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CHOSEN FAMILY is a weekly podcast with 3 queer internet stars on the rise: Alayna Joy, Ashley Gavin, and Mak Ingemi. With their unique perspectives they mimic a typical heteronormative family. Each week they bring a topic to the "dinner table", give each other advice and answer listener questions about queer life, dating, sex, etc. For advertising opportunities please email PodcastPartnerships@St... more

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Mak teaches Alayna Fortnite, and she wins a Victory Royale. Elena admits she’s deep in a Pokémon phase, Mak draws a new line on being misgendered, and the family struggles to name five straight women.

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Ashley tries to set Mac up on a “hang” with a 22-year-old future TikTok heartthrob, Alayna hasn’t slept in five days, and Ashley’s videos keep going viral.

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This week, we go from casual banter about cats, Ashley’s BDE and puzzles straight into a necessary conversation about online outrage culture, identity politics, and the challenges facing safe community spaces like lesbian bars.

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This episode dives into family game night word games, casting, and eccentric morning routines.

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Recent Guests

Mattea Ingemi
Guest on the episode, discussed coming out and family dynamics
Independent media figure / LGBTQ+ advocate
Episode: Disowned by Your Parents ft. Mattea Ingemi
Chappell Roan
A rising pop star known for energetic performances
Musician
Episode: Mak and Chappell Roan?
Anna Camp
Actress known for Pitch Perfect
None
Episode: Alayna's Wedding

Hosts

Ashley Gavin
Host of the show, co-host; central to the dinner-table dynamic and conversations about life and identity
Alayna Joy
Host of the show, co-creator of Chosen Family; brings warmth and perspective to relationship and queer life topics
Mak Ingemi
Host of the show, co-creator; adds humor, creative pivots, and behind-the-scenes creator context

Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars from 8.8k ratings
  • Really mean people

    I guess sometimes people that have been victimized can use the methods that caused them harm…to cause harm. It’s unfortunate that this wasn’t considered. But, I can’t endorse this group.

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    KarchyB
    United States3 months ago
  • A must listen

    I can’t believe I haven’t reviewed this podcast before, it’s been my absolute favourite for years. Lighthearted but not afraid to talk about the complicated things, sincere, and funny as all hell.

    No false advertising here! Mak, Ashley and Alayna truly have that classic family dynamic of bickering and love and I just love it.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    679-0876rd33
    Germany3 months ago
  • Y'all are sleeping on this. Get over your first impression of Ashley, she's a sour patch kid. This podcast is really good for anyone, but especially if you are lgbtq+ and like funny, introspective banter, and a podcast that truly feels like you are hanging out with friends

    Podcast Addict
    5
    mannrw61
    4 months ago
  • i live for this podcast

    mak, alayna, ashley, i love what you do, i live in a country where queer ppl are illegal and chased, so listening to the pod's such a comforting thing, i look forward to each new episode and hope you don't stop, cuz you really do feel like a chosen family. love my daddy, mommy and hot teenage brother<3

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    cool sunny guy
    United States4 months ago
  • Mak and Alayna are Great!

    I find Alayna and Mak to have entertaining and interesting perspectives, dialogue, banter, humor and I enjoy listening to the episodes they’re in without Ashley. Unfortunately, Ashley frequently (and very loudly) talks over them both, derails interesting and funny conversations to make it about her or to “do bits” that are more annoying than entertaining, and often says things that indicate unexamined internalized misogyny (overgeneralizing women, perpetuating harmful stereotypes, saying things ... more

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    2
    Yukimynaguchi
    United States5 months ago

Listeners Say

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Listeners describe the dynamic as warm and inclusive, like a chosen family they can relate to.
Some reviews note tension when discussing sensitive topics, but many praise authenticity and supportive community.
Fans appreciate candid, heartfelt discussions on queer life and relationships, mixed with humor.

Chart Rankings

How this podcast ranks in the Apple Podcasts, Spotify and YouTube charts.

Apple Podcasts
#42
Indonesia/Comedy
Apple Podcasts
#170
Hong Kong/Comedy
Apple Podcasts
#187
Poland/Comedy
Apple Podcasts
#218
Colombia/Comedy
Apple Podcasts
#230
India/Comedy

Talking Points

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What If My First Girlfriend Is My Last?
Q: How do I stop thinking about the fact that I'll never be with another woman?
The hosts suggest examining whether the desire to explore is an abstract worry or connected to a specific person, then discussing it honestly with her girlfriend. They consider taking a break or opening the relationship, while recognizing that any choice could affect the relationship and depends on what matters most to both partners.
How to Know If You’re Attracted to Someone
Q: How do you know whether you're truly sexually attracted to someone or you just want to please them?
Alayna suggests exploring responsive desire and the conditions that make sex enjoyable, while considering pleasure, closeness and how someone feels afterward rather than treating a lack of spontaneous desire to initiate as definitive. Ashley shares that she sometimes has sex to feel close to her partner. They also discuss how compulsory heterosexuality can complicate recognizing one's own desires.
Family Game Night
Q: Is a chemistry read after casting, or are you still casting?
Mak explains that actors are still being considered. They read together so the creative team can compare how candidates fit roles, take notes, and work alongside potential castmates.
Family Game Night
Q: How much do you believe in second chances in the very early days of dating?
The hosts advise the listener to consider both the unusual two-week gap and their own expectations after three dates. They suggest asking the date directly about the communication, while noting that the explanation could be an excuse or simply reflect different habits and levels of interest.
Asexuality In Long-Term Relationships
Q: How often do asexual, aromantic people manage a serious long-term relationship?
All the time, with the caveat that relationships vary and success hinges on communication and finding a dynamic that works for both partners across sex, romance, and other needs.

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What is Chosen Family about and what kind of topics does it cover?

Three queer content creators share a weekly, casual “dinner table” vibe, blending personal life updates with candid conversations about queer life, dating, mental health, and navigating online presence. Episodes mix humor, vulnerability, and practical relationship advice, often featuring listener questions and behind-the-scenes creator discussions, branding, and audience engagement. Notable strengths include a dynamic trio, inclusive discussions, and a relatable sense of chosen family that resonates across generations of listeners. The format feels welcoming for fans of candid banter, real-talk on identity, and creator-focused storytelling, with genuine audience connection through Patreon and sponsor integrations.

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1. We're Having Gay Sex
2. What's News With You
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5. Lesbian Supper Club

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Chosen Family launched 4 years ago and published 208 episodes to date. You can find more information about this podcast including rankings, audience demographics and engagement in our podcast database.

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