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Dear Black Gay Men Podcast

Jai The Gentleman
Relationships
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Black Gay Men
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Singlehood
Sexuality
Self-Awareness
Self-Discovery
Sexual Relationships
Hookups
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Self-Identity
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Dear Black Gay Men Weekly is your weekly dopeness reminder and your favorite content creator’s favorite content. dearblackgaymen.substack.com

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Recent Guests

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Hope Giselle
Trans activist and advocate
Episode: The Rise and Fall of the “DL Whisperer”: A Lesson in Accountability
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Author of No Apologies: Love the Way You Live at Any Age
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A'Jay Love
A prominent trans masculine creator and parenting advocate
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TS Madison
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Host

Jai the Gentleman
Host of Dear Black Gay Men Podcast

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 132 ratings
  • My Favorite Podcast

    I really enjoy listening to this podcast. There aren’t too many podcasts that speak directly to black gay men.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    D from 615
    United Statesa year ago
  • Love this podcast!!!

    Love the sense of humor and good vibes 😎

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    DTELELE
    Netherlands2 years ago
  • Ive Shared You With the Crew

    I feel like this podcast is the voice of the black men…who aren’t perfect but we are trying our best to do the work. As a professional black gay male..I feel seen and heard. I have also shared it with all of the black males who are close to me. Keep up the work.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    wsguy
    United States2 years ago
  • Feels like I’m listening in on a conversation with my friends, I’m definitely a fan…🙌🏽

    Audible
    5
    Anonymous
    United States2 years ago
  • Candor & Transparency

    Feels like I’m listening in on a conversation with my friends, I’m definitely a fan…🙌🏽

    Audible
    5
    Anonymous User
    United States2 years ago

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Listeners praise the show for its honesty, humor, and sense of belonging.
Many note the host's relatable, transparent style as a strength.
Fans appreciate open discussions about difficult topics like accountability and inclusivity.

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Talking Points

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The Rise and Fall of the “DL Whisperer”: A Lesson in Accountability
Q: What is the message you want to send to cis-gender black queer men?
Most trans women have had strong connections with black queer men, and the current tensions show a disconnect stemming from their past relationships.
Stop Apologizing: Curating a Life of Black Gay Joy
Q: How do we tell our inner circle that the survival Charlie is dead?
It's a journey, and you have to approach it with honesty and self-awareness, understanding that relationships will shift as you grow.
Stop Apologizing: Curating a Life of Black Gay Joy
Q: What have you had it with in black gay culture?
Many ask why can't I find a man, but the answer is that you have to genuinely want the relationship to find one.
Is the Dating Pool Trash, or Are We the Drama? 🤔
Q: What is your experience with dating and how many times do you reach out to someone who is not reciprocating?
Listeners share varying experiences, with some suggesting they would reach out two or three times before calling it quits, while others would engage only once.
Lies, Love, and the “Trash” in Queer Culture
Q: Is queer culture as fucked up as these creators make it seem?
While there are critiques, the host believes that acknowledging problems is the first step in solving them. They maintain that the queer community is working towards fixing its issues.

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