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Love in a F*cked Up World

Dean Spade
Relationships
Queer Liberation
Conflict Resolution
Jealousy
Love In a Fcked Up World
Abolition
Mutual Aid
Emotion Regulation
Long-Distance Relationships
Interpersonal Relationships
Trans Liberation
Healing
Embodiment
Feedback
Chicago
ICE
Solidarity
Possessiveness
Marsha P. Johnson
Pedestalization

Why do so many of us act our worst in relationships? How can we hold on to our liberatory values even when strong feelings are involved? For 25 years, Dean Spade has been working in movements for queer and trans liberation and to end police, prisons, immigration enforcement, and war. In his new podcast, Love in a F*cked Up World, Dean and his guests offer concrete tools for building and sustaining... more

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Jessica Lanyadoo is back with Dean for part two of this AMA, where they tackle more listener questions. They dive into everything from negotiating relationship terms — like how to open a relationship, set boundaries, and talk about safer sex — to con... more

Jessica Lanyadoo joins Dean for the first AMA episode of Love in a F*cked Up World. Jessica and Dean answer listener questions about how to navigate our relationships with friends in the context of these terrifying times, how to deal with differing a... more

Kelly Hayes joins Dean Spade to talk about the relational work of movement building. In a critical moment in Chicago, Kelly and Dean talk about how to establish the trust needed to take the kinds of risks necessary to fight ICE and fascist invasion. ... more

Weyam Ghadbian joins Dean Spade to talk about Dean's tool 7 Steps for Deescalating a Crush, how Weyam encouraged Dean to discuss the transformative power of love, when attachment theory is useful, and when it's ok to give self help books as gifts.

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Recent Guests

Kelly Hayes
Organizer, journalist, and co-author of Let This Radicalize You
Episode: Kelly Hayes
Weyam Ghadban
A Syrian healer, meditation instructor, comedian, and transformative facilitator.
Episode: Weyam Ghadbian
Mariame Kaba
An abolitionist and anti-violence organizer, founder of Project NIA and Interrupting Criminalization.
Episode: Mariame Kaba
Morgan Bassichis
An amazing artist, performer, and anti-Zionist and abolitionist organizer.
Episode: What Else is True?

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Dean Spade
Host focused on relationships and their intersection with social justice and activism, deeply engaged in queer and trans liberation movements for over 25 years.

Reviews

5.0 out of 5 stars from 126 ratings
  • Great convos

    Really enjoying the interviews and tidbits of the book. I still need to read it but in the meantime it’s very engaging to listen to the podcast. I’m learning a lot!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Acer Maple
    United States15 days ago
  • Medicine for these Times

    Don’t skip this podcast if you’re interested in the personal as political! Dean is freeing us from so many lies of domination within sex, romance, and community spaces. Truly healing and revolutionary!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    soularbear
    United Statesa month ago
  • Essential fuel for our hearts and minds

    Another amazing gift to the world from Dean Spade. We need this. Fuel for the revolution. Thank you Dean !!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    atrack5678
    Canadaa month ago
  • Fantastic listen!

    Amazing to have a podcast (and book!) that avoids moralizing relationships beyond how we care for one another. I’ve teared up, felt like my circumstances have been acknowledged, and given tools that can help in all manner of relationships. Grateful for this.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    killer-ribbit
    United States2 months ago
  • Dean Spade Knows His Stuff

    This podcast is a prime example for why Dean Spade is so highly regarded in the field of activism. His ability to communicate complex ideas in an accessible and enjoyable package is on full display, due in no small part to the warm rapport he has with his equally knowledgeable guests. A must listen!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Ishik
    Germany2 months ago

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Many highlight the warmth and relatability of the host and guests, making complex ideas accessible.
The podcast is seen as a valuable resource for navigating relationships in these challenging times and is frequently recommended for its actionable advice and emotional support.
Listeners appreciate the insightful discussions that blend personal growth with social justice topics.

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AMA with Jessica Lanyadoo (Part 2)
Q: How can I approach not being closed off to other relationships while searching for a serious partner?
Loosen your grip on the vision of what a good relationship looks like. Flexibility is key, and taking casual encounters seriously can help you learn about your own desires.
AMA with Jessica Lanyadoo (Part 2)
Q: How can I explore my attraction to a friend while maintaining my existing relationship?
It's significant to communicate with your partner about your feelings. Opening up relationships can be challenging, so explore your desires candidly and examine whether your intentions stem from a genuine wish or are simply a reaction to particular feelings.
AMA with Jessica Lanyadoo (Part 1)
Q: What is the line between trying to choose to self-soothe versus being conflict avoidant?
Self-soothing is necessary for emotional regulation, but one must engage authentically in conflict without avoiding vulnerability to strengthen relationships.
AMA with Jessica Lanyadoo (Part 1)
Q: Do you have any insight about navigating the power dynamics that result from people in relationships having different levels of access to resources?
Discussing money and access openly is vital, alongside creating supportive structures like rent funds and childcare funds within organizing groups.
AMA with Jessica Lanyadoo (Part 1)
Q: How can we create more spaces that feel accessible to people with different masking practices?
We need to organize more masked events, reach out to venues to advocate for precautions, and support each other emotionally during this process.

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The podcast focuses on the complexities of relationships, particularly in the context of social justice and activism. It brings together a range of guests who share insights on navigating interpersonal connections amidst broader societal challenges such as systemic oppression, violence, and the quest for liberation. Topics often include community building, effective communication, conflict resolution, and the emotional dynamics of relationships, all reinforced by the host's extensive experience in queer and trans liberation movements. The show provides listeners with practical tools and perspectives to foster healthier relationships that align with their values and contribute to collective resistance efforts.

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