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Reality Gays with Mattie and Poodle

Audacy, Matt Marr and Jake Anthony
90 Day Fiancé
Love Is Blind
Reality Gays
Reality TV
Reality Television
Reality Gays With Mattie and Poodle
Love Island
Relationships
Weight Loss
Secret Lives Of Mormon Wives
90 Day Fiancé: the Other Way
Taylor Frankie Paul
Minnesota
Love Island USA
Love After Lockup
Dating
90 Day Fiancé: the Last Resort
Trust Issues
Romantic Relationships
Financial Issues

Jake Anthony and Matt Marr are two Southern Queens who absolutely love reality shows about lonely hearts looking for love. They recap it all including: TLC's 90 Day Fiancé, Love is Blind on Netflix, Love After Lockup, and some other shows where the people are just hot messes looking for love. If you've been looking for your gay BFFs to dish this show, you're home Queen!Matt is a clinical psycholog... more

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Jessy is ready to risk it all for a life in Italy. Andi has doubts about moving down under. Jon and Ally hide her pregnancy from her Muslim parents. Niles plans to head back to Matilda in Ghana, with secret plans in tow. 

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Hosts

Mattie
Host of Reality Gays, co-host of the show; long-running, witty, and academically informed, with a clinical psychology background referenced in analysis.
Poodle
Host of Reality Gays, known for sharp banter, music/tv taste, and co-hosting duties across episodes; frequently drives quick, humorous takes.

Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars from 8.2k ratings
  • Patreon is confusing

    I really like them so I signed up on Patreon but there isn’t a lot behind the $5 wall. I listened to 4 seasons of SLOMW which then had a new season, but the 5th season went behind the $8/month paywall. Like, what? Why? Now it’s more popular, so us poors don’t get it? You can’t give $5-people something and then take it away and expect them to stick around. There’s market research on that. It’s a thing.

    The show I actually wanted to listen to is also behind the $8/month wall but that wasn’t clear... more

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    WallyPie
    United States11 days ago
  • Ugh…

    I’ve listened on and off for years but I’m out now. Sooo many announcements and long ads. Stop with the 2 part episodes. It’s giving greedy and unnecessary.

    They are also very preachy and act like anyone with a differing opinion is below them (not saying politically). Yet they could learn a lot more about the cultures they discuss.

    Apple Podcasts
    1
    Always Cared
    United States13 days ago
  • THOMAS & PAULA EP

    This was awesome!! They are such a beautiful couple and I loved learning more about them. Can’t wait to hear who you interview next!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Not without my podcast
    Australia16 days ago
  • Announcements…

    The guys are funny, I listen to most episodes and enjoy, so please, coming from an avid listener, please keep the announcements to 3 minutes or less or just put them on a social post. Fast forwarding 30+minutes of announcements at the beginning is crazy when the actual content and recap of the episode gets so rushed. They actually slow down and take their time talking through the announcements, a little crazy.

    Especially infuriating when you got to Part 2 of an episode and have to listen to TH... more

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    3
    Brookie101010
    United States16 days ago
  • Worth listening to for the laughs, but don't expect nuance on race

    3.5/5 stars

    This podcast is genuinely funny — if you're looking for entertainment, it delivers. The hosts have great chemistry and comedic timing that keeps episodes engaging.

    That said, it's worth going in with the right expectations. Both hosts are gay white men from the South, and their perspective shows its limits when the conversation turns to characters of a different race — especially when discussing Black women. There's a recurring blind spot there that comes through in how certain topic... more

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    *B*lucky 13
    United Statesa month ago

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Consistency and chemistry that make episodes addictive for fans and newcomers alike.
Engaging hosts who feel like old friends with sharp pop-culture takes.
Hilarious banter and candid honesty, even on heavy topics.

Chart Rankings

How this podcast ranks in the Apple Podcasts, Spotify and YouTube charts.

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#37
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#50
Canada/TV & Film
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#243
United Kingdom/TV & Film
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#89
Australia/TV & Film
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#217
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#55
Norway/TV & Film

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Welcome to Dumb Blonde with Bunnie XO
Q: Did he say anything to you that stuck with you throughout your career?
He simply greeted her with a friendly 'hello,' but the moment, combined with his magnetism and the surrounding atmosphere, became a formative memory that influenced her self-perception and artistry.
Welcome to Dumb Blonde with Bunnie XO
Q: Circling back to the Opry, Johnny Cash introduced you and he's known for his powerful presence and mentorship. What do you remember about your interaction with him that night?
Dolly recalls Johnny Cash's magnetic presence and the mentorship he offered, highlighting how those moments at the Opry left a lasting impression on her career and confidence.
Reality Gays AM GAY (Ask Us Anything!) July 2026 (Part 2)
Q: What would be your three expert categories if you were on GoFact Yourself, and who would be your expert to verify you got them right?
They brainstormed categories including pizza, 80s/90s sitcoms, and storytelling, to be verified by a celebrity expert, ultimately leaning towardWildcard picks like Park Overall for verification.
Reality Gays AM GAY (Ask Us Anything!) July 2026 Part 1
Q: Please rank all Reality Gays covered Daniels from worst to best.
They debate several Daniels from various reality shows, offering humorous assessments and justifications for their rankings, while acknowledging the difficulty of ranking such quirky personalities.
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Q: What is your most unhinged quote?
They discuss a personal boundary with customer service as a humorous example, then pivot to how they both tease each other about being dramatic yet practical, highlighting the show's candid tone.

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Two Southern LGBTQ hosts deliver sharp, humorous recaps of popular reality dating and lifestyle shows, blending candid commentary with pop culture tangents, personal anecdotes, and therapy-informed takes. Episodes orbit around relationship dynamics, family and cultural tensions, and the entertainment machine behind long-running franchises, all delivered with quick banter, affectionate ribbing, and unapologetic authenticity. The show stands out for its dynamic host chemistry, inclusive humor, and willingness to tackle heavier topics like trauma, therapy, and ethics in reality TV without losing the fun or fan engagement.

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