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Reality Gays with Mattie and Poodle

Audacy, Matt Marr and Jake Anthony
Love Is Blind
90 Day Fiancé
Kwame
Reality TV
Marshall
Zach
Reality Television
Relationship Dynamics
Jackie
Ashley and Manuel
Chelsea
Emotional Availability
Bliss
Toxic Friendships
Relationships
Irina
The Single Life
Happily Ever After
Gino and Jasmine
Theater

Jake Anthony and Matt Marr are two Southern Queens who absolutely love reality shows about lonely hearts looking for love. They recap it all including: TLC's 90 Day Fiancé, Love is Blind on Netflix, Love After Lockup, and some other shows where the people are just hot messes looking for love. If you've been looking for your gay BFFs to dish this show, you're home Queen! Matt is a clinical psycholo... more

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Forrest and Sheena get a little freaky. Elise confronts Nat. Lisa seeks cleansing by a Nigerian priest. Stig's grand gesture catches Aviva off guard. Trisha's family issues Rick an ultimatum. Emma says goodbye to Morocco.

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Forrest and Sheena get a little freaky. Elise confronts Nat. Lisa seeks cleansing by a Nigerian priest. Stig's grand gesture catches Aviva off guard. Trisha's family issues Rick an ultimatum. Emma says goodbye to Morocco.

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Peter Hamby
Host of The Powers That Be, a podcast from POC examining politics, economics and media to provide context, analysis and clarity without sensationalism.
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Chris Farah
Vanity Farah, comedian and recap host
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Episode: 90 Day Fiancé: The Single Life 0506 “The Art of Breadcrumbing” with Chris Farah
Dirk Powerhouse
Host of a masculinity podcast
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Episode: 90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days: S808 “For Your Safety, Please Remain Seated” - Part 2
Carlos King
Reality TV producer and host of Reality with the King
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Episode: EXPO GAY! With Carlos King of Reality with the King
Joey Marsh
Podcast host and entertainer
I Think Not!
Episode: The Secret Lives Of Mormon Wives S3 Ep 11 The Reunion With Joey And Ellyn of "I Think Not!"
Cara Berry
Podcast host and guest on Reality Gays
Everyone's Business But Mine
Episode: 90 Day Fiancé The Other Way 0713 “J’ai Un Rêve”
Michelle Schofield
Podcast host and guest on Reality Gays
Little Miss Recap
Episode: 90 Day Fiancé The Other Way 0713 “J’ai Un Rêve”
Amye Archer
Contributor from Little Miss Recap
Little Miss Recap
Episode: Happily Ever After 0922 Tell All No Limits Part 4 Our Part 1 With Amye Archer Of Little Miss Recap
Josh Radnor
Actor known for playing Ted Mosby in How I Met Your Mother
Episode: Introducing How We Made Your Mother Season 2!

Hosts

Matt Marr
Co-host of Reality Gays, bringing humor and psychological insight to the discussions of romance in reality television.
Poodle
Co-host of Reality Gays, delivering comedic commentary and relatable takes on reality dating shows alongside psychological perspectives.

Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars from 8k ratings
  • Age of Attraction!

    Just discovered this hilarious and insightful podcast after watching the latest love is blind. I wish I watched the other shows that you cover. It’s the perfect balance of snarky while still being thoughtful. You should cover Netflix’s age of attraction. I feel like you would have amazing takes!

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    Pumpkin Ravioli
    United States13 days ago
  • LOVE!!!!!’

    I look forward to listening to them everyday I can’t say enough good things about this show. I’m not from the south but hearing their southern stories makes me wish I was 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Diana Equipado
    United States15 days ago
  • Thanks for paywalling!

    I used to enjoy your Mormon Wives recaps and played them 10+ times but now they’re all behind a paywall? Money talks and it won’t be mine, way to sellout boys!

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    bravovravobravo
    United States15 days ago
  • Ughh Amazing! 🤩

    Mattie and Poodle — can we please be friends?! I honestly look forward to your episodes more than the show itself. You two are hilarious and so much fun to listen to! Thank you, thank you!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Veggies321
    United States15 days ago
  • Love love love

    Funny and thoughtful perspectives, I sooooo enjoy this podcast and highly recommend!

    **side note: we, the audience, are totally making fun of Nicole Kidman’s “I lovvvve the movies” ad. Of course she does, she’s in them. The people watching it are already at the movie theater waiting for it to start, so what is the point of making us suffer through this? 🤣🤣🤣 It’s given my husband and I the ick so much that we now go to Alamo Drafthouse where we neverrrrr have to see her celebrity-splain the w... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    artofjulie
    United States16 days ago

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Reviews highlight the comedic banter and the hosts' unique perspectives on relationship struggles, with many stating the podcast provides a comforting and enjoyable escape.

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90 Day Fiancé: The Single Life 0506 “The Art of Breadcrumbing” with Chris Farah
Q: Where can listeners find you online?
Chris Farah promotes Vanity Fair content and his own Vanity Farah show across YouTube, social platforms, and Patreon, with visuals and recaps available, plus a call to subscribe and follow for more 90 Day Fiancé and related recaps.
2025 AM-GAY (AKA Ask Us Anything)
Q: Do you think your podcast pays the main bills for both of you?
Yes, the podcast does pay the main bills for both of them and has significantly changed their lives and work situations.
2025 AM-GAY (AKA Ask Us Anything)
Q: What is your go-to pizza order?
Poodle shares preferences for pizza toppings and discusses his overall love for pizza, while Jake talks about his belief that 'all pizza is good'.
2025 AM-GAY (AKA Ask Us Anything)
Q: Are you both gold star gays?
Jake shares that he is not a gold star gay, while Matt discusses their experiences with relationships.
2025 AM-GAY (AKA Ask Us Anything)
Q: What is a queer deer?
A term used instead of 'fag hag', aimed at describing a friendship between gay men and women without the negative connotation.

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What is Reality Gays about and what kind of topics does it cover?

Engaging and humorous commentary on popular reality shows, particularly focusing on dating and relationship dynamics, defines the essence of the content. Episodes often provide recaps and analyses of shows like *90 Day Fiancé*, *Love is Blind*, and *Love After Lockup*, with hosts bringing a comedic yet relatable perspective to the experiences of the characters involved. Unique to this podcast are the hosts' Southern charm and comedic dynamics, along with their professional backgrounds in psychology and life coaching, which lend depth to their insights about love and dating in the contemporary world. Additionally, a recurring theme involves the absurdity of human relationships, allowing for light-hearted yet critical discussions that resonat... more

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