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Reality Gays with Mattie and Poodle

Audacy, Matt Marr and Jake Anthony
90 Day Fiancé
Reality Television
Love Is Blind
Reality TV
Relationships
90 Day Fiancé: the Other Way
Love After Lockup
Reality Gays
Family Dynamics
Happily Ever After
Secret Lives Of Mormon Wives
Gino
Relationship Dynamics
Jasmine
My Secret Santa
Dylan
Pattiya
Weight Loss
Mental Health
Marriage

Jake Anthony and Matt Marr are two Southern Queens who absolutely love reality shows about lonely hearts looking for love. They recap it all including: TLC's 90 Day Fiancé, Love is Blind on Netflix, Love After Lockup, and some other shows where the people are just hot messes looking for love. If you've been looking for your gay BFFs to dish this show, you're home Queen!Matt is a clinical psycholog... more

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Josh confronts Catie's old fling at her birthday party. Edward is grilled by Marissa's mom when meeting her family. Debby struggles as Mido questions returning to Egypt. Anabelle wants Shea to leave his partying ways behind. Thomas worries about Paul... more

Josh confronts Catie's old fling at her birthday party. Edward is grilled by Marissa's mom when meeting her family. Debby struggles as Mido questions returning to Egypt. Anabelle wants Shea to leave his partying ways behind. Thomas worries about Paul... more

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Recent Guests

Jerry the Goose
Goose interview guest used for humorous bit
Episode: 90 Day Fiancé 1204 “Forsaking All Others” Part 1
Ross Matthews
Television personality and host
Various TV projects (as guest)
Episode: 90 Day Fiancé 1202 “Trusting the Process” Part 2
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Actor
Dinners on Me (podcast)
Episode: The Gayly Dose #68: “Don Flamenco? She’s Family!”
Martha Sayers
Guest sharing personal family story about Margarita Sames
Miss Sayers (the narrator's reference)
Episode: Introducing Family Lore
Elise Benson
Friend of the pod and reality TV participant
Reality TV guest
Episode: Interview with Elise of Before the 90 Days
Soraya Giaccardi-Vargas
Media researcher, senior researcher at USC Annenberg-Norman Lear Center's Media Impact Project
USC Annenberg Norman Lear Center
Episode: SLOMW S04: An Epilogue with Media Researcher Soraya Giaccardi-Vargas
Peter Hamby
Host of The Powers That Be, a podcast from POC examining politics, economics and media to provide context, analysis and clarity without sensationalism.
Puck News
Episode: Presenting Puck News | The Powers That Be Daily
Chris Farah
Vanity Farah, comedian and recap host
Vanity Fair
Episode: 90 Day Fiancé: The Single Life 0506 “The Art of Breadcrumbing” with Chris Farah
Dirk Powerhouse
Host of a masculinity podcast
Snatch Fever
Episode: 90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days: S808 “For Your Safety, Please Remain Seated” - Part 2

Hosts

Mattie
Mattie is a co-host known for sharp, humorous takes on reality TV and personal anecdotes.
Poodle
Poodle is a co-host known for witty pop culture commentary and a candid, campy delivery.

Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars from 8.1k ratings
  • 🏆

    Keep going queens! -Oklahoma Sissy

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    NPolar17
    United States6 days ago
  • Slay queens!

    Mattie and Poodle are one of the great comedy duos of our time. The banter, the jokes, and Mattie’s exasperated “ok” truly bring you in to every show. Thanks for the laughs and love. Keep going, queens!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    aquagato
    United States6 days ago
  • Watching 90 universe for you 💕

    I’ll watch it just I hear you talk about it

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    kristaleelynch
    United States6 days ago
  • Keep going, Queens!!!

    Super queens!!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Kadiekat1282
    United States6 days ago
  • Keep going, Queens!

    Love you guys!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    RoRo805
    United States7 days ago

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The show's energy is consistently funny and relatable, with smart cultural observations.
Fans love the chemistry and honest takes on relationships.
Hosts feel like your gay BFFs who dish with warmth and humor.

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#25
United States/TV & Film
Apple Podcasts
#39
Canada/TV & Film
Apple Podcasts
#239
United Kingdom/TV & Film
Apple Podcasts
#154
Australia/TV & Film
Apple Podcasts
#41
Sweden/TV & Film
Apple Podcasts
#82
Ireland/TV & Film

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SLOMW S04: An Epilogue with Media Researcher Soraya Giaccardi-Vargas
Q: What do you do as a media researcher?
Soraya explains that she studies the impact of entertainment media by identifying narratives and analyzing how they shape audiences' attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors on social issues.
90 Day Fiancé: The Single Life 0506 “The Art of Breadcrumbing” with Chris Farah
Q: Where can listeners find you online?
Chris Farah promotes Vanity Fair content and his own Vanity Farah show across YouTube, social platforms, and Patreon, with visuals and recaps available, plus a call to subscribe and follow for more 90 Day Fiancé and related recaps.
2025 AM-GAY (AKA Ask Us Anything)
Q: Do you think your podcast pays the main bills for both of you?
Yes, the podcast does pay the main bills for both of them and has significantly changed their lives and work situations.
2025 AM-GAY (AKA Ask Us Anything)
Q: What is your go-to pizza order?
Poodle shares preferences for pizza toppings and discusses his overall love for pizza, while Jake talks about his belief that 'all pizza is good'.
2025 AM-GAY (AKA Ask Us Anything)
Q: Are you both gold star gays?
Jake shares that he is not a gold star gay, while Matt discusses their experiences with relationships.

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Frequently Asked Questions About Reality Gays

What is Reality Gays about and what kind of topics does it cover?

Two Southern gay hosts dissect popular reality dating shows with sharp humor, candid relationship commentary, and personal anecdotes. The conversations center on behind-the-scenes dynamics, red flags vs. green flags in romance-driven TV, and how real-life therapy, trauma, and family culture intersect with televised love stories. The hosts mix sizzling takes on shows like 90 Day Fiancé and other romance-focused reality programs with playful banter, crowd-pleasing sponsor reads, and a strong sense of community for listeners who crave witty critique and relatable humor while staying supportive of LGBTQ+ voices. A standout vibe is their blend of unapologetic shade with empathy, making the show feel like a supportive, funny hangout for fans who ... more

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1. Jerry the Goose
2. Ross Matthews
3. Jesse Tyler Ferguson
4. Martha Sayers
5. Elise Benson
6. Soraya Giaccardi-Vargas
7. Peter Hamby
8. Chris Farah

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