
How To Have Sex is the sex education you never got at school, and have been quietly winging ever since. Hosted by broadcaster Jay-Jay Feeney and certified somatic sex and relationship coach Melissa Vranjes. One very curious host and one expert who actually knows the answers. Every episode tackles a real topic: how to improve your sex life, how to talk about intimacy without killing the mood, how t... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 15 | Founded | 4 months ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | Society & CultureHealth & FitnessRelationshipsSexuality | |||

Turns out almost everyone has a fantasy they've never told a single soul. This week Jay-Jay and sex & relationship coach Mel Vranjes get into sexual fantasies; what's actually going on underneath them, why just talking about one can be almost as hot ... more
Ever wanted to make the first move and just… froze?
Initiating is one of the most vulnerable things we do, and almost nobody talks about how hard it is.
This week Jay-Jay Feeney and somatic sex and relationship coach Melissa Vranjes get into how t... more
BDSM. Two seconds after hearing that word, most people picture whips, chains, leather, and some kind of expensive basement situation. (Just me? Okay, just me.)
This week, certified somatic sex and relationship coach Melissa Vranjes breaks down what ... more
Porn. We're going there. Whether you watch it, your partner watches it, or you've never really thought about it, this episode is the honest, shame-free conversation you didn't know you needed.
Jay-Jay and Mel explore why porn is so wildly popular, w... more
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Fantastic pod ladies!!! These conversations need to be normalised and you both do it so well. The perfect combo - the expert and the awkward! Makes it all so relatable. Thank you for being so brave and vulnerable!!
Such a great podcast and a good conversation starter too! Educational, funny, reassuring, mind opening! Love hearing you open up Jay Jay
Loved your first two episodes…normalising ‘stuff’ and thanks JJ for being vulnerable! Looking forward to the next episode!
Such a fun and refreshing listen. Jay Jay and Melissa have such a beautiful synergy ! It’s informative without taking itself too seriously, and I found myself both laughing and learning at the same time. Jay-Jay is incredibly open, honest and vulnerable, the kind of real that makes you instantly feel like you’re just chatting with a friend. Nothing feels sugar-coated, which is what makes it so relatable.
Safe to say I’m now officially looking forward to Hump Day Wednesdays for my weekly fix 👀
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This show blends candid sex education with practical guidance, prioritizing open communication, consent, and pleasure across a wide range of intimate topics. Episodes cover everything from pregnancy libido and postpartum intimacy to advanced techniques, body positivity, and navigating relationships with honesty and humor. A recurring strength is combining expert insight with relatable storytelling, helping listeners feel informed, confident, and less alone in their sexual wellness journey. The format often includes actionable tips, honest anecdotes, and guest-style coaching, with regular emphasis on owning pleasure and reducing performance pressure.
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