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We're Having Gay Sex

Ashley Gavin & Studio71
Comedy
Queer Identity
Nicole Coenen
LGBTQ+ Issues
Open Relationships
Bisexuality
Drag Shows
Truth Or Dare
Social Media Influence
Wood Chopping
First Dates
Queer Dating
Dating
Lesbian Masterdoc
Canadian Communities
Anarchism
Film Projects
Dirty Talk
The Bachelor
Queer Relationships

After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call As... more

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This episode is flirty, listener! Catherine McCafferty is an enchanting actor, stand-up, podcaster, and host of the hit internet series “Pretty Gay,” but today she’s phoning into the apartment to make Ashley malfunction! In addition, beloved co-host ... more

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This episode is taking its time, listener! Freddie Shanel (they/them) is an absolutely hilarious up-and-coming comedian whose work you’ve seen on your TikTok feed or Reductress, but today they’re in the apartment to work on shedding their long-time g... more

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This episode is a MILESTONE, listener! To celebrate the 300th episode of WHGS, we are joined by beloved co-host and dear friend Ali Kolbert to bring things full circle: this podcast started alongside Ashley’s relationship with Jen, so it’s only right... more

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This episode is in Simlish, listener! Chloe Moriondo is an incredible singer-songwriter with over 1M monthly listeners, collabs with queer legends, and even music in THE SIMS, but today she’s in the apartment to play her music in your boomBOX (if you... more

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Recent Guests

Chloe Moriondo
An up-and-coming musician known for her gender fluidity and relatable music.
Musician
Episode: Chloe Moriondo: Making Music for ENBYs & The Sims | WHGS Ep. 299
Gabe Dunn
Popular podcaster and comedian known for his collaborative work on Just Between Us and Bad With Money.
Just Between Us
Episode: Gabe Dunn Spills Tea on YouTube’s Most ICONIC Sapphic Hookup | WHGS Ep. 298
Dan Docimo
An up-and-coming comedian and non-binary performer
Episode: Dan Docimo Overcomes Getting Misgendered Through Hate | WHGS Ep. 297
Harrison Browne
Professional hockey player, actor, and writer.
Episode: The Truth About Trans Athletes In Sports w/ Harrison Browne | WHGS Ep. 295
Leandra Earl
Guitarist from The Beaches
The Beaches
Episode: Leandra Earl (The Beaches) Might Be Bangin’ Her Bandmates | WHGS Ep. 293
Lauren Chan
Sports Illustrated's first out lesbian cover model and fashion advocate
Sports Illustrated
Episode: Lauren Chan: The 1st Lesbian on Sports Illustrated & The Last Findomme | WHGS Ep. 292
Gabby Bryan
Comedian and Host of Let Me Ask My Dad Podcast
Episode: Gabby Bryan: You WILL Meet Queer Babes At The Renaissance Fair | WHGS Ep. 291
Liz Miele
Comedian, huge YouTuber, known for her specials on YouTube.
Stand-up Comedian
Episode: Gay Marriage at Risk, Abortions are Rough, and Other Uplifting Topics w/ Liz Miele | WHGS Ep. 289
G Flip
Musician and reality TV personality
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Episode: G Flip Gets a New Marriage Every Year | WHGS Ep. 285

Host

Ashley Gavin
A comedian known for her sharp humor and candid conversations about queer identity, relationships, and sexuality.

Reviews

4.6 out of 5 stars from 10.8k ratings
  • The podcast we need.

    We’re Having Gay Sex is the podcast we need to bring humor and honestly to queer (and all) sex. Hilarious and raw, it’s hard to stop listening.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Calen Ann
    United States4 months ago
  • Great show!!

    Love this show!!!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Olivia_44
    United States5 months ago
  • For the gays and the giggles

    This podcast is everything — funny, raw, and deeply relatable. Hosted by a sharp, hilarious lesbian comedian who feels like the big sister you always wanted, it’s a space where honesty and humor go hand-in-hand. Whether she’s riffing on queer dating disasters, mental health, or just life’s weird little moments, you’ll feel seen, supported, and definitely not alone. It’s more than a podcast — it’s a chosen family in your ears.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    KarleyCooper
    United States6 months ago
  • get thocky with it

    this is one of my absolute favorite podcasts, the conversations and guests are hilarious and top tier. this weeks episode really proved that to be true when i listened to a whole conversation about gaming which i care nothing about but i couldn’t stop myself. the journey was worth it tho when we reached the thocky/creamy keyboard conversation. my AuDHD queer self that has also dove into the deep reddit holes of customizing keyboards and have purchased a thocky keyboard, feels fully seen now 💛

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    raeokayy
    United States7 months ago
  • Hellos from 2025

    12 episodes in and loving this sho, found it through Ashley’s other show what’s news with you and as a straight guy I’m learning so much

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Tepases521
    United States7 months ago

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The podcast provides insights into LGBTQ+ culture while remaining entertaining and relatable.
The dynamic among the hosts creates a welcoming atmosphere, making diverse conversations accessible to all audiences.
Listeners appreciate the humor and honesty in discussing queer sex and relationships.
Fans often mention it as a source of comfort and community, especially for those navigating their own identities.

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Dan Docimo Overcomes Getting Misgendered Through Hate | WHGS Ep. 297
Q: Do you have a lot of dating challenges with your identity?
Yeah, definitely. I think that's what it is, but it's probably other stuff.
Claire Sundbye Gets Tortured By Conversion Therapy (Internally) | WHGS Ep. 296
Q: So how are you reconciling that within yourself?
I think by holding on to the fact that like it'll be over at some point, and I'll just go back to women.
Leandra Earl (The Beaches) Might Be Bangin’ Her Bandmates | WHGS Ep. 293
Q: What is the dynamic like within the band with dating allegations?
There is a playful tension surrounding dating allegations among bandmates and how they navigate their relationships.
Gabby Bryan: You WILL Meet Queer Babes At The Renaissance Fair | WHGS Ep. 291
Q: Gabby, did you have gay sex this week?
I didn't because I am in a straight relationship, but I've only had gay sex a few times with one woman.
Transitioning, Dating, and Letting Your Parents Pick Your New Name w/ Brenna Jordan | WHGS Ep. 280
Q: What would be a beautiful thing if the world were accepting enough?
It would be beautiful if you could come out as trans to your parents and they could help you pick a name.

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Frequently Asked Questions About We're Having Gay Sex

What is We're Having Gay Sex about and what kind of topics does it cover?

This podcast features a candid exploration of queer sexuality and relationships, as host Ashley Gavin, a comedian, shares her humorous experiences and insightful commentary on her personal journey of self-discovery. Joined by co-hosts Kate Sisk and Gara Lonning, the episodes tackle a wide range of topics from navigating dating dynamics to discussing the intricacies of gender identity and sexual orientation. With a blend of comedy and heartfelt conversations, guests spanning the gender and sexuality spectrums share their unique stories, inviting listeners into an authentic dialogue about intimacy, love, and personal growth within the LGBTQ+ community. The environment is often playful and raw, making it relatable for both queer and straight l... more

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