After the Affair
Luke ShillingsThe ‘After the affair’ podcast with Luke Shillings is here to help you process, decide, and move forward on purpose following infidelity. Let’s explore what’s required to rebuild trust not only in yourself, but also with others. Whether you stay or leave, I can help! and no matter what your story, there will be something here for you.
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 197 | Founded | 4 years ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | Society & CultureRelationships | |||
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You check their phone.
Their location.
Their social media.
Their messages.
Their tone of voice.
The time they arrived home.
The way they answered a question.
The hesitation before they replied.
And even when you find nothing, the urge eventua... more
It's been months.
Maybe years.
And yet somehow, you're still thinking about the affair every single day.
You wake up and it's there.
You go to bed and it's there.
A song, a date, a place, a passing thought, and suddenly you're back inside the st... more
Few conversations carry more emotional weight than sitting down with your children and explaining that something has changed in your family.
After an affair, many parents find themselves caught between two competing fears: saying too much and causin... more
How do you tell your children that your relationship is over, especially after an affair?
This is one of the hardest conversations parents face in the aftermath of betrayal. The relationship has ended. The decision has been made. And now you’re left... more
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- Very helpful
Luke’s calming voice in the aftermath of D-day has been reassuring and easing my anxiety! I’m consuming every episode from the beginning at blitzkrieg speed with being able to relate to something in every single episode!
Apple Podcasts5Spartans8989
United States22 days ago - Shining a Light on an Important Topic
Highly recommend! Glad to see someone talking about this topic that soooo many of us have experienced.
Apple Podcasts5Dan13386United States7 months ago - Incredibly Helpful
Luke has a unique ability to dissect incredibly difficult topics with compassion and a willingness to explore multiple perspectives. Listening to this podcast has helped me identify and work through aspects of my own experiences with infidelity and divorce. The choice of subject matter as well as the approach Luke applies in each episode is equal parts validating and curiosity-inducing. Whether you’re in the initial stages of discovery, or years down the road to recovery, I highly recommend Luke... more
Apple Podcasts5MsMW2022United States2 years ago - I felt seen
You spoke with such clarity without the shame. It was truly insightful and beautiful to be seen and be exposed to my blind spots.
Apple Podcasts5NorthyoUnited States2 years ago - A service the world needs!
Luke is doing the world a service by speaking about a topic that feels taboo to many people. I prefer the interview episodes that have more energy, but the content is great in every episode.
Apple Podcasts5dnbremerUnited States2 years ago
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Apple Podcasts | #241 | United States/Society & Culture/Relationships |
Apple Podcasts | #176 |  Canada/Society & Culture/Relationships |
Apple Podcasts | #221 |  United Kingdom/Society & Culture/Relationships |
Apple Podcasts | #91 |  United Arab Emirates/Society & Culture/Relationships |
Apple Podcasts | #192 |  India/Society & Culture/Relationships |
Apple Podcasts | #222 |  Norway/Society & Culture/Relationships |
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What is After the Affair about and what kind of topics does it cover?
This show centers on navigating the aftermath of infidelity with a focus on healing, decision-making, and rebuilding trust—whether you stay, leave, or redefine the relationship. Episodes blend practical coaching techniques, mindset work, and relationship psychology to help listeners process betrayal, regulate emotions, and take purposeful steps forward. A standout aspect is the host's emphasis on nervous-system regulation, realistic timelines, and actionable strategies (like pause, boundaries, and sustainable routines) that listeners can apply immediately. The format often features host-led guidance with supportive resources and a clear invitation to coaching and community programs for ongoing growth.
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Which podcasts are similar to After the Affair?
These podcasts share a similar audience with After the Affair:
1. Heal from Infidelity: Reclaiming Your Peace, Power, and Self-Trust After Betrayal
2. The Affair Recovery Podcast
3. Helping Couples Heal Podcast
4. Relationship Radio: Marriage, Sex, Limerence & Avoiding Divorce
5. Betrayal Trauma Recovery
How many episodes of After the Affair are there?
After the Affair launched 4 years ago and published 197 episodes to date. You can find more information about this podcast including rankings, audience demographics and engagement in our podcast database.
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1. Matt Smith
2. Caz Grant
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