critical role in gathering evidence against him for disbarment.
Episode: Episode 15: How to Destroy Richard Jacobs
Danny's Brother
Close family member sharing personal insights
Episode: Episode 14: How to Destroy a Brotherhood Part 2
Susie Alice
Mother-in-law of Danny Jacobs
Episode: Episode 12: How to Destroy a Daughter-in-Law
Stephen Kearin
Mentor in improv and life for Danny Jacobs
Improvisational community
Episode: Interregnum: How to Destroy an Irish Rabbi
Elaine Younel
An acquaintance of Danny's family who had interactions with Richard Jacobs
Episode: Interregnum: How to Destroy an Almost Mensch
Mark Krueger
A family lawyer who helped Sandy navigate the continuous lawsuits.
Episode: Episode 10: How to Destroy a Childhood
Gloria Grodsky
Darren's mother, reflecting on her memories of Danny.
Episode: Episode 10: How to Destroy a Childhood

Reviews

4.4 out of 5 stars from 3k ratings
  • Very interesting story

    If you had to take a shot every time you heard the word “journey” you’d have alcohol poisoning in short order. Seriously though, I have thoroughly enjoyed this podcast and I’m looking forward to Toughen Up with the Rabbi.

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    BebeKok
    United Statesa month ago
  • Great pod!

    Interesting points and storyline, can we please stop overusing interregnum? It’s starting to drive me mad lol.

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    lyzzardwyzzard
    United Statesa month ago
  • Didn’t realize how cathartic this would be for me

    If you’ve got/had a toxic parent, listening to this is like getting a hug. Hearing Danny’s experiences helped me process some of my own feelings about my own father, who was also a toxic bastard. In fact, my father did a LOT of the same types of things as Danny’s father, so it was comforting to hear others having to go through the same situations.

    Unrelated: I don’t think they should have Danny’s mom and Danny’s wife on the podcast together because holy moly their voices were indistinguishable... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    step-on-me24
    United Statesa month ago
  • Like the story

    I can’t stop listening to the crazy stories of Danny’s dad throughout the years. Danny can be tough to listen to sometimes, feels rehearsed

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    !!!!!!!BBBB
    United Statesa month ago
  • Tom’s interview warmed my heart

    I don’t think I have ever written a review for a podcast, but after hearing the latest episode I felt compelled to share that Tom’s interview reaffirmed my faith in humanity. What a wonderful person. I wish I could give him a hug. Listening to his emotional intelligence and wisdom was a highlight of my day. We need more Toms in this world. The compassion he showed Danny brought a tear to my eye. The whole season is amazing, but this episode was a satisfying arrival point to the story. Also, SAND... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Katie cakes chi
    United Statesa month ago

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Some feedback expresses a desire for more editing in storytelling, as certain segments can feel drawn out or repetitive.
The storytelling is compelling, blending humor with deep emotion, which resonates with those looking to process their own traumas.
Audience members appreciate the candid discussions and personal insights shared by the hosts and their guests.
Many listeners find the podcast to be incredibly relatable, especially if they've experienced toxic familial relationships.

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Interregnum: How to Destroy the Calm Before the Storm
Q: Do you have any advice for people who may be going through what you were going through with dad?
The number one thing would be to get psychological counseling and keep at it because it might take a while. Don't just give up after your divorce is over.
Interregnum: How to Destroy the Calm Before the Storm
Q: What were your expectations for this podcast at that time?
I think I was hoping that they would be good and a fun way to get closer to Danny, and also to things that had gone on during the podcast.
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Q: What keeps Dr. Powell going?
I think Dr. Powell felt that urgency of like, I will carry your torch.
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Q: What have you found in your research looking at animals and telepathy?
There are mental fields around certain animals.
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Q: How would you describe or explain what telepathy actually means?
Telepathy historically is reading someone's mind, you know exactly what they're thinking.

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