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Reality Gays with Mattie and Poodle

Audacy, Matt Marr and Jake Anthony
Love Is Blind
90 Day Fiancé
Kwame
Reality TV
Reality Television
Relationship Dynamics
Jackie
Ashley and Manuel
Zach
Chelsea
Micah
Emotional Availability
Marshall
Bliss
Toxic Friendships
Relationships
Irina
The Single Life
Gino and Jasmine
Happily Ever After

Jake Anthony and Matt Marr are two Southern Queens who absolutely love reality shows about lonely hearts looking for love. They recap it all including: TLC's 90 Day Fiancé, Love is Blind on Netflix, Love After Lockup, and some other shows where the people are just hot messes looking for love. If you've been looking for your gay BFFs to dish this show, you're home Queen! Matt is a clinical psycholo... more

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The couples join host Shaun Robinson in NYC, with others joining remotely, to share updates on their relationships. Unresolved issues surface as Johny reveals a secret about Chloe, Greta is surprised by a guest, and Manon reaches her breaking point. more

Forrest and Sheena's families meet. Lisa seeks Daniel's uncle's blessing. Jovon and Annalynn don't see eye to eye. Laura grows suspicious of Birkan. Rick is unsure about having more kids.

11:00 Jovon and Annalyn

19:16 Jovon’s Podcast Lessons

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Forrest and Sheena's families meet. Lisa seeks Daniel's uncle's blessing. Jovon and Annalynn don't see eye to eye. Laura grows suspicious of Birkan. Rick is unsure about having more kids.

04:14 Reality Gays Announcements- WE’RE NOMINATED FOR AN AMBI... more

The boys give their opinions on the 2026 Oscar nominees, as well as the Netflix series “His & Hers,” and the new trailer for “Masters of the Universe.”

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Amanda Lipnack-Raydell
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Amy Archer
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Amye Archer
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Bryan Cranston
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Episode: Introducing How We Made Your Mother Season 2!
Josh Radnor
Actor known for playing Ted Mosby in How I Met Your Mother
Episode: Introducing How We Made Your Mother Season 2!

Hosts

Matt Marr
Co-host with a background in psychology, adding insights into relationship dynamics and cultural commentary, often combining humor with critique.
Jake Anthony
Co-host who is a life coach and teacher, known for his witty and engaging storytelling and humorous takes on reality television.

Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars from 7.9k ratings
  • Love me my Mattie and Poods

    What other podcast!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Tuxcat1
    United States17 days ago
  • Love

    Love the reviews on shows, movies and music. Thank you

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Wentworth56
    United Statesa month ago
  • You’re so welcome

    Just found your podcast today and subscribed. I’m glad I could be part of your journey. The recap on 90 day. Fiancé was great. Keep up the good work so far so good definitely recommend.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Penelope V – I – P13
    United Statesa month ago
  • If you want some smart foolishness….

    This is the podcast for you. It’s the perfect mix of insightful commentary about reality show, self help and absolute ridiculousness. In a world that feels awful and aggressive this podcast is a little daily joy and escape for me.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    BrookLady
    United States2 months ago
  • Keep going queens!

    Still giving you guys 5 stars because I have been obsessed for years! But Sissy! Please do not have Ellyn and Joey on again. I came for the normal show and needed uplifting, and their absolute negativity dims your shine. For him to say Stassi isn’t a real name, it’s actually Stacey?! Like google her before doing a podcast about her. And the Nick Viall shaming, intentionally saying his name wrong just gives me the ick. Hot takes- yes…. Catty nastiness- not so much.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Shelbsxo113
    United States2 months ago

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Listeners enjoy the humor and wit of the hosts, finding their takes on reality TV entertaining and engaging.
The podcast serves as a comforting and familiar space for fans of reality shows, creating a sense of community among listeners.
Some criticism has been directed towards the style of discussion, particularly regarding certain filler phrases used by the hosts.

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2025 AM-GAY (AKA Ask Us Anything)
Q: Do you think your podcast pays the main bills for both of you?
Yes, the podcast does pay the main bills for both of them and has significantly changed their lives and work situations.
2025 AM-GAY (AKA Ask Us Anything)
Q: What is your go-to pizza order?
Poodle shares preferences for pizza toppings and discusses his overall love for pizza, while Jake talks about his belief that 'all pizza is good'.
2025 AM-GAY (AKA Ask Us Anything)
Q: Are you both gold star gays?
Jake shares that he is not a gold star gay, while Matt discusses their experiences with relationships.
2025 AM-GAY (AKA Ask Us Anything)
Q: What is a queer deer?
A term used instead of 'fag hag', aimed at describing a friendship between gay men and women without the negative connotation.
2025 AM-GAY (AKA Ask Us Anything)
Q: Poodle, what's our first question?
The hosts mention the importance of their parasocial relationship with fans, highlighting their desire to maintain boundaries about their personal lives.

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What is Reality Gays about and what kind of topics does it cover?

The show focuses on the colorful and often absurd worlds of reality television, particularly relationship-based programs like '90 Day Fiancé', 'Love is Blind', and 'Love After Lockup'. The hosts combine humor and insightful commentary as they recap episodes, often reflecting on the awkward romances and eccentric characters featured in these shows. With a strong emphasis on LGBTQ+ representation and personal anecdotes, the discussions are both light-hearted and relatable, catering to listeners looking for camaraderie and entertainment derived from the chaotic search for love in the reality TV sphere.

What sets the show apart is its blend of laughter with thoughtful critiques, offering insights into personal relationships and the entertainin... more

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1. Carlos King
2. Joey Marsh
3. Cara Berry
4. Michelle Schofield
5. Amanda Lipnack-Raydell
6. Amy Archer
7. Amye Archer
8. Bryan Cranston

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