
join us for honest conversation as we address ‘the things everyone feels but no one really speaks about’. we’re soph and rach, two girls who met at uni six years ago and have been inseparable ever since. one of our favourite things to do is chat ‘life’. whether it’s navigating change, embracing the single life, having tricky conversations with friends or straight up questioning the meaning of life... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 85 | Founded | 3 years ago |
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if you're single and wondering, "how do I actually meet someone?" this one's for you. we're chatting honestly about dating, meeting people in real life and how that can feel really hard after a long time of doing life on your own.
if you've ever felt like you have no idea what you're doing with your life then we're here to say: it's not just you! in this episode we reminisce on that weird time post-uni where you have to work out who you are, a career to pursue, whether to take... more
today we're talking money, money, money. we've never actually spoken about this topic on the pod before! what do we do when finances our consuming our minds!? how we can be satisfied with what we have and not always be striving for more? we're no exp... more
if you’re struggling to work out whether the guy you like is actually giving you vibes back (whilst he’s living in your head rent-free) then this is the episode for you. we know this feeling all too well. but today, we’re also here to bring a little ... more
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Honest understanding in the complexity of life. Without been bogged down in cynicism
Thanks for creating this podcast! Love it
such a refreshing voice of what it’s actually like to be a girl in her 20’s… whether it be from a christian POV or not these girls hit the nail on the head every time!!!!!!!
Just discovered this podcast and have listened to 5 eps in the last couple of days… love it. Love the idea behind the podcast, the topics you cover and hearing your opinions 🫶🏼 You have a new weekly listener
Just stumbled across this podcast and love it so much! All topics have been so relatable and it just feels like you’re talking to two of your closest girl friends. My only feedback would be asking Rach to pull back on all mouth noises 😭 Definitely just a me problem, but all of the “hmmm hmm hmm” and “yeah yeah yeah’s” can be very distracting. Other than that, loving the podcast!
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Two warm, candid hosts explore everyday life, relationships, friendship, dating culture, and self-image with humor and honesty. Episodes mix personal stories, listener voice notes, and practical takeaways on navigating twenties life—from dating and long-distance dynamics to friendships, weddings, and body image—often centering on female experiences and social dynamics. The show stands out for its relatable banter, vulnerability, and practical tips for building connections, managing expectations, and embracing change without losing a sense of self.
Noteworthy angles include deep dives into hen dos and wedding culture, navigating the single-to-relationship transition, and realistic conversations about age, comparison culture, and self-accept... more
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