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Love in a F*cked Up World

Dean Spade
Relationships
Queer Liberation
Jealousy
Conflict Resolution
Love In a Fcked Up World
Abolition
Mutual Aid
Emotion Regulation
Long-Distance Relationships
Trans Liberation
Healing
Embodiment
Feedback
ICE
Chicago
Possessiveness
Marsha P. Johnson
Pedestalization
Transformative Justice
Electronic Communication

Why do so many of us act our worst in relationships? How can we hold on to our liberatory values even when strong feelings are involved? For 25 years, Dean Spade has been working in movements for queer and trans liberation and to end police, prisons, immigration enforcement, and war. In his new podcast, Love in a F*cked Up World, Dean and his guests offer concrete tools for building and sustaining... more

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Latest Episodes

Kelly Hayes joins Dean Spade to talk about the relational work of movement building. In a critical moment in Chicago, Kelly and Dean talk about how to establish the trust needed to take the kinds of risks necessary to fight ICE and fascist invasion. ... more

Weyam Ghadbian joins Dean Spade to talk about Dean's tool 7 Steps for Deescalating a Crush, how Weyam encouraged Dean to discuss the transformative power of love, when attachment theory is useful, and when it's ok to give self help books as gifts.

S... more

Dean is excited to share an episode of one of his favorite podcasts, How to Survive the End of the World, hosted by Autumn Brown and adrienne maree brown.

In this episode, "Be My Senpai" the sisters answer a listener question about how to interface ... more

How can you tell when it's time to leave a relationship with a person, project, job, or group? How can you tell if you have a tendency to walk away too fast or to stay too long in relationships? Morgan Bassichis is back to go deep into these question... more

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Recent Guests

Kelly Hayes
Organizer, journalist, and co-author of Let This Radicalize You
Episode: Kelly Hayes
Weyam Ghadban
A Syrian healer, meditation instructor, comedian, and transformative facilitator.
Episode: Weyam Ghadbian
Mariame Kaba
An abolitionist and anti-violence organizer, founder of Project NIA and Interrupting Criminalization.
Episode: Mariame Kaba
Morgan Bassichis
An amazing artist, performer, and anti-Zionist and abolitionist organizer.
Episode: What Else is True?

Host

Dean Spade
Host with extensive experience in movements for queer and trans liberation, focusing on fostering healthy relationships amidst social justice challenges.

Reviews

5.0 out of 5 stars from 109 ratings
  • Fantastic listen!

    Amazing to have a podcast (and book!) that avoids moralizing relationships beyond how we care for one another. I’ve teared up, felt like my circumstances have been acknowledged, and given tools that can help in all manner of relationships. Grateful for this.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    killer-ribbit
    United Statesa month ago
  • Dean Spade Knows His Stuff

    This podcast is a prime example for why Dean Spade is so highly regarded in the field of activism. His ability to communicate complex ideas in an accessible and enjoyable package is on full display, due in no small part to the warm rapport he has with his equally knowledgeable guests. A must listen!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Ishik
    Germany2 months ago
  • Dean Spade rules

    Revelatory and delightful—like everything Dean Spade writes, speaks or produces

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Seeyobahn
    United States3 months ago
  • all we have is each other

    Systems of domination, oppression, and sociopolitical control tell us that we are all individuals and that working together is futile. Thankfully, we have Dean Spade and his offerings, tools, and resources to negate that myth, nourish community, and show us that we are stronger together.

    This podcast is an invaluable resource geared toward building community, solidarity across causes, and how our relationships, connections, and values are all intertwined.

    Highly recommend, along with the res... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    usernamedotcom
    United States4 months ago
  • We are all we’ve got, and we have skills

    Competence is way to defeat hoplesssness. Dean Spade and these guests have been figuring out how we can help each other survive and are sharing their wisdom here. It’s not that deep but it does require deep humility and radical love. Fabulous podcast, brilliant minds!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    08030Harry
    United States4 months ago

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Reviewers highlight the emphasis on emotional health and the actionable tools provided, marking the podcast as a crucial resource for anyone looking to deepen their understanding of healthy relationships in challenging contexts.
Listeners praise the show for its insightful discussions around personal and political relationships, often emphasizing how valuable the content is for navigating the complexities of modern connections.
Many appreciate Dean Spade's perspective and ability to intertwine activism with relationship dynamics, noting that the content is refreshing and necessary for fostering community.

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Weyam Ghadbian
Q: Could you talk a little bit more about how you relate to this tension between recognizing the transformative power of love and the dangers of love's intoxication?
Weyam articulated that love can be seen as both a source of transformation and a challenge, often leading to attachment that isolates individuals, contrasting divine love with capitalistic love narratives.
Weyam Ghadbian
Q: Weyam, is there anything you want to add about what you're about or what kinds of stuff you're up to that informs the kind of conversation that we're having today?
Weyam discussed their background as a Syrian and their commitment to helping people navigate solvable conflicts, emphasizing their politicized upbringing.
How to Survive the End of the World: Be My Senpai
Q: How do you move through moments of receiving hatred or even threats and stay grounded and fortified in your purpose?
The co-hosts discuss their personal practices for staying grounded, emphasizing the importance of connecting to one's own sense of purpose and belonging.
Should I Stay or Should I Go?
Q: What does it look like when I'm the emotionally activated person?
I need to discern whether my emotions are valid or stemming from personal issues to provide constructive feedback.
Should I Stay or Should I Go?
Q: How do I know when to keep engaging with people or groups that I'm struggling with and how do I know when to move away?
It's crucial to reflect on your tendencies regarding engagement versus withdrawal, and to assess the dynamics of the group or relationship.

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A focus on the complexities of relationships serves as a central theme in discussions, highlighting how personal connections often intersect with broader social justice issues. Topics such as liberation, community engagement, accountability, and emotional regulation are consistently addressed, all while emphasizing the importance of maintaining liberatory values despite interpersonal challenges. Additionally, episodes offer practical tools for navigating relationship dynamics and emotional complexities, aiding listeners in fostering healthier connections, thereby reinforcing the foundation of collective resistance against systemic injustices. The conversations blend personal experiences and activism, creating a unique space that merges pers... more

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