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Dear Black Gay Men Podcast

Jai The Gentleman
Relationships
Dating
Black Gay Culture
Black Gay Men
Dominance
Personal Growth
Singlehood
Self-Awareness
Sexuality
Self-Discovery
Sexual Relationships
Hookups
Music
Masculinity
Attraction
Communication
Self-Identity
Coming Out
Independence
Submission

Dear Black Gay Men Weekly is your weekly dopeness reminder and your favorite content creator’s favorite content. dearblackgaymen.substack.com

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A Black man was lynched in America in 2025.

Let me state, unequivocally, that this episode or us reacting to this story is not intended to position any person in this story as a member of the LGBTQIA+ community.

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Recent Guests

Mr. Sensor
Founder of Reveal, a nudist male club night.
Episode: Why Do We Sexualize EVERYTHING?
A'Jay Love
A prominent trans masculine creator and parenting advocate
My Extraordinary Family, Truly
Episode: Where Do Trans Men Fit in Gay Pride?
TS Madison
Prominent transgender actress and social media personality, known for her confidence and vibrant personality.
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Episode: Bigger Dreams

Hosts

Jay the Gentleman
Host of the podcast, known for his engaging discussions on relationships and the Black gay experience.
Jai The Gentleman
Co-host contributing insights particularly on dating and self-awareness within the Black gay community.

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 129 ratings
  • My Favorite Podcast

    I really enjoy listening to this podcast. There aren’t too many podcasts that speak directly to black gay men.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    D from 615
    United States10 months ago
  • Love this podcast!!!

    Love the sense of humor and good vibes 😎

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    DTELELE
    Netherlandsa year ago
  • Ive Shared You With the Crew

    I feel like this podcast is the voice of the black men…who aren’t perfect but we are trying our best to do the work. As a professional black gay male..I feel seen and heard. I have also shared it with all of the black males who are close to me. Keep up the work.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    wsguy
    United States2 years ago
  • Feels like I’m listening in on a conversation with my friends, I’m definitely a fan…🙌🏽

    Audible
    5
    Anonymous
    United States2 years ago
  • Candor & Transparency

    Feels like I’m listening in on a conversation with my friends, I’m definitely a fan…🙌🏽

    Audible
    5
    Anonymous User
    United States2 years ago

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The mix of humor and serious discussion creates an engaging atmosphere that resonates with many.
The content is seen as relatable and essential for understanding the complexities of Black gay experiences.
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Talking Points

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Black Men Don't Lynch Ourselves
Q: How is your spirit?
It fluctuates, but many in the community share similar feelings of vulnerability and the search for peace.
Black Men Don't Lynch Ourselves
Q: Where do we go from here?
There's a need to create opportunities and establish a community beyond individual struggles.
What Makes a MAN Versatile?
Q: How do I navigate the complexities of being versatile in dating?
Jai discusses the importance of honesty and vulnerability while dating as a versatile man.
What Makes a MAN Versatile?
Q: What kind of verse are you?
Jai explores different types of verse men and how emotional connections influence their versatility.
Red Flags You Should Never Ignore
Q: What have you had it with in black queer culture?
J-Pen expresses frustration with gay men judging others without context.

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