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The Dateable AF podcast is hosted by Dr. Sarah Kyle and Rachel Howell.

Please check out our website www.dateableaf.com/

Dateable AF is a relationship podcast that goes deeper than dating advice. Hosted by a therapist and a researcher, the show breaks down the emotional patterns behind connection, conflict, identity, and growth. We skip platitudes and focus on what actually helps people rel... more

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Dateable AF Show Notes:

Sometimes the hardest relationship problem to name is the one where nothing is technically wrong. There’s no betrayal, no explosive conflict, no obvious crisis. On the surface, everything looks stable. The relationship is cal... more

Dateable AF Show Notes:

Have you ever thought, “I’ve explained this so many times. Why doesn’t anything change?”

In this episode of Dateable AF, we talk about one of the most exhausting relationship experiences: doing all the emotional work, commun... more

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Dateable AF Show Notes:

Have you ever thought, “I’ve explained this so many times. Why doesn’t anything change?”

In this episode of Dateable AF, we talk about one of the most exhausting relationship experiences: doing all the emotional work, commun... more

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Dateable AF Show Notes:

S3E5: Fear of Being Seen vs. Fear of Being Left: Why You Abandon Yourself Before Anyone Else Can

Have you ever thought, “I’ve explained this so many times. Why doesn’t anything change?”

In this episode of Dateable AF, we ta... more

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Michelle Casanova
Journeywoman of lesbian dating; filmmaker, writer, producer, and director of promotional media
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Episode: Episode 9: Is That a Purse or a Red Flag?: Interview with Michelle Casanova

Hosts

Dr. Sarah Kyle
Host of Dateable AF show host and therapist; appears across episodes with a focus on therapy-informed relationship insights
Rachel Howell
Co-host and researcher bringing data-driven and experiential perspectives on dating and relationships

Reviews

5.0 out of 5 stars from 9 ratings
  • Advice from the lesbian aunts you always needed!

    When I realized this show has only been running for two months, I was so surprised. This is the type of quality podcasting you would expect from people who have been on the scene for years. Sarah and Rachel are fantastic on the mic and have so much experience on the topic. Not only are they experienced lesbian daters, Sarah is a licensed practicing therapist with so much wisdom to drop!! Not to mention, they’re really funny too! I discovered the pod yesterday and have already blown through so ma... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    HowAboutCarrots
    United States8 months ago
  • Not just for gay women!

    I am a heterosexual woman married to my husband almost 40 years now. (I say this to point out that I’m not exactly their target audience). AND I absolutely love this show! The conversations between the cohosts are interesting, informative and funny. Many of the topics discussed are applicable to anyone seeking to improve their relationships regardless of sexual orientation. Expect some sound advice & lots of laughter. Highly recommend! 🙌🏼

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    yogitechchick
    United States9 months ago
  • Love

    Love this show. Even being in a relationship now it’s nice to get tips on dating and being with a woman. Fun to look back and laugh at dating stories, and have people that relate to personal experiences!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    TheLword 1
    United States10 months ago
  • Love this show!

    I was addicted by the first episode! These two are smart, funny and wise. Every woman should have this kind of great advice. My 16 year old daughter loves it too!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Lilaloubee
    United States10 months ago

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Listeners appreciate the balance of humor and depth, with therapists' perspective adding credibility.
Community-friendly and relatable storytelling that supports listeners' real-life relationship goals.
Welcoming to LGBTQ+ topics and dating experiences beyond a heteronormative frame.
High-quality, insightful conversations with clear expertise and practical advice.

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Bonus Track: E9 Dateable()AF-terparty:Answering Listeners Question
Q: What should someone say if they want to shift from romance to friendship?
Be direct and kind: express that you'd like to remain friends but don't see a romantic path, and be prepared for the other person to need space or time to process.
Bonus Track: E10: Dateable()AF-terparty: Listeners Questions and Comments
Q: At what point do you start divulging information about assets and co-mingling funds when dating?
The hosts suggest introducing money conversations gradually and focusing first on shared values and goals, not on a full financial disclosure early on; as the relationship progresses and people consider living together or merging lives, discuss what you can contribute and how your finances fit with your values, with flexibility about how to handle assets.
Mom's Favorite with Cassidy and Kim- Kim sits down with Melissa Nolan to discuss Pans/Pandas
Q: Tell us a little about you and how you became involved with pandas and pans.
Melissa Nolan shares her background, the motivation to write Somewhere In There, and how the book seeks to illuminate real family experiences and provide hope for others.

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Frequently Asked Questions About Dateable()AF

What is Dateable()AF about and what kind of topics does it cover?

Relational psychology meets practical dating and relationship advice with a focus on honest communication, emotional patterns, and sustainable connection. Episodes explore topics like attachment, identity, gender and sexuality, coming-out experiences, dating dynamics, and navigating modern relationships, often blending personal stories with research-backed perspectives. The show stands out for its therapist-and-researcher hosts who skew toward nuance over platitudes, humor, and a willingness to tackle sensitive topics (including LGBTQ+ experiences and birth/parenting journeys) in a candid, accessible way. This makes it a good fit for listeners who want deeper insight into why relationships work (or don't) and for potential guests or sponsor... more

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