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We're Having Gay Sex

Ashley Gavin & Studio71
Comedy
Queer Identity
Bisexuality
Queer Relationships
Open Relationships
Mental Health
Sexual Identity
Sexuality
Relationships
LGBTQ+ Community
Queer Dating
Dating
Lesbian Relationships
Kink
Consent
Polyamory
LGBTQ+ Relationships
Queer Community
Sex Education
LGBTQ+ Experiences

After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call As... more

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This episode is deep on discourse, listener! Sheria Mattis is a stand-up comedian, writer, and co-host of the hilarious Strap Down podcast that's all about queer black culture, but today she RETURNS to the apartment — and she’s got some beef with rac... more

This episode is more than skin-deep, listener! Chloe Radcliffe is a comedian, writer, and the host of the hilarious In Tandem with Chloe Radcliffe. We discuss her brand new Comedy Central special, Eyes Down Here, the different standards of beauty in ... more

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Hey Bottom Nation — just wanted to give a quick update on the audio issues you may have heard on the most recent episode of WHGS, #347. Sadly we had a pretty major microphone issue in the middle of the recording, so we had to use camera audio from ab... more

(Apologies for the audio issues that occur around the GILF video (36:00 - 51:00), we had some technical difficulties and had to use the camera mics for that section!) This episode is hole-y, listener! Jake Brasch & Nadja Leonhard-Hooper (American Sin... more

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Recent Guests

Sheria Mattis
Stand-up comedian, writer, and co-host of The Strap Down
The Strap Down
Episode: Queer Interracial Couples Have a Big Problem… (w/ Sheria Mattis) | WHGS 349
Chloe Radcliffe
Comedian, writer, and host of In Tandem with Chloe Radcliffe
Episode: Chloe Radcliffe Is A Midwest 5, But An NYC 10 | WHGS 348
Jake Brasch
Playwright, composer and performer who co-created the musical HOLE!
American Sing-Song
Episode: Jake Brasch & Nadja Leonhard-Hooper Are Making A Musical About Plugging Holes | WHGS 347
Nadja Leonhard-Hooper
Playwright, Foley artist and performer who co-created the musical HOLE!
American Sing-Song
Episode: Jake Brasch & Nadja Leonhard-Hooper Are Making A Musical About Plugging Holes | WHGS 347
Nico Carney
Comedian, writer and actor
Episode: Lesbianism Was NOT All Fun And Games For Nico Carney | WHGS 346
Kylie Vincent
Comedian with MS, MS advocate
Kylie Vincent
Episode: Kylie Vincent’s Balance Beam to End MS | WHGS 345
Rachel Scanlon
Co-host of Two Dykes and a Mic, introduced as a guest on tour
Two Dykes and a Mic
Episode: Taking Nudes At The Airport w/ Two Dykes and a Mic | WHGS 344
McKenzie Goodwin
Co-host of Two Dykes and a Mic, introduced as a guest on tour
Two Dykes and a Mic
Episode: Taking Nudes At The Airport w/ Two Dykes and a Mic | WHGS 344
Kiel Tutin
Choreographer, dancer
Freelance / Various major acts
Episode: The Dance World = Gay Paradise?? w/ Kiel Tutin | WHGS 343

Host

Ashley Gavin
Comedian and podcast host

Reviews

4.6 out of 5 stars from 11k ratings
  • Must listen every week

    One of the podcasts on my list that I listen to as soon as it come out each week.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Rmeaso
    United States6 months ago
  • Thank u

    Ashley is really great host and I love all her podcasts lol <3

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    katzy11
    United States7 months ago
  • On FIRE!

    This podcast has been on fire lately. The combination of FUNNY and THOUGHTFUL conversations is really coming through. About to go join the Patreon just to relisten to the uncut version of these episodes!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    MsPatita
    United States7 months ago
  • Hilarious and Amusing

    I have enjoyed listening to this podcast since day one. It is nice listening to it on the way to and from work. Even though I am not living in the U.S. anymore, it still brings a smile to my face and brings back memories when I was once a young lesbian. The stories are humorous and light.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    “D” Germany
    Germany8 months ago
  • There for me

    When i realize ive been listening for 6 years?!?!?!??!???! I have an iphone i can finaly rate 5 stars and leave a review on apple podcasts

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Ham5618
    Canada9 months ago

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Listeners praise Ashley Gavin's sharp, funny hosting and the lively chemistry with co-hosts and guests.
Some longtime listeners find the tone abrasive or the humor offensive, indicating that the deliberately provocative style is not for everyone.
Many value the blend of raunchy comedy with thoughtful, vulnerable conversations about queer identity, sex, and relationships.
Listeners describe the conversations as relatable, informative, and welcoming to both queer audiences and curious straight listeners.

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Queer Interracial Couples Have a Big Problem… (w/ Sheria Mattis) | WHGS 349
Q: What does garden party mean?
Sheria explains that it means partners and metamours can attend events together and acknowledge one another, without needing to socialize constantly or share all relationship details.
Queer Interracial Couples Have a Big Problem… (w/ Sheria Mattis) | WHGS 349
Q: What did you want out of the relationship?
Sheria says she understood herself to be one of her partner's partners and wanted to share more of her life, including attending events and meeting friends. She ultimately wanted an open, welcoming garden-party polyamory dynamic.
Chloe Radcliffe Is A Midwest 5, But An NYC 10 | WHGS 348
Q: How can someone take a respectful approach when asking a person about a personal experience connected to their appearance?
Cassidy says friendship and trust make a difference, while Radcliffe recommends asking about someone's experience in a way that invites them to share rather than implying something is wrong or needs fixing.
Chloe Radcliffe Is A Midwest 5, But An NYC 10 | WHGS 348
Q: What is the connection between the comments people make about your birthmark and the questions queer people get about their appearance?
Radcliffe and Gavin compare these comments to questions that imply someone should change or conceal an aspect of themselves to make others comfortable. They emphasize that appearance and identity are personal, and that context and the relationship matter when asking sensitive questions.
Jake Brasch & Nadja Leonhard-Hooper Are Making A Musical About Plugging Holes | WHGS 347
Q: How do you cope?
The guests and hosts described different approaches to writing about real people: some avoid identifying details or tell the person first, while others fictionalize personal experiences or write only about people outside their close lives.

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Frequently Asked Questions About We're Having Gay Sex

What is We're Having Gay Sex about and what kind of topics does it cover?

Comedian Ashley Gavin leads candid, fast-moving conversations about sex, dating, relationships, gender, and queer life, with humor that is deliberately raunchy and sometimes confrontational. Guests range from comedians and performers to writers, creators, and people sharing personal experiences, bringing stories about topics such as coming out, transition, non-monogamy, disability, religion, and the entertainment world. The format mixes interviews with Gavin's own anecdotes and lively group banter, making room for both absurd stories and more vulnerable discussion. Freddie Shanel appears as a recurring co-host in the recent conversations, while other friends and collaborators contribute to the ensemble. The mix of unfiltered comedy, persona... more

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2. Chloe Radcliffe
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6. Kylie Vincent
7. Rachel Scanlon
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