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Choosing to Stay After Infidelity and Betrayal

Choosing To Stay After Infidelity and Betrayal
Infidelity
Betrayal Trauma
Betrayal
Emotional Safety
Boundaries
Trust
Healing
Emotional Healing
Relationships
Self-Care
Infidelity Recovery
Couples Therapy
Communication
Trust Building
Healing Process
Grief
Attachment Theory
Post-Traumatic Growth
Relational Repair
Recovery

Choosing To Stay After Infidelity & Betrayal is a podcast for couples navigating the aftermath of infidelity, betrayal, and broken trust. Whether you’re a betrayed partner making sense of the pain, or the partner who caused harm and wants to repair what was broken, this show offers trauma-informed tools, honest conversations, and grounded hope. Hosted by Hali Roderick, the podcast explores trust r... more

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Latest Episodes

When someone betrays a partner and then starts doing "the work," the person who was hurt is left with an exhausting question: is this real, or is he just saying the right things? In this episode, host Hali Roderick is joined by psychologist Dr. Yosi ... more

An apology is a moment. Making amends is a process - and confusing the two is one of the most common places betrayal recovery gets stuck.

In this solo episode, Hali breaks down the real difference between apologizing and making amends after infideli... more

There's a dynamic underneath a lot of disconnected relationships that almost nobody names — and when it collapses, it can quietly erode intimacy. In this episode, I'm joined by Tyler Patrick, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and co-host of the ... more

One of the biggest obstacles to healing after betrayal isn't a lack of love — it's shame. When the person in recovery floods with shame, they lose the ability to truly listen, hold space, or take accountability. And without that, trust cannot rebuild... more

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Recent Guests

Tyler Patrick
Licensed marriage and family therapist; co-host of Therapy Brothers podcast
Therapy Brothers
Episode: #167 Masculine and Feminine: Why Getting the Balance Right in Your Relationship Matters with Tyler Patrick
Jacob Fletcher
Licensed mental health counselor, founder of Pure Wellness Counseling; CSAT therapist
Pure Wellness Counseling
Episode: #166 Why Shame Is the Enemy of Accountability — And What to Do About It with Jacob Fletcher, CMCH, CSAT
Katie Padilla
Certified family law specialist, founder of Bloom Family Law, certified coach, meditation teacher in training
Bloom Family Law
Episode: #164 The Children in the Room: Navigating Divorce and Betrayal Without Breaking Your Kids with Katie Padilla, Certified Family Law Specialist
Monifa Ellis-Addie
Certified CSAT focusing on neurodivergence and ADHD within betrayal recovery
APSATS/CSAT
Episode: #162 When ADHD Meets Betrayal Trauma: Understanding Recovery for the Whole Family System with Monifa Ellis-Addie, LMFT, CSAT, CCSP and Morgan Ellsworth, LAMFT, CCSP
Morgan Ellsworth
Marriage and family therapist, board certified coach
Becoming Together Retreat team
Episode: ***BONUS EPISODE*** You’re Invited: Becoming Together Mother-Daughter Retreat with my daughters, Mataia and Morgan
Matt Wenger
Executive Clinical Director at Begin Again Institute; expert in trauma, addiction, and betrayal recovery
Begin Again Institute
Episode: #156 Anger After Betrayal — What It Really Means & How to Work With It with Matt Wenger, LPC, CSAT, CCPS
Nima Ramani
Nervous system and trauma specialist
Becoming Trigger Proof / Dr. Ramani's practice
Episode: #155 Resolving the Push-Pull Dynamic of the Trauma Bond with Dr. Nima Rahmany
Eddie Capparucci
Licensed professional counselor, certified in treating problematic sexual behaviors, author and creator of the Inner Child Model for Treating Addictive Behaviors
Inner Child Model / Capparucci Counseling
Episode: #149 The Inner Child Model™: Understanding Pain, Behavior, and Healing with Dr. Eddie Capparucci
Dr. David Wiss
Pioneering Mental Health Nutritionist and Institute for Functional Medicine Certified Practitioner
Founder of Nutrition in Recovery and the Wise Mind Nutrition App
Episode: #145 Nutrition, Trauma, and Recovery: Using Food as an Ally, Not Another Battleground with Dr. David Wiss

Host

Hali Roderick
Host of Choosing to Stay After Infidelity and Betrayal

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 96 ratings
  • The messages are great and the topics always fit.

    I like the presentation they use and their experiences with their betrayal partners. Easy to relate to

    Audible
    5
    Amazon Customer
    United States10 months ago
  • I like the presentation they use and their experiences with their betrayal partners. Easy to relate to

    Audible
    5
    Amazon Customer
    United States10 months ago
  • Helpful

    This podcast is helpful and explores topics I haven’t heard on other betrayal podcasts. The hosts share some great insights and I appreciate their wisdom and experience. My only suggestion (sorry!) is that Stephanie stop saying “I was thinking…” or “it made me think…” several times per episode.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Eightcowwife
    United Statesa year ago
  • Such a comfort during this journey

    I’m so grateful to you both for this work you are doing. During a time where I feel 10,000 emotions all at once, this podcast is so grounding for me. I’d love to see some Q&A sessions where we can ask some specific questions about our experiences!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    beckigriswold
    United States2 years ago
  • Ep 77

    Thank you for validating the minimization of the betrayed partners pain when the betrayer is “checking the boxes” on their recovery. Relational change can’t happen without curiosity, empathy, and honesty on both sides.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Flowerlover2607
    United States2 years ago

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Thoughtful, grounded guidance on betrayal and healing.
Listeners praise practical tools and compassionate framing.
Some critique religious references; overall positive about content quality.

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#164 The Children in the Room: Navigating Divorce and Betrayal Without Breaking Your Kids with Katie Padilla, Certified Family Law Specialist
Q: What guidance do you offer to a parent facing a hostile or litigious ex-partner?
Focus on stabilizing the children, seek mediation or collaborative options, set boundaries, and work with professionals who can coach you through safe, constructive communication rather than escalating conflict.
#164 The Children in the Room: Navigating Divorce and Betrayal Without Breaking Your Kids with Katie Padilla, Certified Family Law Specialist
Q: Does it matter more how parents handle the split than whether they stay together or separate?
Yes, the handling of conflict and the emotional climate during and after the split is more impactful on children than the fact of divorce itself; respectful, collaborative approaches help kids feel safe and supported.
***BONUS EPISODE*** You’re Invited: Becoming Together Mother-Daughter Retreat with my daughters, Mataia and Morgan
Q: What should listeners know about the logistics and what they'll experience?
The retreat will feature five-star style serenity in Sedona with cabins, nature, breath work, sound baths, guided hikes, and nutritious meals; there are consultation options to customize accommodations.
***BONUS EPISODE*** You’re Invited: Becoming Together Mother-Daughter Retreat with my daughters, Mataia and Morgan
Q: What would you want every mother-daughter duo to know before joining?
Life is better when you're close to your mom; the retreat offers a nurturing space to unwind and reconnect, not a requirement to be perfect or to have a flawless relationship.
***BONUS EPISODE*** You’re Invited: Becoming Together Mother-Daughter Retreat with my daughters, Mataia and Morgan
Q: Who is this retreat for, and who isn't it for?
The hosts explain it's for mothers and daughters (including adult daughters), emphasizing voluntary participation, open curiosity, and avoiding therapy-centrism; it's not for those in crisis mode seeking immediate clinical treatment.

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This show centers on healing after infidelity and betrayal, offering trauma-informed tools, practical strategies, and honest conversations about trust repair, boundaries, accountability, and discernment. Episodes frequently explore nervous-system regulation, safer communication, and slower, patient pathways to repair, often weaving in real-world examples, coaching frameworks, and resources like couples retreats. A notable pattern is the emphasis on individual healing as a foundation for relationship recovery, with conversations rotating between clinical insights, lived experiences, and actionable steps for both partners and families.

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Recent guests on this podcast include:

1. Tyler Patrick
2. Jacob Fletcher
3. Katie Padilla
4. Monifa Ellis-Addie
5. Morgan Ellsworth
6. Matt Wenger
7. Nima Ramani
8. Eddie Capparucci

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