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Reality Gays with Mattie and Poodle

Audacy, Matt Marr and Jake Anthony
Love Is Blind
90 Day Fiancé
Reality TV
Zach
Marshall
Reality Television
Relationship Dynamics
Jackie
Ashley and Manuel
Kwame
Chelsea
Emotional Availability
Bliss
Toxic Friendships
Relationships
Irina
The Single Life
Happily Ever After
Gino and Jasmine
Theater

Jake Anthony and Matt Marr are two Southern Queens who absolutely love reality shows about lonely hearts looking for love. They recap it all including: TLC's 90 Day Fiancé, Love is Blind on Netflix, Love After Lockup, and some other shows where the people are just hot messes looking for love. If you've been looking for your gay BFFs to dish this show, you're home Queen! Matt is a clinical psycholo... more

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Lisa comes fully clean to Daniel. Michal arrives in Turkey. Elise and Joshua get to know each other in person. Jovon and Annalyn's date night goes south. Emma confides in a friend. Things get tense as Rick and Trish prepare to meet her family.

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Lisa comes fully clean to Daniel. Michal arrives in Turkey. Elise and Joshua get to know each other in person. Jovon and Annalyn's date night goes south. Emma confides in a friend. Things get tense as Rick and Trish prepare to meet her family.

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The boys react to the Britney Spears arrest, and discuss the new Hilary Duff album as well as the HBO doc “Bob Mackie: Naked Illusion.”

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A girls' night out in the Dominican Republic threatens to end Sophie and Liz's friendship. Vanja asks Tony to define their relationship. Kim meets an intriguing new man. A potluck party turns into an interrogation when Gino meets Natalie's friends.

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Dirk Powerhouse
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Episode: 90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days: S808 “For Your Safety, Please Remain Seated” - Part 2
Carlos King
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Episode: EXPO GAY! With Carlos King of Reality with the King
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Episode: The Secret Lives Of Mormon Wives S3 Ep 11 The Reunion With Joey And Ellyn of "I Think Not!"
Amanda Lipnack-Raydell
Podcast host and guest on Reality Gays
The Queendom Podcast
Episode: 90 Day Fiancé The Other Way 0713 “J’ai Un Rêve”
Amy Archer
Podcast host and guest on Reality Gays
All Pleasure, No Guilt Podcast
Episode: 90 Day Fiancé The Other Way 0713 “J’ai Un Rêve”
Cara Berry
Podcast host and guest on Reality Gays
Everyone's Business But Mine
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Michelle Schofield
Podcast host and guest on Reality Gays
Little Miss Recap
Episode: 90 Day Fiancé The Other Way 0713 “J’ai Un Rêve”
Amye Archer
Contributor from Little Miss Recap
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Episode: Happily Ever After 0922 Tell All No Limits Part 4 Our Part 1 With Amye Archer Of Little Miss Recap
Josh Radnor
Actor known for playing Ted Mosby in How I Met Your Mother
Episode: Introducing How We Made Your Mother Season 2!

Hosts

Matt Marr
Co-host of Reality Gays, bringing humor and psychological insight to the discussions of romance in reality television.
Poodle
Co-host of Reality Gays, delivering comedic commentary and relatable takes on reality dating shows alongside psychological perspectives.

Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars from 8k ratings
  • Love you guys

    It makes my day when poodle makes references to Seinfeld, arrested development, and always sunny

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    shellshellmybellle
    United Statesa month ago
  • Forty one minutes

    Literally 41 minutes until they get to the show on one episode. They are hysterical and well versed when they stick to 90 days but I find their bum /STD/ pen-is shape/size /constant casual sex jokes /discussions to be over the top.. . During Covid they VILIFIED anyone who refused to Vax and wouldn’t allow un-vaxxed at their lives yet they’ve had the virus multiple times themselves .. They take great offense at a perceived slight of LGBQT+ but laugh hysterically at other’s disabilities like Chiti... more

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    Dafhjcd
    United Statesa month ago
  • Sissy Love

    “Some Sissy just drove off the road…!,” Mattie. What other podcast. Truly. Genius.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Tuxcat1
    United Statesa month ago
  • The Best!

    Absolutely the best 90 Day podcast out there. Mattie and Poods make me snort laugh every time I listen to. Keep up the great work!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    KrisA826
    Canadaa month ago
  • Heartfelt and hilarious

    One of my all time favorite duos!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    turtllgurll
    United Statesa month ago

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Reviews highlight the comedic banter and the hosts' unique perspectives on relationship struggles, with many stating the podcast provides a comforting and enjoyable escape.

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2025 AM-GAY (AKA Ask Us Anything)
Q: Do you think your podcast pays the main bills for both of you?
Yes, the podcast does pay the main bills for both of them and has significantly changed their lives and work situations.
2025 AM-GAY (AKA Ask Us Anything)
Q: What is your go-to pizza order?
Poodle shares preferences for pizza toppings and discusses his overall love for pizza, while Jake talks about his belief that 'all pizza is good'.
2025 AM-GAY (AKA Ask Us Anything)
Q: Are you both gold star gays?
Jake shares that he is not a gold star gay, while Matt discusses their experiences with relationships.
2025 AM-GAY (AKA Ask Us Anything)
Q: What is a queer deer?
A term used instead of 'fag hag', aimed at describing a friendship between gay men and women without the negative connotation.
2025 AM-GAY (AKA Ask Us Anything)
Q: Poodle, what's our first question?
The hosts mention the importance of their parasocial relationship with fans, highlighting their desire to maintain boundaries about their personal lives.

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What is Reality Gays about and what kind of topics does it cover?

Engaging and humorous commentary on popular reality shows, particularly focusing on dating and relationship dynamics, defines the essence of the content. Episodes often provide recaps and analyses of shows like *90 Day Fiancé*, *Love is Blind*, and *Love After Lockup*, with hosts bringing a comedic yet relatable perspective to the experiences of the characters involved. Unique to this podcast are the hosts' Southern charm and comedic dynamics, along with their professional backgrounds in psychology and life coaching, which lend depth to their insights about love and dating in the contemporary world. Additionally, a recurring theme involves the absurdity of human relationships, allowing for light-hearted yet critical discussions that resonat... more

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