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Swapping Secrets

Our Secret Spot
Swinging
Sydney
Non-Monogamy
Consent
Swingers Club
Swinging Lifestyle
Sex Work
LGBTQ+ Community
Queer Spaces
Social Events
Kink Parties
Community Building
February Events
Sexual Exploration
Newbie Night
Sydney, Australia
Our Secret Spot
Safety In Event Spaces
BDSM
Ethical Non-Monogamy

Swapping Secrets invites you behind closed doors—into a world of open-minded love, queer glances, and unapologetic connection. Hosted by Jess and Lawrence, this podcast unveils juicy real-life stories, fierce-first tips, and playful provocations from inside the Our Secret Spot community. Whether you’re lifestyle-curious or full-time kinky, expect sharp insights, consent-driven conversations, and t... more

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In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence unpack one of the most relatable (and chaotic) parts of modern relationships — red flags in dating and why we ignore them when attraction takes over. We’ve all been there… The red flags are obvio... more

Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! In this exclusive, sneak-peek clip from our new segment, Raunchy Recaps, Jess and Lawrence share some of the wildest swingers club stories from inside Our Secret Spot. From dungeon enc... more

In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence sit down with Genevieve LeJeune, founder of Skirt Club — the world’s largest women-only community for bisexual and bi-curious women. With over 27,000 members worldwide, Skirt Club has created a s... more

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In Part 2 of this deep-dive episode, Jess and Lawrence answer real questions from the OSS community about boundaries, consent, rule-breaking, and what really happens when things shift mid-play. We unpack: • What to do when another couple changes the ... more

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Recent Guests

Genevieve LeJeune
Founder and CEO of Skirt Club, the world's biggest and only women-only community for bicurious and bisexual women
Skirt Club
Episode: What Happens at a Women-Only Sex Party? (w/ Genevieve LeJeune)
Susan Bratton
Global intimate expert and author
Better Lover
Episode: The New Midlife Sexual Renaissance – Why Sex Gets Better With Age w/ Susan Bratton (BetterLover)
Rosie Rees
One of Australia's leading voices in sexual wellness, intimacy, empowerment, and conscious self-pleasure.
Founder of Yoni Pleasure Palace
Episode: Pleasure Without Permission with Rosie Rees
Lucy Banks
Founder of Million Billion Media and CEO of the Australian Industry Choice Awards
Million Billion Media
Episode: No Rules, Just Love: Redefining Relationships with Lucy Banks (Part 2)
Natasha Rose
A Sydney author known for writing erotic fiction, including her debut novel Testify.
Episode: OSS Presents: Seductive Stories & Erotic Novels — With Natasha Rose
Lauren Hay
Author and swinging lifestyle coach from the US.
Episode: 100. 100th Episode Celebration!
Lani Deviant
Miss Leather Australia and a special guest instructor
Episode: 95. Do You Love Threesomes (March Madness & A** Licking April 2025)
Lauren Hayes
Author and coach specializing in non-monogamous relationships
swinginglifestylecoach.com
Episode: 94. Lessons on Love and Life from a Non-Monagamist (feat. Lauren Hayes)
Jess Cattelli
Owner and manager of Our Secret Spot swingers club
Our Secret Spot
Episode: 92. Hot Nerds – Something a little different.

Hosts

Jess
Co-host of Swapping Secrets; described as a host for Our Secret Spot community.
Lawrence
Co-host of Swapping Secrets; involved with Our Secret Spot.

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 360 ratings
  • Try not to come

    Aside from the amazingly described sexy stories that are all kinds of spicy, this podcast is so incredibly insightful. It is so easy to listen to Jess and Lawrence and I have learnt so much from them and I love talking about it with my husband. After hearing so much about the club I feel we can’t not come to see, touch, smell, taste and hear all the happenings within the club for ourselves. Looking forward to finally visiting. J and K

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    JD & KL
    Australia9 months ago
  • The podcast that prepped me for a night to remember - from fantasies to reality!

    As a young 20-year-old woman, I’ve always had fantasies about exploring something wild, in particular, being with multiple guys at once. When the guy I’m dating suggested we check out the club—since he’d been before—I was beyond excited but a bit nervous too. That’s when I started listening to the podcast. It became my go-to guide for everything I needed to know about swinging. They cover every naughty detail, from what to expect at the club to how to get the most out of the experience. It made ... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Youngfantasychaser
    Australia2 years ago
  • Titillating tales and teachings Thanks

    I love this podcast! It has made my trips to work so much more enjoyable, if not leaving me a little distracted at times when I get there. I don’t think I’ll ever get to participate in the LS but do know that if my wife changes her mind, I am well armed with etiquette, knowledge and an understanding of the importance of consent! I have loved listening to the variety of guests and listen to them share their experiences and their stories of transformative experiences. Well done and thank you Jess,... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Darkersmurf
    Australia2 years ago
  • First timers last weekend

    Great podcast, so informative and instructive especially for those of us with little to no experience in the LS, we went to the newbie night on Saturday after a disappointing experience at the other club in Sydney and the podcast and reviews made us determined to experience it for ourselves and we were not disappointed, in fact that’s an understatement, it was life changing, the staff, the atmosphere, the other guests, the whole vibe and sense of inclusion and acceptance was beyond anything we h... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Stunned newbies
    Australia2 years ago
  • Excellent Podcast Overall

    Great podcast for someone who is very curious about the lifestyle. Great insight and knowledge on everything related to this lifestyle and some great stories shared as well. Would love to meet Lawrence and Jess one day and say hi. I was in the top 2% listeners last year so I am a huge fan. All the best guys and keep doing what you do. 😍

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    currygovegemite
    Australia2 years ago

Listeners Say

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Fans value practical tips for newbies and couples considering non-monogamy.
The show's authenticity and humor are frequently highlighted as a strength.
Listeners praise the open, candid discussions on sexuality and boundaries.

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Did Our Sexual Desires Mess Us Up?
Q: Does the lifestyle become overwhelming for you?
No, it doesn't feel overwhelming because they work in the environment, and it's more about managing emotions than feeling overwhelmed by the atmosphere.
Did Our Sexual Desires Mess Us Up?
Q: How do you approach your partner about stepping into the lifestyle?
It's best to bring it up during an intimate moment, discussing fantasies and desires together and being open about why you're interested in non-monogamy.
The New Midlife Sexual Renaissance – Why Sex Gets Better With Age w/ Susan Bratton (BetterLover)
Q: What do you have to say about hormones and how they affect intimacy, libido, and relationships?
Bratton indicates that perimenopause leads to hormonal shifts that affect women's libido, emphasizing that communication and planning for intimacy can help maintain a vibrant sexual life.
Pleasure Without Permission with Rosie Rees
Q: How can people reconnect with their bodies in a world full of distractions?
Daily breathwork and sensual touching practices can help individuals reconnect with their bodies and establish a sense of safety.
Pleasure Without Permission with Rosie Rees
Q: What are some of the myths and misconceptions that you encounter when it comes to the Yoni Palace?
People may feel scared to use crystal and glass dildos internally, thinking they might break, but the glass used is very strong and safe.

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This show centers on candid conversations about non-monogamy, sexual wellness, and club culture, often featuring real-life listener questions, guest perspectives, and practical tips for navigating swinging and open relationships. Episodes mix personal anecdotes with actionable guidance on boundaries, consent, communication, and preparing for experiences in intimate communities. A standout aspect is the hosts' approachable banter and thoughtfulness around consent, safety, and emotional resilience, making it a resource for couples and curious individuals exploring alternative relationship dynamics while keeping the tone light and inclusive.

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Recent guests on Swapping Secrets include:

1. Genevieve LeJeune
2. Susan Bratton
3. Rosie Rees
4. Lucy Banks
5. Natasha Rose
6. Lauren Hay
7. Lani Deviant
8. Lauren Hayes

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