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Awkward Etiquette: Old Money & New Manners

Kiki Astor
Etiquette
Old Money Aesthetic
Social Anxiety
Old Money
Gift Etiquette
Social Skills
Funeral Etiquette
Self-Esteem
Dress Codes
Air Travel
Summering
Social Norms
Gift Presentation
Networking
Interpersonal Communication
Cocktail Parties
Boarding School
Packing Tips
Ancestral Property
Traditional Vacations

Welcome to "Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor" – the podcast where old money meets new manners, and your Auntie Kiki spills the tea on all things etiquette, with a side of laughter and a dash of aristocratic charm! Join the illustrious Kiki Astor, author of smutty romance novels and grande dame of decorum, as she tackles your most pressing etiquette questions with the finesse of a debutante twirli... more

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In this episode of Awkward Etiquette: Old Money and New Manners, etiquette expert and author Kiki Astor explores the fascinating social tension between strategic vagueness and chronic oversharing. Kiki dissects why old money aristocracy and tradition... more

In this episode of Kiki Astor's Awkward Etiquette: Old Money and New Manners, your Auntie Kiki explores the modern cultural phenomenon of "Main Character Energy." We dive deep into the intersection of social media trends, old money archetypes, and th... more

In this episode of Awkward Etiquette, Auntie Kiki begins with a cautionary tale of a dinner party guest who arrived forty-five minutes late without an apology—and why she was never invited back. This isn't a story about petty drama; it's a masterclas... more

Are you staring at the wine list, instinctively searching for the Domaine de la Romanée-Conti, only to let your finger slide regrettably down to the second least expensive Pinot Noir? Welcome to the club, darling. You aren't broke; you are Nouveau Pa... more

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Kiki Astor
Auntie Kiki, ex-rich person, romance and suspense author, champion of the Nouveau Pauvre movement. Host of Awkward Etiquette, sharing etiquette expertise and historical insights with humor and warmth.

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4.9 out of 5 stars from 223 ratings
  • Are Courtesy and Confidence Relics of a Lost Age?

    Of all the arts lost to progress, I think I miss etiquette the most. Or do I need to? In a world overrun with influencers and vraies ménagères comes Auntie Kiki to remind us that confidence and courtesy cannot be bought, but they don’t exclusively need to be inherited. Pulling back the Old Money curtain to show us it’s all in fact rather boring, Kiki drops science and makes it feel like spilling tea. Ever wondered what the Other Half knows that you don’t? Pull up a chair, darling. Auntie Kik... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Slackferno
    United States8 days ago
  • Masterful!

    Auntie Kiki has definitely a way with words and concepts. One admires how precisely and articulately she can explain that of which one may have had an intuition. Her humorous yet illustrative allusions to history, literature and anthropology make this podcast quite delightful!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Halersv
    United States23 days ago
  • Hilarious and informative

    Kiki is so charming and shares her bold opinions with a giant wink. One of my favourite podcasts. Her books are fabulous too.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    JLawWrites
    Canada2 months ago
  • lessons for life

    At first, it may seem like it’s about etiquette and helping a Hyacinth Bucket type present herself better, but there is so much truth and honesty in what she says that has nothing to do with that at all… The chitty-chatty way she speaks makes it genuinely fun and easy to listen to. Thank you Kiki! Greetings from the Netherlands!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Saar72
    Netherlands3 months ago
  • My fave new podcast

    Seriously loving her solid advice presented in a hilariously entertaining way

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Instaob
    United States3 months ago

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Fans describe the show as a reliable source for historical context blended with modern manners.
Listeners highlight the host's warm, comforting delivery and entertaining storytelling.
Audience consistently praises wit and practical etiquette guidance.

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#213
India/Society & Culture
Apple Podcasts
#248
Ukraine/Society & Culture

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The Secret to Authentic Style: Etiquette, Dress Codes, and Aesthetics
Q: Is it appropriate to speak about a friend's vulgar style?
If your friend asks your opinion, respond only to the question they asked and avoid excessive criticism, as everyone has different styles.
The Secret to Authentic Style: Etiquette, Dress Codes, and Aesthetics
Q: Is it rude to refuse to dress for other people's expectations?
It's not rude to resist dressing a specific way, but you must still respect the occasion and not disrupt social harmony.
The Secret to Authentic Style: Etiquette, Dress Codes, and Aesthetics
Q: How can I find my style?
Start by observing your actual life and the places you frequent, then identify your natural tendencies and choose consistency over novelty in your clothing selections.
Emeralds, Envy, and Etiquette: The Secret Language of Old Money Green
Q: What is the proper etiquette for dealing with a sibling who triggers jealousy?
Kiki suggests excusing yourself to refresh and reminding yourself that their success is not your failure, while maintaining civility and redirecting conversations.
The etiquette and old money social anthropology of secrets. Awkward etiquette Season 4 Ep 23
Q: Can I tell my sister a secret that affects her safety?
Kiki states that safety trumps secrecy and it is important to disclose such information discreetly.

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A stylish, etiquette-forward show led by a self-described aristocratic host that blends historical social customs with modern behavior. Episodes explore concepts like main character energy, standards, and the Nouveau Pauvre, often using literary and pop culture touchpoints to anchor practical advice on listening, discretion, and gracious social interaction. The approach consistently ties manners to cultural capital, wealth signals, and family traditions, while encouraging authentic self-expression and poise in a fast-paced, digitally narrated world. A notable strength is the host's distinctive voice and vivid anecdotes that make timeless etiquette feel relevant and entertaining for contemporary audiences.

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