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Intimacy Coordinator

SmartLess Media
Dating
Comedy
Bad Dates
Relationships
Dating Fiascos
Love
New York City
Marriage
Bad Dates Podcast
Los Angeles
New York
Dating Disasters
Dating Apps
Dating Experiences
Friendship
Threesomes
Dating Culture
Podcasting
Humor
Online Dating

Joel Kim Booster is your personal intimacy coordinator in his new series celebrating dating, love, sex, marriage, and especially messy situationships. On each episode of Intimacy Coordinator, Joel makes it comfortable for his panel of guests to share the messy, surprising stories, experiences and advice that come when people try to connect. From the euphoric highs to the cringeworthy lows, Joel wa... more

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This week gets spirited as Joel Kim Booster is joined by Adam Conover (Adam Ruins Everything, Big Divorce Energy), Dewayne Perkins, (The Studio, The Blackening) and relationship coach and author, Allison Raskin (Compulsively Yours, I Do (I Think)). T... more

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It’s time to dip back into the archives for another Background Check! Skyler Higley was on Intimacy Coordinator this week, so we’re throwing back to the classic Bad Date story he told Joel and fellow guests Punkie Johnson and Josh Gondelman. Skyler f... more

Joel Kim Booster's first all-straight panel–Asif Ali (Deli Boys, WandaVision), Skyler Higley (The Onion, After Midnight) and Fumi Abe (The Tonight Show, The Late Show)–finally get to ask the potentially career-ending questions that keep them up at ni... more

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What's the most masculine thing about two of drag's most decorated queens? This week, Joel Kim Booster is joined by Monét X Change (Drag Race All Stars 4 winner, The Traitors) and BenDeLaCreme (Drag Race All Stars 3, The Jinkx & DeLa Holiday Show) to... more

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Recent Guests

Skyler Higley
Comedian and host of Help Me Be Black Podcast
Help Me Be Black Podcast
Episode: BACKGROUND CHECK: Skyler Higley
Asif Ali
Actor and comedian known for Deli Boys and WandaVision
Episode: Ask A Gay Anything (w/ Asif Ali, Skyler Higley & Fumi Abe)
Fumi Abe
Comedian and writer for The Late Late Show
Episode: Ask A Gay Anything (w/ Asif Ali, Skyler Higley & Fumi Abe)
Monét X Change
Drag performer, comedian and RuPaul's Drag Race All Stars 4 winner
Episode: Broad Shoulders, High Heels (w/ Monét X Change & BenDeLaCreme)
Brooks Wheelan
Comedian and guest recounting a personal dating story
Comedian
Episode: BACKGROUND CHECK: Brooks Wheelan
Katherine Blanford
Stand-up comedian, star of Catholic Cowgirl
Self-employed/Comedian
Episode: Soggy Burritos That Nobody Wants (w/ Brooks Wheelan & Katherine Blanford)
Danielle Perez
Comedian/actor known for candid, provocative storytelling
Episode: BACKGROUND CHECK: Danielle Perez
Solomon Georgio
Comedian
Episode: Race Play (w/ Danielle Perez, Solomon Georgio & Tien Tran)
Tien Tran
Writer, comedian
Episode: Race Play (w/ Danielle Perez, Solomon Georgio & Tien Tran)

Host

Joel Kim Booster
Host of Intimacy Coordinator; guides conversations around dating, intimacy, and relationships with humor and empathy.

Reviews

4.5 out of 5 stars from 4.9k ratings
  • Parent turn ons episode

    This isn’t about the podcast as a whole but I had to say something. I understand why Joel might not know much about it his topic but please don’t give air time to the woman calling co sleeping and breastfeeding beyond two infantilizing?! And pushing sleep training as beneficial to mental health. And they have a parenting podcast? Scary. Maybe they should learn a bit about attachment theory, child development and what is biologically normal.

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    ScarletSloane
    Australiaa month ago
  • Unclear purpose..

    I enjoyed first dates. Intimacy coordinator doesn’t seem to have a clear purpose.. not funny and just seems to be guests speaking over each other. Disappointing turn

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    Beccstarrr
    Australia2 months ago
  • Miss bad dates

    Not sure what happened to bad dates, but this new updated version called intimacy coordinator is not where it’s at. A very boring show. I would look forward to bad dates each week with hilarious guests and stories, a lot that were relatable. This new version is a snoozer and I really like Joel but this is an unfollow from me.

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    Savvy Savaghna
    United States2 months ago
  • 💜💜💜

    Joel is great as always!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    BAR…1
    United States2 months ago
  • Bring back Urgent Care instead of this!!

    THE CHEFS ARE BEGGING YOU!

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    bng1010
    United States2 months ago

Listeners Say

Key themes from listener reviews, highlighting what works and what could be improved about the show.

Listeners appreciate diverse guest perspectives and personal storytelling.
Format blends seriousness and entertainment; host keeps discussions engaging.
Some fans miss the previous show format but praise the refreshed approach.
Guests deliver candid, warm conversations with humor and real talk.

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Apple Podcasts
#192
Ukraine/Comedy
Apple Podcasts
#228
Saudi Arabia/Comedy

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Ask A Gay Anything (w/ Asif Ali, Skyler Higley & Fumi Abe)
Q: Are you lonely?
The guests describe having friends but question whether comedy colleagues would remain friends outside work. They discuss how partners, busy schedules and limited time can make friendships harder to maintain, and how some men reserve emotional conversations for major life issues.
Ask A Gay Anything (w/ Asif Ali, Skyler Higley & Fumi Abe)
Q: What is something you've always wondered about, gay people, and you cannot be canceled from what you're about to ask?
The guests ask why gay men can be mean, why gay men use numerous labels for types of men, and whether a man who finishes first during sex with another man continues helping his partner. Joel Kim Booster connects sharpness to defensive humor, explains that labels help describe attraction and roles, and says what happens after someone finishes depends on the people and their relationship.
Broad Shoulders, High Heels (w/ Monét X Change & BenDeLaCreme)
Q: What is a good compromise when a trans man's sex drive has increased on testosterone but his wife has a lower sex drive, and he worries he is not enough?
The guests recommend separating self-worth from sexual frequency, recognizing that different sex drives do not necessarily mean less love, and finding forms of intimacy that both partners genuinely want without creating pressure or resentment.
BACKGROUND CHECK: Danielle Perez
Q: Where are we at in your timeline?
She walks through the OkCupid era, emphasizing the awkwardness of online prompts and the realization that in-person chemistry is what ultimately matters.
BACKGROUND CHECK: Danielle Perez
Q: What does your dating history look like? Are you a serial monogamist? Are you somebody who fucks and runs? What's the deal?
Danielle explains that she's not chasing a one-size-fits-all pattern, oscillating between experiments in dating and periods of focus, with a clear preference for connections that feel genuine rather than performative.

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What is Intimacy Coordinator about and what kind of topics does it cover?

A panel-based dating and relationship show hosted by a comedian who guides candid, humorous conversations about love, sex, intimacy, and the messy realities of modern dating. Episodes routinely mix personal anecdotes with thoughtful reflections on monogamy vs non-monogamy, sex positivity, and the social dynamics of dating in entertainment and LGBTQ+ communities. A standout trait is the blend of lighthearted banter with earnest exploration, frequently featuring guests from comedy and pop culture who share bold stories and practical relationship insights. The format is flexible, ranging from roundtable discussions to deep-dive panels, often including industry perspectives and candid takes on media influence, celebrity culture, and personal gr... more

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What guests have appeared on Intimacy Coordinator?

Recent guests on Intimacy Coordinator include:

1. Skyler Higley
2. Asif Ali
3. Fumi Abe
4. Monét X Change
5. Brooks Wheelan
6. Katherine Blanford
7. Danielle Perez
8. Solomon Georgio

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