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BFF: Black, Fat, Femme

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Black History Month
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Trans Rights
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"The B.F.F. Podcast” gives voice to two of the leading queer, fat and Black changemakers while calling in the world to examine and understand what it means to love oneself unapologetically - in a world where loving oneself often feels impossible.

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Latest Episodes

This week your besties look back to when we were joined by the Kang of digital content - the one who keeps the content live, loud and in color, Chris Rodgers. On the show this week: a discussion about why we are sick and tired of being sick and tired... more

This week, the BFF's welcome viral creator Romeo Bingham to talk about the joy, labor, and pressure behind being an “overnight” moment. From the Dr Pepper jingle going national to the conditional care and scrutiny Black trans femmes face online, this... more

This week the BFF's are doing a full episode of Yes Ma'am & No Ma'am Pam. We talk about the things we love, the things people do that bring us joy, the things we can't STAND and the things we hope to never see or experience again. It's our house and ... more

This week we are joined by our favorite Goddess on the court, Emma "Dilemma" Belizario as we unpack the myths and misinformation shaping the conversation around trans athletes in sports. In our convo we move beyond headlines to explore what’s truly a... more

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Recent Guests

Emma Dilemma Belizario
Basketball player and trans rights advocate, known for vocal commentary on sports and trans visibility
Episode: The Re-Introduction of Me (Featuring Emma “Dilemma” Belizario)
Dominique Morgan
Artist, storyteller and cultural force; rides the intersections of music, identity and radical self-expression
Self-directed/independent
Episode: It's MY Meat! (Featuring Dominique Morgan)
Marc Sully Saint-Fleur
Haitian American actor, comedian, and writer from Miami
Actor/Writer
Episode: It’s Giving Black Camp (Featuring Marc Sully Saint-Fleur)
Dr. Terrell J.A. Winder
Associate professor of sociology; author of Shameless
University of California, Sent to Bulrush? (as per intro)
Episode: A New Scenario (Featuring Dr. Terrell J.A. Winder)
Kalen Allen
Black queer actor, comedian, producer, internet personality
Food Network / Ellen DeGeneres Show (early career)
Episode: The Nuance Episode (Featuring Kalen Allen)
Jenn M. Jackson
Professor, abolitionist, author; expert on Black feminism, racial trauma, gender and social movements
Syracuse University
Episode: A Canary in the Coal Mine (Featuring Dr. Jenn M. Jackson)
Simone Mariposa
Los Angeles-based doula, storyteller, and creative strategist focused on embodiment and culture
The Simone Mariposa
Episode: A Silent Communion with Yourself (Featuring Simone Mariposa)
Brian Michael Smith
Actor and trans representation advocate
Actor, trans rights advocate
Episode: What is the Use of One Cheek? (featuring Brian Michael Smith)
Ericka Hart
Black queer femme activist, writer, sexuality educator
Nasty Work author, Hoodwrap to Headwrap co-host
Episode: Entendre? Make It Triple. (Featuring Ericka Hart)

Hosts

Jon Paul
Host guiding interviews and segments; frequently introduced as a primary host
Joho
Co-host engaging with guests and audience; helps steer conversations and segments

Reviews

4.2 out of 5 stars from 381 ratings
  • To all the Haters

    Wonderfully insightful, witty and funny as ever, warm and inclusive. The tiddle wave of negative reviews is from people leaving bad faith ratings and opinions because they probably don't like themselves more than anything. A real shame but should not take away from this gem and what it has to offer.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Ari_Safari
    Australia6 months ago
  • Victims

    Embarrassing weirdos that will never get far in life. Get an education, go to community college and get a degree.

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    Mr Blind
    United Statesa year ago
  • Incredible Podcasters

    Got the book-already loving it!

    Thank you so much!

    Buy the book babes ♥️

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Blue Ribbon Day
    United Statesa year ago
  • Favorite Pod

    Thank you both so much! Sending you so much love. I look forward to your pod each week.

    Buy the book babes ♥️ I can’t wait to get it!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Blue Ribbon Day
    United Statesa year ago
  • Nope

    Some occasionally interesting and worthy topics, but the hosts are utterly intolerable, with insufferably affected disingenuous tones

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    Veloracer
    Australia2 years ago

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Some critics feel the tone can be provocative or polarizing, but this aligns with the bold stance on representation.
Listeners praise the show for authentic, intersectional perspectives and humor.
Guests often highlight the empoweringly candid conversations and practical takeaways.

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A Canary in the Coal Mine (Featuring Dr. Jenn M. Jackson)
Q: Why was it important for you to keep your work as a personal ethic in your first book and in your broader teaching?
The guest explains that centering Black women and Black queer people emerged from a personal history of isolation in academia, a desire to reflect lived experiences, and a commitment to bring truth and representation to readers who see themselves in the stories.
The Nuance Episode (Featuring Kalen Allen)
Q: How do you balance being your authentic self with the brand you have built?
Kalen discusses separating personal identity from public persona, the need to protect the brand while staying true, and the ongoing negotiation between speaking freely and managing public perception.
A New Scenario (Featuring Dr. Terrell J.A. Winder)
Q: What made you want to include these themes in your book Shameless?
The guest describes focusing on life experiences of Black queer men in LA, using institutions, media representation, and chosen family to explain how people navigate stigma and build new forms of belonging.
A New Scenario (Featuring Dr. Terrell J.A. Winder)
Q: What were some of the earliest moments people named as first learned ideas about their bodies and their bodies becoming a problem?
Dr. Terrell explains that sexuality often had early, clear moments of recognition, while race and gender identity could be more diffuse and tied to where a person grew up, with institutions shaping these realizations over time.
Entendre? Make It Triple. (Featuring Ericka Hart)
Q: How does being written differ from social media presence for visibility?
A book allows deeper nuance and accountability; readers engage with the author's intent and background, not just a clipped opinion, which makes the work more credible and meaningful.

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Frequently Asked Questions About BFF: Black, Fat, Femme

What is BFF: Black, Fat, Femme about and what kind of topics does it cover?

Two hosts guide candid, culturally rich conversations centered on Black, fat, and queer experiences, with a steady stream of guests spanning activists, artists, academics, and industry creators. Episodes frequently explore representation, visibility, community healing, and the tensions between commerce and authentic storytelling. The show shines in its unapologetic humor, sharp critique of media ecosystems, and practical discussions about advocacy, body autonomy, and inclusive culture. It's likely to appeal to listeners who value intersectional critique, progressive politics, and celebratory discussions of Black queer joy, while offering concrete takeaways for those seeking to engage diverse audiences or sponsor conversations around represe... more

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Recent guests on BFF: Black, Fat, Femme include:

1. Emma Dilemma Belizario
2. Dominique Morgan
3. Marc Sully Saint-Fleur
4. Dr. Terrell J.A. Winder
5. Kalen Allen
6. Jenn M. Jackson
7. Simone Mariposa
8. Brian Michael Smith

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