
Choosing To Stay After Infidelity & Betrayal is a podcast for couples navigating the aftermath of infidelity, betrayal, and broken trust. Whether you’re a betrayed partner making sense of the pain, or the partner who caused harm and wants to repair what was broken, this show offers trauma-informed tools, honest conversations, and grounded hope. Hosted by Hali Roderick, the podcast explores trust r... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 164 | Founded | 3 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | RelationshipsSociety & Culture | |||

After betrayal, boundaries become one of the most talked about — and most misunderstood — parts of healing. Many couples find themselves stuck in painful cycles where boundaries meant to create safety instead lead to more conflict, defensiveness, and... more
Anger is one of the most misunderstood emotions in betrayal trauma — but still shapes every interaction, every conversation, and every attempt at repair.
In this powerful conversation, I’m joined by Matt Wenger, LPC, CSAT, CCSP to unpack what anger ... more
In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Nima Rahmany to unpack the push-pull dynamic that so many couples experience after betrayal or relational trauma.
He explains how our nervous system shifts between states like fight-or-flight, shutdown, and conne... more
After betrayal, many couples expect the hardest part to be the initial crisis. But what often comes next is something quieter—and just as real: healing fatigue.
In this episode, we talk about what happens when the adrenaline wears off, the urgency f... more
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I like the presentation they use and their experiences with their betrayal partners. Easy to relate to
I like the presentation they use and their experiences with their betrayal partners. Easy to relate to
This podcast is helpful and explores topics I haven’t heard on other betrayal podcasts. The hosts share some great insights and I appreciate their wisdom and experience. My only suggestion (sorry!) is that Stephanie stop saying “I was thinking…” or “it made me think…” several times per episode.
I’m so grateful to you both for this work you are doing. During a time where I feel 10,000 emotions all at once, this podcast is so grounding for me. I’d love to see some Q&A sessions where we can ask some specific questions about our experiences!
Thank you for validating the minimization of the betrayed partners pain when the betrayer is “checking the boxes” on their recovery. Relational change can’t happen without curiosity, empathy, and honesty on both sides.
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This show centers on healing after infidelity and betrayal, offering trauma-informed tools for trust repair, emotional regulation, accountability, boundaries, and discernment. Episodes frequently explore slowing down, individual and relational healing, safe attachment, and practical steps to stay or leave with clarity. A notable strength is its compassionate, evidence-informed approach that emphasizes safety and mutual accountability over quick fixes, making it helpful for betrayed partners, active contributors to repair, and professionals seeking practical frameworks for healing in high-stakes relationships.
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1. Heal from Infidelity: Reclaiming Your Peace, Power, and Self-Trust After Betrayal
2. Helping Couples Heal Podcast
3. Betrayal Recovery Radio: The Official Podcast of APSATS
4. Rooted and Rising Healing After Betrayal
5. Betrayal Trauma Recovery
this podcast launched 3 years ago and published 164 episodes to date. You can find more information about this podcast including rankings, audience demographics and engagement in our podcast database.
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Recent guests on this podcast include:
1. Matt Wenger
2. Nima Ramani
3. Eddie Capparucci
4. Dr. David Wiss
5. Tammy Gustafson
6. Chandler Rogers
7. Stephen Thomas
8. Joseph McKinley
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