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Friendless

James Avramenko
Friendship
Mental Health
Community
Dialectical Behavior Therapy
Mindfulness
Community Building
Pro Wrestling
Vulnerability
Sobriety
Authenticity
Emotional Regulation
Social Media
Personal Growth
Imposter Syndrome
Vancouver
Creativity
Borderline Personality Disorder
Loneliness
Identity
Distress Tolerance

Friendless is a podcast about the strange, tender, often painful work of staying connected. Host James Avramenko talks to writers, thinkers, activists, and everyday people about loneliness, platonic love, community, mental health, and what it actually takes to build a life with people in it. No easy answers, no toxic positivity, no pretending the hard parts aren't hard. Just honest, sometimes unco... more

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Content Note: This episode discusses disordered eating. If you’re in recovery or feeling vulnerable, please prioritise your well-being.

This week on a very special episode of Friendless, host James Avramenko sits down with poet Brandi Bird for a dee... more

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Recorded live at Book Warehouse on Main Street, Vancouver, this episode features author and longtime Tyee columnist Steve Burgess, whose new book Cheapskate in Lotus Land: The Philosophy and Practice of Living Well on a Small Budget is part memoir, p... more

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This week on a very special episode of Friendless, your pal James Avramenko is joined by Charlie Demers.

Charlie Demers is a comedian, broadcaster, author, and 20-year veteran of CBC's The Debaters — and somehow all of that is just the warm-up. Rec... more

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What happens when you've spent your whole life fitting a mold — and you finally decide you've had enough?

This week, James sits down with Eddy Boudel Tan, Vancouver-born author of The Tiger and the Cosmonaut, recorded live at Book Warehouse on Main ... more

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Brandi Bird
Poet and writer
Episode: Writing from the Scar: Brandi Bird on Poetry, Recovery, and Identity (Live at the Book Warehouse)
Steve Burgess
Author, journalist and former broadcaster
Episode: Frugality is the best revenge: Steve Burgess on Living Well in Vancouver on Less (Live at the Book Warehouse)
Charlie Demers
Author, comedian, CBC Debaters veteran
Trade Wind Books (for I Sure Do) and CBC
Episode: welcome to the eh team: on canadian humour, identity, and the complicated love of a country (with special guest Charlie Demers)
Eddy Boudel Tan
Author of The Tiger and the Cosmonaut
Author
Episode: on belonging, grief, and identity (with special guest Eddy Boudel Tan) Live at the Book Warehouse
Christine Boyle
BC Minister of Housing and Municipal Affairs
BC Government
Episode: Celebrating Independent Bookstore Day (with special guests Cathy Jesson & MLA Christine Boyle)
Cathy Jesson
Owner of Black Bond Books
Black Bond Books
Episode: Celebrating Independent Bookstore Day (with special guests Cathy Jesson & MLA Christine Boyle)
Iona Whishaw
Author of Lane Winslow Mystery series
Author
Episode: A False Sense of Safety: Iona Whishaw on Trust, Community, and the Lies We Tell Ourselves (Live at the Book Warehouse)
Robin Harding
Author of Strangers in the Villa
Author, Strangers in the Villa
Episode: What Is Forgivable? A Conversation With Robyn Harding (Live from the Book Warehouse)
Garth Mullins
Journalist, activist, and author of the memoir "Crackdown, Surviving and Resisting the War on Drugs"
Vancouver Area Network of Drug Users, Crackdown Podcast
Episode: Mutual Survival: On Community, Grief, and Resistance (with special guest Garth Mullins) LIVE at the Book Warehouse

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James Avramenko
Host of the show; center of conversations about loneliness, belonging, and community.

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 60 ratings
  • So good!

    I would sleep more if I could stop binging this podcast.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Flynn Trinity
    Canada5 years ago
  • A fun concept!

    Podchaser
    5
    Karen Johnson-Diamond
    5 years ago
  • I love this show

    So far just started. Listened to Jacob Richmond. Lovely stuff. Yay.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Mister Stinky
    Canada5 years ago
  • Disconnect to Reconnect

    Super intriguing and engaging host! Love to hear the stories of each guest every week!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    jgreenkey
    Canada7 years ago

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Episodes feel intimate and human, often leaving you with new ways to think about connection.
Guests bring rich, varied perspectives that feel authentic and not performative.
A warm, thoughtful host who fosters honest conversations.
High-quality storytelling with real-world relevance.

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welcome to the eh team: on canadian humour, identity, and the complicated love of a country (with special guest Charlie Demers)
Q: What emotionally drove you to write a lexicon-focused book about Canada?
The emotional engine is a desire to celebrate and critique at the same time: to honor shared linguistic touchpoints while acknowledging the warts of the country, and to foster a non-cynical, relational sense of Canadian identity rooted in treaties and community rather than nostalgia.
welcome to the eh team: on canadian humour, identity, and the complicated love of a country (with special guest Charlie Demers)
Q: But where I like to start interviews is, if listeners are maybe not familiar with who you are, what would you say defines you beyond the surface?
People tend to know me from The Debaters, CBC radio, a witty, writing-heavy comedy show. I'm a humorist and writer who values language, culture, and how humor can illuminate deeper truths about community and nation.
What Is Forgivable? A Conversation With Robyn Harding (Live from the Book Warehouse)
Q: How do you approach portraying morally gray characters who justify themselves without giving away too much?
Robinson notes the importance of breadcrumbs, internal justification, and using multiple viewpoints to reveal why characters think and act as they do, without spelling everything out at first glance.
What Is Forgivable? A Conversation With Robyn Harding (Live from the Book Warehouse)
Q: So your main character is Sydney and Curtis, trying to rebuild their connection in isolation; what does it mean to be lonely within a relationship?
Robin explains that loneliness inside a relationship stems from societal pressures to stay together, financial concerns, and the craving for companionship, which makes the choice to open up to outsiders both tempting and dangerous.
A False Sense of Safety: Iona Whishaw on Trust, Community, and the Lies We Tell Ourselves (Live at the Book Warehouse)
Q: So, how do you define what a community actually is, given the way your books explore belonging and outsiders?
She describes Vancouver and Dunbar as mental spaces of community, emphasizes small-town dynamics where belonging is visible and testing, and notes how communities can be both protective and constraining.

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A thoughtful, intimate conversations with writers, thinkers, and advocates about loneliness, belonging, and the messy work of staying connected. Across episodes, listeners hear how language, culture, and personal history shape community, mental health, and everyday relationships, with a steady emphasis on honest reflection rather than clichés. Noteworthy is the blend of literary and policy-oriented guests, plus live show dynamics at bookstores and community spaces, which gives the feed a warm, human-centric lens on resilience, empathy, and the cost of connection in modern life.

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1. Brandi Bird
2. Steve Burgess
3. Charlie Demers
4. Eddy Boudel Tan
5. Christine Boyle
6. Cathy Jesson
7. Iona Whishaw
8. Robin Harding

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