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When You Don’t Know

Joy and Mathieu Rossignol
Relationship Anxiety
Social Media
Commitment
Marriage
Anxiety
Mental Health
Love Is Blind
Love
Valentine's Day
Opposite Gender Relationships
Relationships
Comparison
Christian Upbringing
Love and Idolatry
Expectations
Personal Growth
Parental Guidance On Relationships
Gender Interactions
Anxiety In Relationships
Communication In Relationships

When You Don’t Know is the faith-based podcast for Christians navigating dating while having relationship anxiety. Hosted by Joy & Mathieu, a married couple and therapist duo, we get real about the doubts, fears, and questions that often come with love. Through honest conversations, biblical wisdom, and powerful guest interviews, we’ll help you date with confidence, overcome anxiety, and build a m... more

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So many people with relationship anxiety are focused on the wrong things in their relationship.

We can get so caught up in chemistry, certainty, and whether we feel “enough” all the time… that we overlook the traits that actually matter most.

And h... more

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If you’ve ever felt a sudden “voice” telling you to break up, and it came with guilt, fear, or shame, this episode is for you.

In this conversation, we’re responding to a message that deeply moved us. A man shared that after hearing a sermon, he fel... more

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👉 If you struggle with relationship anxiety or ROCD, one of the hardest questions is:

“How do I tell my partner what’s going on in my head… without scaring them, hurting them, or damaging the relationship?”

In this episode, we’re talking about ho... more

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The prophetic is often presented as a reliable way to discern relationships — but for many people, it becomes a source of fear, control, and harm.

In this episode, we talk about spiritual abuse that took place in the context of prophetic language an... more

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A long-time member of RAA sharing her marriage journey.
Episode: 119. Imperfect Love Stories: My Anxiety Left After We Got Married

Hosts

Joy Rossignol
Host of the show, therapist, discussing faith and relationships; co-host focusing on faith-based relationship guidance and anxiety.
Mathieu Rossignol
Co-host, therapist, focusing on practical guidance for dating and relationships within a Christian context.

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 144 ratings
  • So good so helpful

    I feel like many of the things you talk about, the things like attraction & anxiety, are kind of against the grain & not what many people talk about. I’ve never heard anything like I’ve heard on this podcast, and it’s been SO relevant to me!! So THANK YOU so much because I’ve had NO other resource that have been this on point!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    wejustmight
    United Statesa year ago
  • This stuff is SO SO good!

    I love this podcast so much. I love that they address relationship anxiety and Godly ways to handle it. Both Joy and Mathieu are so down to earth and extremely relatable. So much good stuff in each episode and great examples of how we are not alone in our struggles. I hope you all continue to create more and more beautiful content! ❤️

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    mnl1013
    United States2 years ago
  • Straight Christian relationship advice

    I think a lot of this advice is way too focused on what they think a relationship should look like

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    Elle Roman Wilson
    United States3 years ago
  • Thank you!

    Thanks guys, I love hearing you every week. This is incredible! 👍🏻

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    5
    FATIM . Is
    Saudi Arabia3 years ago
  • Love this podcast

    Every episode has been awesome! So much wisdom, grace and truth. I really appreciate the humility and transparency. Please keep them coming!!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Hidexandseek
    United States4 years ago

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Some feedback cautions that advice may differ from traditional dating norms but remains valuable for Christian listeners.
Audience notes the blend of faith and psychology as uniquely helpful and relatable.
Listeners praise the show for addressing relationship anxiety with compassion and practical tools.

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136. Is God really telling you to break up with your partner?
Q: What should someone do if they feel God is telling them to break up, but their heart loves the person and wants to stay?
The hosts encourage recognizing that not every intense feeling is a divine command; distinguish fear or OCD from God's voice, seek understanding, and look for guidance that aligns with love, freedom, and Biblical fruit, rather than guilt or shame. They suggest exploring masterclasses to differentiate God's voice from anxiety and to gain healthier patterns of discernment.
130. Imperfect Love Stories: From Anxiously Dating to Happily Married
Q: What can partners do if one is experiencing anxiety?
The partner should focus on doing the necessary emotional work to address their own feelings and support their relationship.
130. Imperfect Love Stories: From Anxiously Dating to Happily Married
Q: What is one piece of advice you'd give someone experiencing relationship anxiety?
Stay in community with people that are unbiased and can hold you accountable, rather than just people who tell you what you want to hear.
104. Q&A: What If I Find My Partner Annoying?
Q: How much or how often should I share with my partner about my anxiety?
It's important to share enough for your partner to understand your experience but also to manage your own anxiety. Begin with a conversation about your feelings and let them know you are working through your own challenges without overburdening them.
104. Q&A: What If I Find My Partner Annoying?
Q: How do I stop self-sabotaging my relationship?
To stop self-sabotaging, you need to be aware of your patterns of behavior and actively choose to engage in actions that align with what you want in your relationship, rather than allowing anxiety-driven behaviors to dictate your actions.

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Frequently Asked Questions About When You Don’t Know

What is When You Don’t Know about and what kind of topics does it cover?

A faith-centered dating show where a married therapy duo discusses anxiety in relationships from a Christian perspective. Episodes frequently explore Relationship Anxiety, Relationship OCD, faith, discernment, and communication, with practical guidance, personal stories, and guest interviews that blend psychology with spiritual insights. The hosts' approach is supportive and pastoral, often promoting courses and coaching to cultivate healthier dating, clearer boundaries, and stronger marriages. The format appears to mix troubleshooting relationship challenges with faith-based wisdom, making it a potential fit for listeners seeking both emotional tools and spiritual clarity in dating and partnership.

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