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The purpose of this podcast, Heart of Dating, is to unmask the ever-so-ambiguous world of dating in the Christian world. While there are resources spread out over the years, there are not many centralized areas where Christians can access dating advice, help, and guidance easily and in a fashion that is accessible. The ultimate hope is that Heart of Dating Podcast will start a healthy conversation... more

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Today we’re diving deep into what it means to be equally yoked as Addison and Julie Bevere join Kait and JJ to unpack spiritual compatibility, missional dating, and their own journey from MySpace DMs to marriage!

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Our Christian Bachelor sat down for three 5-minute dates… and had to choose who to continue with. 🌹 Meanwhile, Kait & JJ dove into your top questions on ghosting, keeping God at the center of dating, and even dropped a major HODC 2026 scoop you won’... more

Today we're diving into the realities of compromise in relationships as Kait and JJ unpack why holding too tightly to our preferences—like location, routines, or lifestyle—can make dating harder, especially as we get older, and share honest stories o... more

Today we’re diving deep with Jamal Miller as he unpacks the true difference between compatibility and suitability in Christian dating, challenging us to pursue purposeful partnerships that go beyond chemistry and shared hobbies!

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Recent Guests

Addison Bevere
Author and speaker, focusing on Christian engagement and relationship dynamics
Episode: S16 Ep278: Equally Yoked vs Missionary Dating - Addison & Juli Bevere
Julie Bevere
Author and speaker, partner of Addison Bevere, sharing insights on relationship dynamics within Christian practice
Episode: S16 Ep278: Equally Yoked vs Missionary Dating - Addison & Juli Bevere
Jamal Miller
A relationship coach and speaker supporting singles.
The One University
Episode: S16 Ep276: What if we're not compatible? with Jamal Miller
Sam Joelman
Expert on trauma and sexuality, author of "The Sex Talk You Never Got"
Episode: S16 Ep274: Arousal, Desire & Lust: The Sex Talk You Never Got
Stephen Chandler
Pastor and author of Relationship Roadmap
Author, Pastor
Episode: S16 Ep273: Pacing and Boundaries: How Fast is Too Fast?
Chris Cook
Host of the Win Today podcast and author of Healing What You Can't Erase
Win Today
Episode: S15.5 Ep271: Am I Too Broken to Be Loved? Stuck in Self-Sabotage and Shame | Chris Cook
Miah Huber
A Christian influencer who shares her experience on dating and abuse
Episode: S15.5 Ep270: Don’t Rush to the Altar: Why Discernment Matters More Than Chemistry with Miah Huber
Kenneth Lock
Pastor and chaplain for the Milwaukee Bucks, and a leader in his community
Milwaukee Bucks
Episode: S15.5 Ep 269: Divorced & Dating as a Single Dad & Pastor | Kenneth Lock
Annie F. Downs
Podcast host, speaker, and author
That Sounds Fun
Episode: S15.5 Ep 268: Brutality & Beauty of Singleness | Annie F. Downs Breaks Her Silence

Hosts

Kait Tomlin
Co-host and creator of the Heart of Dating Podcast
JJ Tomlin
Co-host of Heart of Dating Podcast

Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars from 3.5k ratings
  • Thought-provoking wisdom & Guests

    Thank you for challenging my thinking with wise counsel and hosting such godly wisdom from your guests. I appreciate your heart for singles!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Cin3john
    United Statesa month ago
  • A Podcast That Grows With You

    One word to describe this podcast? Insightful!

    I’m so grateful I found it years ago when I was single, because it carried me through the challenges of that season and made me feel truly seen in the heartache that came with it. Now that I’m in a new season of dating, I still turn to this podcast often. There’s hardly a topic Kait and JJ haven’t covered, and I find myself relistening to episodes that speak to me in fresh ways now that I’m living them out. Kait and JJ, thank you for serving the bod... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Madelaine.with.ai
    Germany2 months ago
  • Bullseye!

    Have enjoyed your podcast from early on during pandemic. I too am a single Christian woman who is older (61yo) and find a lot of the content pertinent and helpful on my dating journey. Wish you would broaden the audience you speak to and include ‘us’. It applies and there are a lot of us who would benefit from your message! Keep up the great work and thanks!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    JEBONEILL
    United States5 months ago
  • Never too old to date

    I am single widower and active in my church. I want to get back into dating and eventually get married. I am also 61 years old and didn’t know quite how to jump back in. My therapist said look for podcasts and websites for dating and just see if it fits what you’re looking for.

    Even though your podcast addresses, mainly younger people, I found your Advice to be helpful and to help me be more confident in approaching dating in this new phase of life.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Jklems99
    United States7 months ago
  • Licensed therapist loves this show

    As a licensed therapist that’s also in the dating world, this podcast has been so helpful and created so much hope. They provide research-based information and through the lens of Christ.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    hannahb2097
    United States8 months ago

Listeners Say

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Listeners appreciate the insightful and practical advice provided for navigating Christian dating, highlighting the hosts' authenticity and relatability.
Some criticisms mention a desire for broader representation within episodes or less focus on ads, yet many value the supportive community created through the podcast.
Many reviews commend the podcast for addressing complex topics often overlooked, fostering honest conversation about sexuality and relationships.

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S16 Ep278: Equally Yoked vs Missionary Dating - Addison & Juli Bevere
Q: Is missionary dating okay?
It's descriptive of some situations but not prescriptive; it's unique to each case and involves personal growth and commitment.
S16 Ep278: Equally Yoked vs Missionary Dating - Addison & Juli Bevere
Q: What does unequally yoked mean and how does it apply to dating and relationships?
It refers to the difference in spiritual maturity and compatibility in a relationship, focusing on whether partners share the same vision and values.
S16 Ep276: What if we're not compatible? with Jamal Miller
Q: What is the difference between suitability and compatibility?
Suitability means being fit for a purpose and having aligned values, while compatibility is often seen as the lack of conflict, which is less important in a relationship.
S16 Ep273: Pacing and Boundaries: How Fast is Too Fast?
Q: How do you know that you're maybe going too fast?
Common signs include constant questioning of your feelings and decisions, and rushing into major life decisions together.
S15.5 Ep270: Don’t Rush to the Altar: Why Discernment Matters More Than Chemistry with Miah Huber
Q: How did you meet this said guy before your sweet son was in the picture?
I was living on Oahu and was in a missionary school called Youth with a Mission in Honolulu, Hawaii.

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A comprehensive exploration of dating dynamics within the Christian community, focusing on honesty and integrity in relationships. Addresses a wide range of topics including sexual health, emotional boundaries, and the significance of self-understanding in dating. Insights from both hosts and expert guests promote a personalized approach to dating advice, challenging conventional norms while encouraging audiences to navigate their relationships with faith-based guidance. Noteworthy is the podcast's commitment to tackling complex topics often overlooked in traditional discussions, such as the impact of purity culture and the importance of acknowledging diverse dating experiences.

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1. Dear Future Husband
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Recent guests on Heart of Dating include:

1. Addison Bevere
2. Julie Bevere
3. Jamal Miller
4. Sam Joelman
5. Stephen Chandler
6. Chris Cook
7. Miah Huber
8. Kenneth Lock

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