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Hacking Love: Deepening Commitment Through Open Relationships

Aiden & Anna
Open Relationships
Ethical Non-Monogamy
Jealousy
Communication
Emotional Growth
Polyamory
Consent
Swinging
Relationships
Connection
Non-Monogamy
Trust
Colette's
El Salvador
Lifestyle Parties
Intimacy
Sexual Consent
Self-Discovery
Burning Man
Personal Growth

A podcast on modern relationships and sexuality.

Welcome to "Hacking Love: Deepening Commitment Through Open Relationships," the podcast where we explore the transformative power of ethical non-monogamy within modern relationships. Hosted by Aiden and Anna, a committed couple who have navigated the challenges of divorce, heartbreak, ultimately creating a rare and deep connection. This podcast is d... more

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Latest Episodes

Episode 60 is here, and it’s a mix of healing, honesty, and a little chaos.

What does it take to rebuild trust after things get shaky? Not through rules, but by learning to feel safe again. From therapy breakthroughs to showing up for each other thr... more

Ep 59: When Real Life Hits šŸ’”šŸ„ Rebuilding Trust, Therapy Breakthroughs & Our Relationship Reset

After one of the hardest seasons we’ve ever faced, we’re finally sitting down to share where we really are now—and what it took to get here.

In this ep... more

What happens when you say you’re okay… but your nervous system says otherwise?

In this deeply raw episode, Anna and Aiden pull back the curtain on what it really looks like in the aftermath of pushing boundaries in an open relationship. Recorded jus... more

In this episode, we face our biggest test yet: what happens when chemistry with someone new starts to shake the foundation of everything we’ve built? āš”šŸ’”

In this brutally honest episode (edit: don't worry guys, we're fine!), Anna opens up about her ... more

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Recent Guests

Chloe Prent
Relationship coach specializing in non-monogamous relationships
Episode: Ep. 52: PART 1 — On-Air Healing: Our Raw, Live Coaching Session on Trust and Jealousy, with Chloe Prent
Scottie O
Longtime practitioner of Tantra, embodiment coach
Episode: Ep 39: Radical Growth and 12-Hour Orgasms 🤯 Where Tantra Meets Ethical Non-Monogamy (with Special Guest Scottie O!)

Hosts

Aiden
Co-host of Hacking Love, frequent focal point in relationship discussions and non-monogamy exploration.
Anna
Co-host of Hacking Love; central voice in open-relationship discussions and emotional honesty.

Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars from 47 ratings
  • šŸ”„

    Great podcast and with love in my heart I want Anna to realize how she minimizes Aiden’s feelings. Anna is playing the victim and what is good for her isn’t good for Aiden. Yikes. Don’t tell Aiden how much you hate Jasmine but continue to push him towards her. It’s manipulation and a total turn off in a LS relationship.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Annoycust307
    United Statesa month ago
  • Shut up & Listen

    Episodes 57/58/59

    Anna, please try to listen to Aiden without a ā€œbut.ā€ Just be silent, really listen, take it in, and think about what he’s saying. You can tell him: ā€œI’ll come back tomorrow at [time] and we can talk about it.ā€ But first, just listen.

    You seem so focused on proving your actions are better, your pain is bigger, or your solution is more thoughtful that Aidan isn’t getting the space to feel heard and validated. Validation should never be followed by a ā€œbut.ā€ Never.

    If you ... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    SnarkySnack
    Netherlandsa month ago
  • Anna you are amazing!

    When I listen to your podcast, it’s like you are speaking for me. My husband and I have had many of the same experiences, and I have gone through your exact emotions throughout this journey. Thank you both for being so honest and vulnerable! It makes me feel a little less crazy!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Anonymous in Indy
    United States2 months ago
  • Honesty is incredible

    I love the show because of the unfiltered honesty these two exhibit. I find I always have an opinion, but that is what makes it so great. You get to be a fly on the wall in the relationship of two incredible people. My only complaint is they don’t make enough episodes. You left us hanging at 57! More please!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    eNmexplorer
    United States3 months ago
  • Best pod ever!

    I can’t thank Anna and Aiden enough for their radical honesty and allowing us to learn from their journey together. It is smart, funny, emotional and deep. I found the podcast first and then shared it with my husband and it has brought on a wealth of conversations so deep that we have never been prompted to have. We love you two and thank you from the bottom of our hearts.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Antiquietpiggy
    United States4 months ago

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Many highlight practical takeaways for communication and boundary-setting.
Fans appreciate the candid, non-judgmental discussions surrounding non-monogamy and relationships.
Listeners praise extreme honesty and relatability, often calling it a fly-on-the-wall relationship diary.

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Ep. 52: PART 1 — On-Air Healing: Our Raw, Live Coaching Session on Trust and Jealousy, with Chloe Prent
Q: So what does it mean, how are we going to change going forward?
Anna expresses her fear of separate play causing disconnection and initially insists she wants Aiden to enjoy his experiences but struggles with dealing with emotions.
Ep. 52: PART 1 — On-Air Healing: Our Raw, Live Coaching Session on Trust and Jealousy, with Chloe Prent
Q: So do you think it's possible for Aiden or for yourself to have a separate volume for attraction and desire for other people?
Anna acknowledges that while intellectually it's possible, her personal experience tells her she can't fall in love with more than one person without something lacking in her current relationship.
Ep 44: Are We Datable? šŸ‘€ Anna & Aiden Put Themselves on the Market šŸ˜…
Q: What kind of questions will we ask potential couples who want to date us?
We will ask about how long they've been in the lifestyle, their interests, and what they like about the podcast.
Ep 39: Radical Growth and 12-Hour Orgasms 🤯 Where Tantra Meets Ethical Non-Monogamy (with Special Guest Scottie O!)
Q: How can Tantra support people exploring open relationships?
Tantra fosters compersion and understanding, making it easier to manage jealousy and enhance connection in non-monogamous relationships.
Ep 39: Radical Growth and 12-Hour Orgasms 🤯 Where Tantra Meets Ethical Non-Monogamy (with Special Guest Scottie O!)
Q: How did you discover Tantra yourself, ScottieO?
I was a corporate workaholic, and after experiencing chronic fatigue syndrome, I turned to Tantra as a way to change my life.

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Open relationship-focused conversations led by a married couple explore honesty, boundaries, jealousy, and growth within non-monogamous arrangements. Episodes frequently center on personal crises, therapy, and practical frameworks for better communication, with emphasis on transparency, safety, and emotional maturity in navigating open dynamics. Notable across episodes are candid storytelling, humor, and structured approaches (like relationship constitutions and nonviolent communication) that aim to help listeners apply these insights to their own relationships. A standout aspect is the ongoing, long-form exploration of how partners maintain intimacy and trust while remaining open to external connections, making it a likely resource for cou... more

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