
Why do so many of us act our worst in relationships? How can we hold on to our liberatory values even when strong feelings are involved? For 25 years, Dean Spade has been working in movements for queer and trans liberation and to end police, prisons, immigration enforcement, and war. In his new podcast, Love in a F*cked Up World, Dean and his guests offer concrete tools for building and sustaining... more
| Publishes | Twice monthly | Episodes | 30 | Founded | a year ago |
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To kick off Season 2, Jessica Lanyadoo is back to answer more listener questions with Dean. In this episode, they respond to questions about confidentiality, self care, and building and maintaining community when friends couple off... more
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Prisons are designed to isolate, break social ties, and destroy communities. Yet, people fight hard to keep relationships going across prison walls, and through all the crises that prisons manufacture. Episode 26 is Part One of a m... more
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Morgan Bassichis is back talking gossip with Dean. Why is it so hard to tell people things directly? Why is it so hard to keep things confidential? How can we tell whether we’re sharing information because it is useful for caring, ... more
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Tea kettle studies non-expert Morgan Bassichis is back with Dean to talk about resentment—how it can poison our enjoyment of the things we want and need to do, how it can be toxic for groups, how it is a reasonable response to the ... more
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Really enjoying the interviews and tidbits of the book. I still need to read it but in the meantime it’s very engaging to listen to the podcast. I’m learning a lot!
Don’t skip this podcast if you’re interested in the personal as political! Dean is freeing us from so many lies of domination within sex, romance, and community spaces. Truly healing and revolutionary!
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The show centers on practical, relationship-minded approaches to social change, pairing activist analysis with intimate conversations about love, care, boundaries, and community resilience. Episodes explore how oppression, state violence, and capitalist pressures shape intimate life—from prison walls and mutual aid to burnout and boundary-setting—while offering concrete tools to sustain connection across distance, disagreement, and risk. A notable strength is translating complex political ideas into accessible relationship skills, often with guests who bring lived experience from abolitionist, feminist, and disability justice movements, plus writers and artists who illuminate culture, feedback, and healing in collective action.
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