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We're Having Gay Sex

Ashley Gavin & Studio71
Comedy
Queer Identity
Bisexuality
Queer Relationships
Open Relationships
Mental Health
Sexual Identity
Sexuality
Relationships
LGBTQ+ Community
Queer Dating
Dating
Kink
Lesbian Relationships
Consent
LGBTQ+ Relationships
Queer Community
Sex Education
LGBTQ+ Experiences
Lesbian Identity

After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call As... more

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This episode is musical, listener! WHGS is comin’ at you from ENGLAND with Dodie — an incredible singer, songwriter, and YouTuber with top-charting albums and a hit single, “She,” that took over Lesbian TikTok. We discuss writing queer anthems before... more

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Ashley has just wrapped up her 2026 tour in Europe (thanks to everyone who came out to a show), so to give... more

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This episode is all about theory, listener! Carmen Maria Machado is an author, essayist, and finalist for the National Book Award with her impressive body of work around queer identity, but today she’s in the apartment to put her genius towards solvi... more

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This episode is lore heavy, listener! Brad Davis is a queer musician, tech artist, and my dear girlfriend’s little brother, but today he’s in the apartment to be my little BOTTOM! In addition, for the FIRST TIME… WHGS producer and man-behind-the-came... more

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Recent Guests

Carmen Maria Machado
Award-winning writer featured on the episode
Episode: What is “Topping/Bottoming” for Lesbians? (w/ Award-Winning Writer Carmen Machado) | WHGS Ep. 323
Brad Davis
Jen's little gay brother, musician and producer
NFG Collective / Bradley CD
Episode: Interviewing My Girlfriend’s Little Gay Brother (Brad Davis) | WHGS Ep. 322
Noah Finnce
Musician and content creator
Independent artist
Episode: NOAHFINNCE Had a Fivesome With Each Letter of LGBTQ | WHGS Ep. 321
Halie Torris
Visual artist known for Savic oil paintings, viral online presence
Halie.store / Savic paintings
Episode: What is the Female Gaze? (w/ Halie Torris) | WHGS Ep. 320
Chelsea Cutler
Singer-songwriter and guest on the episode
Episode: When Can You Claim You’re “Gay?” (w/ Chelsea Cutler) | WHGS Ep. 319
Andrea Allan
Comedian featured on this episode
Comedian/Podcaster
Episode: Trying Lesbian Sex Parties at Burning Man w/ Andrea Allan | WHGS Ep. 318
Franchesca Ramsey
Host of Lemme Fix It!, actor, content creator
Lemme Fix It!
Episode: Franchesca Ramsey Has Achieved Pure Bisexuality | WHGS Ep. 317
Eileen Myles
Legendary lesbian poet, author of Chelsea Girls, I Want a Dyke to Be President
Poet, Writer
Episode: Interviewing Eileen Myles — Legendary Lesbian Poet & “F-Boy” | WHGS Ep. 316
Sofie Hagen
Danish comedian and author, discussed in episode
Episode: Sofie Hagen is Stuck in a 10-Year Dry Spell | WHGS Ep. 315

Hosts

Ashley Gavin
Host of the show, comedian and performer; central voice guiding conversations
Lizzy Cassidy
Co-host guiding conversation and guest introductions

Reviews

4.6 out of 5 stars from 10.9k ratings
  • Must listen every week

    One of the podcasts on my list that I listen to as soon as it come out each week.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Rmeaso
    United States25 days ago
  • Thank u

    Ashley is really great host and I love all her podcasts lol <3

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    katzy11
    United Statesa month ago
  • On FIRE!

    This podcast has been on fire lately. The combination of FUNNY and THOUGHTFUL conversations is really coming through. About to go join the Patreon just to relisten to the uncut version of these episodes!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    MsPatita
    United States2 months ago
  • Hilarious and Amusing

    I have enjoyed listening to this podcast since day one. It is nice listening to it on the way to and from work. Even though I am not living in the U.S. anymore, it still brings a smile to my face and brings back memories when I was once a young lesbian. The stories are humorous and light.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    “D” Germany
    Germany3 months ago
  • There for me

    When i realize ive been listening for 6 years?!?!?!??!???! I have an iphone i can finaly rate 5 stars and leave a review on apple podcasts

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Ham5618
    Canada3 months ago

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Guests and topics are described as funny, insightful, and boundary-pushing, with many appreciating the variety of queer perspectives.
Some feedback highlights polarization, with a few negative reviews criticizing tone or style, but majority praise the energy and inclusivity.
Listeners praise the host for humor and honesty, often noting the show's supportive community and candid sexuality discussions.

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Talking Points

Recent interactions between the hosts and their guests.

Interviewing My Girlfriend’s Little Gay Brother (Brad Davis) | WHGS Ep. 322
Q: What was the hardest part about coming out to your family?
Brad explains the fear and vulnerability around telling his family, emphasizing the emotional weight of sharing one's truth with loved ones and the relief that came with their eventual support.
Chrissy Chlapecka’s Tips To Try Femme Topping (C.C.T.T.T.F.T.) | WHGS Ep. 312
Q: When you determined that you're a full lesbian, was there like a catalyst for that?
Chrissy reflects on growing up feminine, feeling incorrect around men, and realizing her identity over time, leading her to finally embrace her lesbian identity.
When Brandon Rogers Bangs, A Family Falls Apart | WHGS Ep. 303
Q: Did you have gay sex this week?
Brandon shares that he had a cuddling night with someone right before the podcast, indicating a sense of intimacy without sexual engagement.
When Brandon Rogers Bangs, A Family Falls Apart | WHGS Ep. 303
Q: What was your first gay sex experience like?
Brandon recounts a humorous yet nerve-wracking experience where he nervously attempted to hide from a family that returned home while he was in the middle of a sexual encounter.
Dan Docimo Overcomes Getting Misgendered Through Hate | WHGS Ep. 297
Q: Do you have a lot of dating challenges with your identity?
Yeah, definitely. I think that's what it is, but it's probably other stuff.

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A candid, humor-driven show about queer life, sex, and relationships anchored by a sharp, stand-up host. Discussions span intimate experiences, relationship dynamics, sexuality labels, and political/cultural moments within LGBTQ+ communities, often blending personal anecdotes with sharp banter and guests from across the spectrum—artists, writers, musicians, comedians, and activists. The tone balances raunchy humor with thoughtful exploration, and recurring sponsor reads keep the format practical and grounded in real-world topics. Notable strengths include a vibrant, participatory energy, willingness to tackle boundary-pushing topics, and a knack for translating complex identities into accessible, entertaining conversations.

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