
Jake Anthony and Matt Marr are two Southern Queens who absolutely love reality shows about lonely hearts looking for love. They recap it all including: TLC's 90 Day Fiancé, Love is Blind on Netflix, Love After Lockup, and some other shows where the people are just hot messes looking for love. If you've been looking for your gay BFFs to dish this show, you're home Queen!Matt is a clinical psycholog... more
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Jessy is ready to risk it all for a life in Italy. Andi has doubts about moving down under. Jon and Ally hide her pregnancy from her Muslim parents. Niles plans to head back to Matilda in Ghana, with secret plans in tow.
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Jessy is ready to risk it all for a life in Italy. Andi has doubts about moving down under. Jon and Ally hide her pregnancy from her Muslim parents. Niles plans to head back to Matilda in Ghana, with secret plans in tow.
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The boys discuss the upcoming Broadway revival of “Damn Yankees“ as well as the new season of “The Great British Bake-off.”
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I really like them so I signed up on Patreon but there isn’t a lot behind the $5 wall. I listened to 4 seasons of SLOMW which then had a new season, but the 5th season went behind the $8/month paywall. Like, what? Why? Now it’s more popular, so us poors don’t get it? You can’t give $5-people something and then take it away and expect them to stick around. There’s market research on that. It’s a thing.
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I’ve listened on and off for years but I’m out now. Sooo many announcements and long ads. Stop with the 2 part episodes. It’s giving greedy and unnecessary.
They are also very preachy and act like anyone with a differing opinion is below them (not saying politically). Yet they could learn a lot more about the cultures they discuss.
This was awesome!! They are such a beautiful couple and I loved learning more about them. Can’t wait to hear who you interview next!
The guys are funny, I listen to most episodes and enjoy, so please, coming from an avid listener, please keep the announcements to 3 minutes or less or just put them on a social post. Fast forwarding 30+minutes of announcements at the beginning is crazy when the actual content and recap of the episode gets so rushed. They actually slow down and take their time talking through the announcements, a little crazy.
Especially infuriating when you got to Part 2 of an episode and have to listen to TH... more
3.5/5 stars
This podcast is genuinely funny — if you're looking for entertainment, it delivers. The hosts have great chemistry and comedic timing that keeps episodes engaging.
That said, it's worth going in with the right expectations. Both hosts are gay white men from the South, and their perspective shows its limits when the conversation turns to characters of a different race — especially when discussing Black women. There's a recurring blind spot there that comes through in how certain topic... more
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Two Southern LGBTQ hosts deliver sharp, humorous recaps of popular reality dating and lifestyle shows, blending candid commentary with pop culture tangents, personal anecdotes, and therapy-informed takes. Episodes orbit around relationship dynamics, family and cultural tensions, and the entertainment machine behind long-running franchises, all delivered with quick banter, affectionate ribbing, and unapologetic authenticity. The show stands out for its dynamic host chemistry, inclusive humor, and willingness to tackle heavier topics like trauma, therapy, and ethics in reality TV without losing the fun or fan engagement.
Listeners can expect bite-sized, analysis-forward episodes that mix venting, praise, and witty impressions, plus regular s... more
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