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Marriage
Friendship
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Wedding Planning
Social Media
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Long-Distance Relationships
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Debt Management
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Money Lending
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Motherhood
Self-Sabotage
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Welcome to Toni Told Me, the cozy corner of the internet where real talk meets real tea with the internet's big sis, Toni Tone! Each episode Toni will dive into the everyday dilemmas you face—relationships, family, career choices and everything in between. Toni’s got your back and is serving up heartfelt advice. Whether you're feeling stuck, seeking guidance, or just want to share a laugh, take a ... more

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Toni's talking dating with discernment this week, because sometimes what feels like chemistry is actually just desperation for connection in disguise 👀 Plus in Teatime with Toni, Producer Annisha joins to unpack two listener dilemmas: one on realisi... more

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Beauty maxxing is everywhere right now 👀 Toni's unpacking soft maxxing vs hard maxxing, whether it's genuine empowerment or insecurity wearing a cute filter, plus her own routine, the things she regrets and the things that were 100% worth it. But he... more

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Toni's unpacking Auntie Culture this week. The backhanded compliments, the double standards and the self appointed board of directors who somehow have an opinion on everything you do. Plus, what happens when your mum starts planning your wedding befo... more

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Toni's talking people pleasing this week and why it never actually pays off 😩 Plus Teatime with Toni is back with Producer Annisha for two juicy dilemmas: a listener who found something in her boyfriend's wallet that isn't hers, and another grieving... more

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Recent Guests

Damilola (Dami)
Black gay beauty creator in the UK; Nigerian
Independent creator
Episode: Conversion Therapy Made Me MORE Gay
Alejandra Maria
Dating strategist and content creator known as Anxiously Ale
Anxiously Ale / Masterclass
Episode: Maneaters Always Win ft. Anxiously Alej
Simply Sayo
Poet, comedian, and content creator
Episode: Simply Sayo talks Sickle Cell
Dr. Tara
Leading expert in dating, relationships, and intimacy, known from Celebs Go Dating.
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Episode: She Coaches Celebs… Now She’s Coaching YOU
Dr. Jade
Licensed psychologist and founder of Lux Psychology Practice
Lux Psychology Practice
Episode: Lightening the Load: Real Talk for Mental Health Week
Rocky Ayal
HR professional and social media friend of Toni
Social Media Agency
Episode: The First Decade of Adulthood
Tiwa Adebayo
Confidence coach and award-winning founder
Founder of Confident and Killing It
Episode: Too Much?... Good.
Dr. Rhona Eskander
Award-winning dentist specializing in cosmetic and general dentistry, content creator and influencer
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Episode: Halitosis Heartbreak
David Larbi
A creator, poet, and author known for his work on happiness and reflection.
Author of Frequently Happy
Episode: You Matter Because You Exist

Host

Toni Tone
Host of Toni Told Me Pod; widely featured as the central voice offering relationship, money, and life-advice with a warm, sisterly tone.

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 695 ratings
  • I got this recommendation on TT, and I feel like I'm in the right space already

    Podcast Addict
    5
    aishagrows
    a month ago
  • The Testimony

    Hi all, just like Toni mentioned in her last episode — I am starting to think big about myself. Learning to plan more, be kinder to myself, set boundaries and be more assertive.

    I am proud of this pod and also proud of myself because not only have there been life advices on here, o have followed through!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Uto mmicha
    United Kingdom10 months ago
  • Big Sister Advice!

    As the youngest and only girl of the family, hearing the advice and lessons from Toni and her guests allows a greater sense of girlhood and what it can be.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Madisonkyaraaa
    United Statesa year ago
  • Fav Pod!

    Absolutely amazing stuff you’re doing here Toni!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    SomaRuth
    Canadaa year ago
  • Big sister

    My big sister is so smart and well spoken.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Oyindamola 🤟🏽🤟🏽🤟🏽
    United Kingdoma year ago

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Listeners praise the host for being relatable and empowering, describing the show as like getting advice from a big sister.
Guests and topics are seen as authentic and helpful across relationship, money, and life decisions.
Audiences value practical, breakup- and boundary-focused guidance with a supportive tone.

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Beauty Maxxing... Are we taking it too far?
Q: How should someone respond when a partner or friend pressures them to alter their appearance?
The guidance centers on autonomy and consent, suggesting to communicate clearly that changes should be for personal desire, not to appease another, and to assess the other person's willingness to support boundaries without pressuring the individual to modify their body.
Beauty Maxxing... Are we taking it too far?
Q: Sisterhood Spotlight on looks maxing: what does the movement actually involve, and how does it show up for women today?
The host explains that looks maxing encompasses both softer self-care acts like skincare and gym-go practices, and harder cosmetic changes, with a critical lens on how pressures from society and online culture push people toward constant optimization rather than accepting their natural selves.
We NEED to talk about Aunties...
Q: How do I set boundaries with my mum without disrespecting her?
acknowledge her care and values, explain your personal timeline, and present a plan that balances respect with your own growth, using clear, calm communication.
Maneaters Always Win ft. Anxiously Alej
Q: How does Alejandra view dating after a major heartbreak, and what practices helped her find a healthy relationship?
She describes taking time for self-work, embracing celibacy to reset, developing clear personal goals, and finding a partner who aligns with her independence and ambition, which ultimately allowed her to open up to a supportive relationship.
Maneaters Always Win ft. Anxiously Alej
Q: What were the pivotal moments that pushed Alejandra to rebuild her life after such upheaval?
Alejandra details leaving an engagement and a pregnancy, moving continents, and choosing herself over staying in a toxic situation, which catalyzed learning, pursuing psychology, and building a platform that grew into her current work and partnerships.

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What is Toni Told Me about and what kind of topics does it cover?

A relationship- and life-advice show led by a warm, candid host who speaks frankly about boundaries, self-worth, money, and family. Episodes frequently center on romance, sisterhood, mental health, and practical strategies for navigating modern dating, work-life balance, and cultural family dynamics. Unique strengths include a relatable, mentor-like vibe and a willingness to tackle sensitive topics with empathy and realism, often weaving personal stories with actionable takeaways. Listeners seem drawn to straightforward guidance from a self-described “big sis,” along with discussions that blend empowerment with practical, everyday solutions. Potential sponsors may find appeal in a show that blends personal development with real-world dilemm... more

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2. Alejandra Maria
3. Simply Sayo
4. Dr. Tara
5. Dr. Jade
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7. Tiwa Adebayo
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