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Awkward Etiquette: Old Money & New Manners

Kiki Astor
Etiquette
Old Money
Old Money Aesthetic
Social Anxiety
Social Media
Social Skills
New Money
Nouveau Pauvre
Elegance
Saint-Tropez
Social Class
Dress Codes
Social Etiquette
Hospitality
Style
Fashion
Beauty Standards
Montecito
Wealth
Gift Etiquette

Welcome to "Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor" – the podcast where old money meets new manners, and your Auntie Kiki spills the tea on all things etiquette, with a side of laughter and a dash of aristocratic charm! Join the illustrious Kiki Astor, author of smutty romance novels and grande dame of decorum, as she tackles your most pressing etiquette questions with the finesse of a debutante twirli... more

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Join Kiki Astor on Awkward Etiquette: Old Money and New Manners as she dives deep into the fascinating world of linen, revealing why this ancient luxury textile is the ultimate status symbol and a cornerstone of quiet luxury for old money. This episo... more

In this episode of Awkward Etiquette: Old Money and New Manners, host Auntie Kiki (Kiki Astor) takes listeners on a fascinating deep dive into the history, sociology, and etiquette of the monogram. Far from just a preppy aesthetic, monograms are one ... more

Gather round, darlings! In this captivating episode of "Awkward Etiquette, Old Money and New Manners," your hostess, Auntie Kiki Astor, unveils a powerful, often overlooked domestic secret: the humble silver ice bucket. Far from just a vessel for dri... more

In this episode of Awkward Etiquette: Old Money and New Manners, host Kiki Astor unravels the enduring allure of the iconic Hermès silk scarf. Discover how a simple square of silk evolved from a 19th-century Parisian harness workshop into the ultimat... more

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Kiki Astor
Host of Awkward Etiquette: Old Money & New Manners; etiquette expert and author.

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4.8 out of 5 stars from 260 ratings
  • Witty in the fullest sense of the word

    Polished, smart, endlessly appropriate, and tongue-in-cheek when it counts. The perfect host.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    justletmepostthisok
    United Kingdom3 months ago
  • Are Courtesy and Confidence Relics of a Lost Age?

    Of all the arts lost to progress, I think I miss etiquette the most. Or do I need to? In a world overrun with influencers and vraies ménagères comes Auntie Kiki to remind us that confidence and courtesy cannot be bought, but they don’t exclusively need to be inherited. Pulling back the Old Money curtain to show us it’s all in fact rather boring, Kiki drops science and makes it feel like spilling tea. Ever wondered what the Other Half knows that you don’t? Pull up a chair, darling. Auntie Kik... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Slackferno
    United States4 months ago
  • Masterful!

    Auntie Kiki has definitely a way with words and concepts. One admires how precisely and articulately she can explain that of which one may have had an intuition. Her humorous yet illustrative allusions to history, literature and anthropology make this podcast quite delightful!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Halersv
    United States4 months ago
  • Hilarious and informative

    Kiki is so charming and shares her bold opinions with a giant wink. One of my favourite podcasts. Her books are fabulous too.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    JLawWrites
    Canada6 months ago
  • lessons for life

    At first, it may seem like it’s about etiquette and helping a Hyacinth Bucket type present herself better, but there is so much truth and honesty in what she says that has nothing to do with that at all… The chitty-chatty way she speaks makes it genuinely fun and easy to listen to. Thank you Kiki! Greetings from the Netherlands!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Saar72
    Netherlands7 months ago

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Listeners describe the host as witty, polished, and deeply knowledgeable about etiquette.
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Status, Style, and Stitching: The Secret History and Etiquette of the Monogram
Q: We want a joint monogram for our home when a couple keeps their last names. How should we approach this?
A joint monogram can use two last initials or a mirrored/paired motif. You can avoid a dash and instead create a two-letter mark or a balanced design that reflects both names across rooms or a house monogram, keeping readability and aesthetic balance in mind.
Status, Style, and Stitching: The Secret History and Etiquette of the Monogram
Q: Is it gauche to monogram my underwear?
Discretion is key: tiny, tonal initials on the waistband are acceptable and practical, especially if the item is personal or frequently worn, but you should avoid obvious displays to strangers.
Status, Style, and Stitching: The Secret History and Etiquette of the Monogram
Q: My partner insists monograms go lower right on the towel. Is there a compromise?
Tradition varies by family; the best approach is to acknowledge personal or family traditions and consider a compromise such as a two-texture/natural balance, or separate towels for different placements, so both preferences are respected.
Status, Style, and Stitching: The Secret History and Etiquette of the Monogram
Q: How do I monogram a necklace without it looking like I'm trying to enter in my Wi-Fi password?
For jewelry and most monograms, less is more. Pick three initials: the first initial, the last name initial in the center (larger for women), and one meaningful middle initial. You can also choose to use only two initials or a single motif, depending on the object's scale and significance.
The Secret to Authentic Style: Etiquette, Dress Codes, and Aesthetics
Q: Is it appropriate to speak about a friend's vulgar style?
If your friend asks your opinion, respond only to the question they asked and avoid excessive criticism, as everyone has different styles.

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A refined, thought-provoking show that treats etiquette, taste, and social signals as a lens on culture and class. Across episodes, listeners hear deep dives into how old-money manners, fashion, and discreet communication shape reputation, relationships, and daily life—from jewelry as social biography to navigating modern influencer culture without losing grace. The host blends historical context, practical tips, and personal branding, often weaving in literary and design references to illustrate timeless standards that adapt to today's world. Noteworthy is the consistent emphasis on authenticity, restraint, and meaning over spectacle, making it appealing to listeners who value culture, polish, and thoughtful self-presentation.

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