每件事都存在第3选择,每个人都有第3选择的能力;第3选择不是“听你的”或者“听我的”,而是寻求“协同”,找到“我们共同的方法”。什么是第3选择?面对任何问题,大家惯用的第1选择就是按照“我”的方式,第2选择就是按照“你”的方式。冲突点往往就在于,到底是你的选项比较好,还是我的。因此,不论选择哪一方,都会有人觉得受伤或牺牲。史蒂芬柯维指出,面对两难困境,不妨考虑超越你的或我的方法,让双方都能从冲突中找到互相协同的出路,称之为“第3选择”。 懂得第3选择的人,无论面对怎样的两难困境,总是能获得创造性解决方案。而第3选择的核心是“寻求协同”。柯维在《第3选择:解决所有难题的关键思维》中开创性地提出了“我看到自己—我看到你—我找到你—我和你协同”这一“第3选择思维”。这种颠覆常规的解决冲突、谈判与创新方法的新思路,用以解决职业与个人难题、为企业、组织面临社会中的巨大挑战建立了解决方案,同时,“第3... more
Publishes | Daily | Episodes | 56 | Founded | 3 years ago |
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“协同”是改变世界的力量。生命不是网球赛,只能有一方赢球。当双方都赢、能够共同创造出一种新局面,让彼此都感到满意时,才能做出合理决策。
第3选择思维模式:我看到自己——我找到你——我和你协同
本书要讲的是一个至关重要的原则,我相信它能够改变你的生活,改变整个世界。这一原则是我在研究真正高效能人士的生活和行为模式后,最深刻、最重要的领悟。
当你试图解决跟朋友,同事或者家人之间的一项艰难冲突。而事情的发展并不如你所愿的时候难免会感到挫折。
最终你会明白,当你试图创建第三选择解决最困难的问题和挑战的时候,你必须要考虑到你的身体里是否有力量。如果没有内在的安全感,充沛的双赢思考,耐心,爱,尊重,勇气、同理心、坚韧不拔的决心和创造力,就不要指望能成功。
有太多人活着,两种选择里,要么工作要么玩儿。有些人工作就是为了娱乐。我们长期从事没有特定目的或目标的工作。不停的工作就是为了我们能多赚钱。
我们总是希望每天每周每年快点过去。生命。也离我们远去。每一天都在大脑开大脑关两种模式中转换,
毫无目的的看电视,沉浸于社交媒体,不停地玩儿游戏,逛夜店。读愚蠢的小说,依赖药物,无所事事的睡觉再醒来。这些东西可以是任何人消沉。
我们就像工业时代执行特定功能的机器,完成每天的任务。直到有一天我们没有用处,我们晚上按上关闭键。到第二天早上按开始键。如果最后一天来... more
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