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Reality Gays with Mattie and Poodle

Audacy, Matt Marr and Jake Anthony
Love Is Blind
90 Day Fiancé
Kwame
Reality TV
Reality Television
Relationship Dynamics
Jackie
Ashley and Manuel
Chelsea
Zach
Paul
Emotional Availability
Marshall
Bliss
Toxic Friendships
Relationships
Irina
The Single Life
Gino and Jasmine
Happily Ever After

Jake Anthony and Matt Marr are two Southern Queens who absolutely love reality shows about lonely hearts looking for love. They recap it all including: TLC's 90 Day Fiancé, Love is Blind on Netflix, Love After Lockup, and some other shows where the people are just hot messes looking for love. If you've been looking for your gay BFFs to dish this show, you're home Queen! Matt is a clinical psycholo... more

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Josh makes a regrettable decision. Laura reveals a big surprise to Michal. Forrest struggles to leave Sheena. Annalyn learns shocking news. Aviva sees a new side to Stig. Rick tries one final time to win Trish back. Lisa confronts Daniel about his ot... more

Josh makes a regrettable decision. Laura reveals a big surprise to Michal. Forrest struggles to leave Sheena. Annalyn learns shocking news. Aviva sees a new side to Stig. Rick tries one final time to win Trish back. Lisa confronts Daniel about his ot... more

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Recent Guests

Elise Benson
Friend of the pod and reality TV participant
Reality TV guest
Episode: Interview with Elise of Before the 90 Days
Soraya Giaccardi-Vargas
Media researcher, senior researcher at USC Annenberg-Norman Lear Center's Media Impact Project
USC Annenberg Norman Lear Center
Episode: SLOMW S04: An Epilogue with Media Researcher Soraya Giaccardi-Vargas
Peter Hamby
Host of The Powers That Be, a podcast from POC examining politics, economics and media to provide context, analysis and clarity without sensationalism.
Puck News
Episode: Presenting Puck News | The Powers That Be Daily
Chris Farah
Vanity Farah, comedian and recap host
Vanity Fair
Episode: 90 Day Fiancé: The Single Life 0506 “The Art of Breadcrumbing” with Chris Farah
Dirk Powerhouse
Host of a masculinity podcast
Snatch Fever
Episode: 90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days: S808 “For Your Safety, Please Remain Seated” - Part 2
Carlos King
Reality TV producer and host of Reality with the King
Reality with the King
Episode: EXPO GAY! With Carlos King of Reality with the King
Joey Marsh
Podcast host and entertainer
I Think Not!
Episode: The Secret Lives Of Mormon Wives S3 Ep 11 The Reunion With Joey And Ellyn of "I Think Not!"
Cara Berry
Podcast host and guest on Reality Gays
Everyone's Business But Mine
Episode: 90 Day Fiancé The Other Way 0713 “J’ai Un Rêve”
Michelle Schofield
Podcast host and guest on Reality Gays
Little Miss Recap
Episode: 90 Day Fiancé The Other Way 0713 “J’ai Un Rêve”

Hosts

Matt Marr
Co-host of Reality Gays, bringing humor and psychological insight to the discussions of romance in reality television.
Poodle
Co-host of Reality Gays, delivering comedic commentary and relatable takes on reality dating shows alongside psychological perspectives.

Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars from 8.1k ratings
  • I like listening but misophonia 😭

    I really like the hosts and I love what they have to say, but I had really bad misophonia (I become physically ill by mouth sounds, like smacking lips or chewing food). If they are ever able to edit those out, I’d love to come back and listen

    Apple Podcasts
    3
    jsperry2
    United States46 hours ago
  • What a gem

    Mattie and Poodle are one of a kind. I love this podcast wholeheartedly. Really brings joy and laughter to my life! Thanks boys, keep it up!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Saraann13
    United States11 days ago
  • I Couldn’t Do Without Mattie and Poodle

    Longtime listener since 2019, I sincerely don’t know what I’d do without these two gay men in my life. It’s been such an uplifting, hilarious and cathartic outlet for me to listen to Reality Gays gab about 90 Day Fiance, relationships and their lives. I often think about their musings and even have Daddy’s Box in my head right now. Thank you for the laughter and joy and spirit you’ve brought me and continue to bring. My favorite podcast EVER.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Rasb5385
    United States11 days ago
  • Love

    Thank you for the Moonlighting throwback. And hilarious Kerry Strug comments! LOVE YOU!!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Redfoxx77
    United States14 days ago
  • The best

    I laugh so hard I cry sometime. When I’m talking about you guys to my friends, they get jealous thinking we are besties. Forever do what you do, I will forever be listening.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    44574457
    United States15 days ago

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SLOMW S04: An Epilogue with Media Researcher Soraya Giaccardi-Vargas
Q: What do you do as a media researcher?
Soraya explains that she studies the impact of entertainment media by identifying narratives and analyzing how they shape audiences' attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors on social issues.
90 Day Fiancé: The Single Life 0506 “The Art of Breadcrumbing” with Chris Farah
Q: Where can listeners find you online?
Chris Farah promotes Vanity Fair content and his own Vanity Farah show across YouTube, social platforms, and Patreon, with visuals and recaps available, plus a call to subscribe and follow for more 90 Day Fiancé and related recaps.
2025 AM-GAY (AKA Ask Us Anything)
Q: Do you think your podcast pays the main bills for both of you?
Yes, the podcast does pay the main bills for both of them and has significantly changed their lives and work situations.
2025 AM-GAY (AKA Ask Us Anything)
Q: What is your go-to pizza order?
Poodle shares preferences for pizza toppings and discusses his overall love for pizza, while Jake talks about his belief that 'all pizza is good'.
2025 AM-GAY (AKA Ask Us Anything)
Q: Are you both gold star gays?
Jake shares that he is not a gold star gay, while Matt discusses their experiences with relationships.

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What is Reality Gays about and what kind of topics does it cover?

Engaging and humorous commentary on popular reality shows, particularly focusing on dating and relationship dynamics, defines the essence of the content. Episodes often provide recaps and analyses of shows like *90 Day Fiancé*, *Love is Blind*, and *Love After Lockup*, with hosts bringing a comedic yet relatable perspective to the experiences of the characters involved. Unique to this podcast are the hosts' Southern charm and comedic dynamics, along with their professional backgrounds in psychology and life coaching, which lend depth to their insights about love and dating in the contemporary world. Additionally, a recurring theme involves the absurdity of human relationships, allowing for light-hearted yet critical discussions that resonat... more

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