
When You Don’t Know is the faith-based podcast for Christians navigating dating while having relationship anxiety. Hosted by Joy & Mathieu, a married couple and therapist duo, we get real about the doubts, fears, and questions that often come with love. Through honest conversations, biblical wisdom, and powerful guest interviews, we’ll help you date with confidence, overcome anxiety, and build a m... more
| Publishes | Twice monthly | Episodes | 139 | Founded | 4 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | RelationshipsSociety & Culture | |||

So many people with relationship anxiety are focused on the wrong things in their relationship.
We can get so caught up in chemistry, certainty, and whether we feel “enough” all the time… that we overlook the traits that actually matter most.
And h... more
If you’ve ever felt a sudden “voice” telling you to break up, and it came with guilt, fear, or shame, this episode is for you.
In this conversation, we’re responding to a message that deeply moved us. A man shared that after hearing a sermon, he fel... more
👉 If you struggle with relationship anxiety or ROCD, one of the hardest questions is:
“How do I tell my partner what’s going on in my head… without scaring them, hurting them, or damaging the relationship?”
In this episode, we’re talking about ho... more
The prophetic is often presented as a reliable way to discern relationships — but for many people, it becomes a source of fear, control, and harm.
In this episode, we talk about spiritual abuse that took place in the context of prophetic language an... more
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I feel like many of the things you talk about, the things like attraction & anxiety, are kind of against the grain & not what many people talk about. I’ve never heard anything like I’ve heard on this podcast, and it’s been SO relevant to me!! So THANK YOU so much because I’ve had NO other resource that have been this on point!
I love this podcast so much. I love that they address relationship anxiety and Godly ways to handle it. Both Joy and Mathieu are so down to earth and extremely relatable. So much good stuff in each episode and great examples of how we are not alone in our struggles. I hope you all continue to create more and more beautiful content! ❤️
I think a lot of this advice is way too focused on what they think a relationship should look like
Thanks guys, I love hearing you every week. This is incredible! 👍🏻
Every episode has been awesome! So much wisdom, grace and truth. I really appreciate the humility and transparency. Please keep them coming!!!
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A faith-centered dating show where a married therapy duo discusses anxiety in relationships from a Christian perspective. Episodes frequently explore Relationship Anxiety, Relationship OCD, faith, discernment, and communication, with practical guidance, personal stories, and guest interviews that blend psychology with spiritual insights. The hosts' approach is supportive and pastoral, often promoting courses and coaching to cultivate healthier dating, clearer boundaries, and stronger marriages. The format appears to mix troubleshooting relationship challenges with faith-based wisdom, making it a potential fit for listeners seeking both emotional tools and spiritual clarity in dating and partnership.
What stands out is the consistent emphas... more
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