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Awkward Etiquette: Old Money & New Manners

Kiki Astor
Etiquette
Social Anxiety
Old Money Aesthetic
Old Money
Gift Etiquette
Social Skills
Funeral Etiquette
Self-Esteem
Dress Codes
Air Travel
Summering
Social Norms
Gift Presentation
Networking
Interpersonal Communication
Cocktail Parties
Boarding School
Packing Tips
Ancestral Property
Traditional Vacations

Welcome to "Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor" – the podcast where old money meets new manners, and your Auntie Kiki spills the tea on all things etiquette, with a side of laughter and a dash of aristocratic charm! Join the illustrious Kiki Astor, author of smutty romance novels and grande dame of decorum, as she tackles your most pressing etiquette questions with the finesse of a debutante twirli... more

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Host

Kiki Astor
Auntie Kiki is a romance author and etiquette expert who blends humor with practical advice on social etiquette and manners.

Reviews

4.9 out of 5 stars from 174 ratings
  • It warmed my ears to hear the word “soigné” uttered. Whether you live in the family manor or in a 5 floor walk up, Auntie KiKi’s maxims will sustain you through life. In short, it’s all practical advice. Delivered with a saucy dash of tongue in cheek.

    Audible
    5
    Saint Charles
    United States3 months ago
  • My fave

    It’s the podcast I don’t know I needed (or at least wanted)! Enjoying the smash up of history, culture and etiquette and the informative and cheeky way our favorite Auntie delivers it all.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    hambutt2
    United States4 months ago
  • Auntie Kiki is the best

    I love the history lessons, the cheeky commentary and the sage advice. All served with a quiet strength that somehow feels comforting. I feel as if we are just sitting together and having a lovely chat. Thank you Auntie for the podcast hug.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Heidi.Geisler
    United States4 months ago
  • Light hearted and entertaining

    I look forward to this podcast every week. It always makes me laugh and I always end up googling the designers, artist, and places Auntie KiKi references. So fun!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    VGHF1
    United States4 months ago
  • Consuming these at full speed

    I found Auntie Kiki on Instagram and needed more delicious tips on etiquette. Having looked for etiquette content for some time, I could only find pretentious and obtuse tips. Thanks to Auntie Kiki, I’m getting the chance to look beyond the veil and to live life a bit more classy. Thanks again!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Zander Walls
    United States4 months ago

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The podcast is praised for its practical etiquette tips, delivered in a light and enjoyable manner, which resonate well with modern audiences.
Listeners enjoy the historical context provided, feeling it adds depth to the etiquette discussions and enhances their learning experience.
Many reviewers highlight Aunt Kiki's comforting presence and engaging storytelling style, making them feel as if they are having a personal conversation.
Listeners appreciate the blend of humor and informative content, finding it both entertaining and educational.
There is a strong appreciation for the mix of cheeky commentary and sage advice, demonstrating Aunt Kiki's relatable approach to serious topics.

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#124
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Emeralds, Envy, and Etiquette: The Secret Language of Old Money Green
Q: What is the proper etiquette for dealing with a sibling who triggers jealousy?
Kiki suggests excusing yourself to refresh and reminding yourself that their success is not your failure, while maintaining civility and redirecting conversations.
The etiquette and old money social anthropology of secrets. Awkward etiquette Season 4 Ep 23
Q: Can I tell my sister a secret that affects her safety?
Kiki states that safety trumps secrecy and it is important to disclose such information discreetly.
The etiquette and old money social anthropology of secrets. Awkward etiquette Season 4 Ep 23
Q: Should I tell my friend her husband is cheating?
Kiki suggests only intervening if remaining silent would be morally indefensible and to be cautious as the messenger.
The etiquette and old money social anthropology of secrets. Awkward etiquette Season 4 Ep 23
Q: Do I have to tell him? I cheated on my husband.
Kiki advises considering if disclosure is necessary for healing or merely self-indulgence.
Dream of winning the lottery? The etiquette & psychology of sudden wealth
Q: How do I keep my friends without becoming their wallet?
Paying sometimes is gracious, but you want to let them pay sometimes too, even if it's only for coffee.

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What is This Podcast about and what kind of topics does it cover?

A unique blend of humor and etiquette, the content focuses on the intersection of old money traditions and modern manners, making it relevant and engaging for today's listeners. Each episode features Auntie Kiki, who provides practical advice on navigating social situations, embracing grace, and maintaining poise amidst contemporary challenges. Topics range from historical etiquette practices to humorous takes on social faux pas, offering listeners insights that are both educational and entertaining. Auntie Kiki's charming anecdotes and chatty style create an inviting atmosphere, enabling audiences to learn how to improve their social skills and cultivate confidence while avoiding social awkwardness. This podcast stands out for its mix of l... more

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