
After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call As... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 326 | Founded | 6 years ago |
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This episode is musical, listener! WHGS is comin’ at you from ENGLAND with Dodie — an incredible singer, songwriter, and YouTuber with top-charting albums and a hit single, “She,” that took over Lesbian TikTok. We discuss writing queer anthems before... more
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Ashley has just wrapped up her 2026 tour in Europe (thanks to everyone who came out to a show), so to give... more
This episode is all about theory, listener! Carmen Maria Machado is an author, essayist, and finalist for the National Book Award with her impressive body of work around queer identity, but today she’s in the apartment to put her genius towards solvi... more
This episode is lore heavy, listener! Brad Davis is a queer musician, tech artist, and my dear girlfriend’s little brother, but today he’s in the apartment to be my little BOTTOM! In addition, for the FIRST TIME… WHGS producer and man-behind-the-came... more
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One of the podcasts on my list that I listen to as soon as it come out each week.
Ashley is really great host and I love all her podcasts lol <3
This podcast has been on fire lately. The combination of FUNNY and THOUGHTFUL conversations is really coming through. About to go join the Patreon just to relisten to the uncut version of these episodes!
I have enjoyed listening to this podcast since day one. It is nice listening to it on the way to and from work. Even though I am not living in the U.S. anymore, it still brings a smile to my face and brings back memories when I was once a young lesbian. The stories are humorous and light.
When i realize ive been listening for 6 years?!?!?!??!???! I have an iphone i can finaly rate 5 stars and leave a review on apple podcasts
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A candid, humor-driven show about queer life, sex, and relationships anchored by a sharp, stand-up host. Discussions span intimate experiences, relationship dynamics, sexuality labels, and political/cultural moments within LGBTQ+ communities, often blending personal anecdotes with sharp banter and guests from across the spectrum—artists, writers, musicians, comedians, and activists. The tone balances raunchy humor with thoughtful exploration, and recurring sponsor reads keep the format practical and grounded in real-world topics. Notable strengths include a vibrant, participatory energy, willingness to tackle boundary-pushing topics, and a knack for translating complex identities into accessible, entertaining conversations.
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