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Sex Education
Sexual Wellness
Communication
Sexuality
Sexual Health
Communication In Relationships
Long-Term Relationships
Initiation Of Sexual Activity
Dating
Foreplay
Relationships
Consent
BDSM
Cervical Orgasm
Butt Play
Erotic Activities
Masturbation
Novelty In Relationships
Body Image
Age Gap Relationship

How To Have Sex is the sex education you never got at school, and have been quietly winging ever since. Hosted by broadcaster Jay-Jay Feeney and certified somatic sex and relationship coach Melissa Vranjes. One very curious host and one expert who actually knows the answers. Every episode tackles a real topic: how to improve your sex life, how to talk about intimacy without killing the mood, how t... more

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Can you ever REALLY forgive someone for cheating? And even if you do, can your relationship ever be the same again?

This week, we're getting VERY personal.

Mel reveals that an ex-boyfriend cheated on her for a year and a half. At one point, anothe... more

Warning: there may be batteries. There may be buzzing. There will definitely be a Batman-shaped cock ring.

This week Jay-Jay Feeney and sex and relationship coach Melissa Vranjes tip a giant box of toys onto the bed and work out what couples should ... more

Not in the mood? It might not be your libido. You might just be really, really annoyed.

Jay-Jay Feeney and sex and relationship coach Melissa Vranjes get into the sneaky way resentment shuts down desire. It's not always the big stuff. It's the bins,... more

The best position isn’t necessarily the one that looks hottest in the Kama Sutra.

This week, Jay-Jay Feeney and Melissa Vranjes are getting into positions - several of them, and figure out what actually makes one feel GOOD.

Because different bodies... more

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Hosts

Jay-Jay Feeney
Host of the show; broadcaster with 30+ years in radio
Melissa Vranjes
Co-host and expert on sex and relationship topics; Certified Sex & Relationship Coach

Reviews

4.3 out of 5 stars from 123 ratings
  • Love it!!!

    Fantastic pod ladies!!! These conversations need to be normalised and you both do it so well. The perfect combo - the expert and the awkward! Makes it all so relatable. Thank you for being so brave and vulnerable!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Cmason22
    New Zealand6 months ago
  • SO GOOD!

    Such a great podcast and a good conversation starter too! Educational, funny, reassuring, mind opening! Love hearing you open up Jay Jay

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    yoyo-chch-nz
    New Zealand7 months ago
  • I want more…!!

    Loved your first two episodes…normalising ‘stuff’ and thanks JJ for being vulnerable! Looking forward to the next episode!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    SuseMcL
    New Zealand7 months ago
  • Open, honest and a little bit naughty!

    Such a fun and refreshing listen. Jay Jay and Melissa have such a beautiful synergy ! It’s informative without taking itself too seriously, and I found myself both laughing and learning at the same time. Jay-Jay is incredibly open, honest and vulnerable, the kind of real that makes you instantly feel like you’re just chatting with a friend. Nothing feels sugar-coated, which is what makes it so relatable.

    Safe to say I’m now officially looking forward to Hump Day Wednesdays for my weekly fix 👀

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Katavandijk
    New Zealand7 months ago

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A candid, practical sex-education show hosted by a radio veteran and a certified sex and relationship coach. Episodes consistently tackle real-world intimacy topics—from reigniting desire after resentments or parenting to navigating dating, casual encounters, and long-term relationships—with a warm, humorous tone and concrete tactics. Practical demonstrations, personal anecdotes, and structured frameworks help listeners communicate better, explore boundaries, and rebuild connection without shame. A recurring emphasis on consent, body-awareness, and non-judgmental conversation makes it a reliable resource for couples, singles exploring sexuality, and professionals in relationships or wellness spaces. The show often includes sponsor integrati... more

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