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Should We Get Married? with Maxson and Emily

Maxson + Emily
Marriage
Immigration
Conjugal Visits
Relationships
Taxes
Polyamory
Couples Therapy
Soulmates
New York City
German Citizenship
European Union
Repair
Parenthood
Marriage History
Prison Rights and Visitation
Family Structure
Green Card
The Bit List
Communication

We’re Maxson and Emily. We’ve been together for 4.5 years and we want to have a family together, but…getting legally married? That’s not so obvious to us. In each episode we talk to someone who has special knowledge about marriage: a divorcee, an ER nurse, an accountant, a prenup lawyer, a polyamorous married couple, a 12-year-old with unmarried parents, and many others. In our final episode, we’l... more

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After months of discussions with friends, family, strangers, and experts, Maxson and Emily have made a decision. And, we are announcing it here in our final episode!

To all of you who have been a part of our journey, thank you. We are so grateful an... more

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We talk to Rob Schuham, a friend and author, about how he gave up 90% of his net worth to his ex-wife in his divorce more than 20 years ago. He walks us through the arc of his relationship, explaining how he ignored tensions early on while convincing... more

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We talk to Rabbi Ben Spratt, Emily's beloved family rabbi, about the Jewish idea that restriction is what makes something sacred: that you haven't really made a choice until you've also chosen what you're not going to do. He also tells us about some ... more

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We talk to Archie, a substance abuse counselor, nationally ranked yo-yoer, and the son of Isabel from Episode 4. He has eight divorces in his immediate family, including his own parents'. He tells us about going through addiction and recovery program... more

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Recent Guests

John J. Lennon
Incarcerated journalist at Sing Sing Prison
Sing Sing Prison
Episode: John: what if one of us went to prison?
Karen Gordon
Couples therapist who treats the couple and provides macro and micro perspectives on relationships
Private practice
Episode: Karen: what does our therapist think?
Julia Funke
Immigration attorney
Immigration law practice
Episode: Julia: can you prove you're in love?
Isabel Gillies
Actress, writer, and friend
Actor/Writer
Episode: Isabel: does marriage stop you from breaking up?
Deb Hemmerly
Trauma nurse, guest on the episode
San Francisco General Hospital
Episode: Deb: what happens when you're dying?

Hosts

Emily Carter
Co-host with Maxson exploring marriage from a curious, non-judgmental perspective.
Maxson Jarecki
Co-host driving the investigation into marriage as a social and legal institution.

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 32 ratings
  • Colette

    Awesomeness

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Nehemiah 1226
    United States23 days ago
  • Amazing Show💫

    Thank you Emily n Max for facilitating great conversations with beautiful people that I can absorb and learn from. I’ve always been curious about this topic and here is an accessible resource in the most pleasant package - you both and all of your guests are people I would be friends with🌻 (ep. 3 Isabel is me)

    Can’t wait for more!!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    madelina.flow
    United States2 months ago
  • Charming concept

    An enlightening and thoughtful way to figure out if marriage is the right move! Whether or not you’re considering marriage yourself, if you’re a pragmatist and love Pros and Cons lists, this show is for you.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    a feministtt
    United States3 months ago
  • Never knew I needed this advice so much

    Honestly this has been one of the most impactful podcasts I have ever listened to. I have devoured the episodes and listened to too many twice over. It's really had a big impact on how I think about dating and marriage at a critical time in my life.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    jundisimo
    United States3 months ago
  • Excellent and real

    I have loved these first two episodes. This couple seems truly engaged in an authentic investigation and I love listening to a podcast that has real stakes to it!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    JohnL60
    United States3 months ago

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Great mix of experts and personal stories; not preachy.
Genuine curiosity and vulnerability from hosts.
Thoughtful, honest dialogue about modern relationships.
Useful for couples questioning marriage and for listeners curious about different paths.

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John: what if one of us went to prison?
Q: Do you think the hosts should get married given your experiences?
John reflects that marriage has meaningful benefits and can be a path to rights and recognition, while recognizing its complexities.
John: what if one of us went to prison?
Q: What does the family visitation space look like and how long do you have?
John explains the modular unit setup, the 40-hour limit, and who can visit under marriage conditions.
John: what if one of us went to prison?
Q: Where are you located right now in Sing Sing?
John describes being in the Riverview area of Sing Sing and discusses the look and feel of the facility.
Miles + Elektra: can you love more than one person?
Q: Given you're in a non-monogamous space, why did you want to get married and what does marriage mean to you if not monogamy?
Marriage for us is a ceremonial affirmation of our relationship and a platform to formalize shared values like authenticity, community, adventure, and balance, rather than a default for sexual exclusivity.
Isabel: does marriage stop you from breaking up?
Q: Knowing what you know about us after this conversation, do you think we should get married?
Isabel says yes, noting that their thoughtful communication and curiosity are strong reasons to consider marriage, while acknowledging there's no guaranteed outcome.

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The show follows a couple exploring whether to marry by talking with a rotating slate of guests who bring legal, medical, emotional, and practical perspectives on modern love and partnership. Episodes cover topics like marriage as a legal framework, non-traditional relationships, parenting without marriage, immigration implications tied to marital status, and how institutions (hospitals, schools, government) intersect with commitment. The conversations emphasize curiosity, vulnerability, and real-world trade-offs, often highlighting that marriage is not the only path to stable family life, while also acknowledging the benefits and complications of legal bonds. A standout throughline is the hosts' transparent, evolving stance as they intervi... more

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