
How To Have Sex is the sex education you never got at school, and have been quietly winging ever since. Hosted by broadcaster Jay-Jay Feeney and certified somatic sex and relationship coach Melissa Vranjes. One very curious host and one expert who actually knows the answers. Every episode tackles a real topic: how to improve your sex life, how to talk about intimacy without killing the mood, how t... more
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 35 | Founded | 8 months ago |
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Feet, leather, role-play, secret fantasies… what on earth turns people on, and WHY?!
This week on How To Have Sex, Jay-Jay Feeney and sex and relationship coach Melissa Vranjes dive into the fascinating world of kinks and fetishes. And trust us, thi... more
How to Feel Sexy Again After Heartbreak 💔
They say the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. But is that actually good advice? Or are you just making a bad situation a whole lot messier?
This week on How to Have Sex, Jay-Jay F... more
Have you ever looked at your bits and wondered, “Is that normal?”
You're not alone! And this week, Jay-Jay and Mel are getting VERY personal.
We're talking about the insecurities nobody likes admitting to, from the appearance of our intimate body p... more
Can you ever REALLY forgive someone for cheating? And even if you do, can your relationship ever be the same again?
This week, we're getting VERY personal.
Mel reveals that an ex-boyfriend cheated on her for a year and a half. At one point, anothe... more
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This is a fantastic, informative and honest podcast. So many wonderful insights and ideas. Jay Jays awkward embarrassment and need to crack gags when she feels uncomfortable is very frustrating, when the subject is earnest but playful; but I also understand the awkwardness.
Fantastic pod ladies!!! These conversations need to be normalised and you both do it so well. The perfect combo - the expert and the awkward! Makes it all so relatable. Thank you for being so brave and vulnerable!!
Such a great podcast and a good conversation starter too! Educational, funny, reassuring, mind opening! Love hearing you open up Jay Jay
Loved your first two episodes…normalising ‘stuff’ and thanks JJ for being vulnerable! Looking forward to the next episode!
Such a fun and refreshing listen. Jay Jay and Melissa have such a beautiful synergy ! It’s informative without taking itself too seriously, and I found myself both laughing and learning at the same time. Jay-Jay is incredibly open, honest and vulnerable, the kind of real that makes you instantly feel like you’re just chatting with a friend. Nothing feels sugar-coated, which is what makes it so relatable.
Safe to say I’m now officially looking forward to Hump Day Wednesdays for my weekly fix 👀
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A candid, practical sex-education show hosted by a radio veteran and a certified sex and relationship coach. Episodes consistently tackle real-world intimacy topics—from reigniting desire after resentments or parenting to navigating dating, casual encounters, and long-term relationships—with a warm, humorous tone and concrete tactics. Practical demonstrations, personal anecdotes, and structured frameworks help listeners communicate better, explore boundaries, and rebuild connection without shame. A recurring emphasis on consent, body-awareness, and non-judgmental conversation makes it a reliable resource for couples, singles exploring sexuality, and professionals in relationships or wellness spaces. The show often includes sponsor integrati... more
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