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Reality Gays with Mattie and Poodle

Audacy, Matt Marr and Jake Anthony
90 Day Fiancé
Reality Television
Love Is Blind
Reality TV
Relationships
Reality Gays
90 Day Fiancé: the Other Way
Love After Lockup
Happily Ever After
Family Dynamics
My Secret Santa
Relationship Dynamics
Reality Gays With Mattie and Poodle
Weight Loss
Love Island
Secret Lives Of Mormon Wives
90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days
Minnesota
Dylan
Pattiya

Jake Anthony and Matt Marr are two Southern Queens who absolutely love reality shows about lonely hearts looking for love. They recap it all including: TLC's 90 Day Fiancé, Love is Blind on Netflix, Love After Lockup, and some other shows where the people are just hot messes looking for love. If you've been looking for your gay BFFs to dish this show, you're home Queen!Matt is a clinical psycholog... more

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Recent Guests

Jessica Jarding
Guest from LisforLosersPod, comedian and pop-culture commentator
Lisforloserspod
Episode: Love Island USA S8 Eps 20-25 RECAP
Jerry the Goose
Goose interview guest used for humorous bit
Episode: 90 Day Fiancé 1204 “Forsaking All Others” Part 1
Ross Matthews
New host of the 90 Day Tell All, TV host and personality
NBCUniversal (via Tell All)
Episode: An Intimate Portrait with Ross Mathews and Reality Gays!
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Actor, guest on this episode
Dinners on Me podcast (guest appearance)
Episode: The Gayly Dose #67 “Elephants Never Forget”
Martha Sayers
Guest sharing personal family story about Margarita Sames
Miss Sayers (the narrator's reference)
Episode: Introducing Family Lore
Elise Benson
Friend of the pod and reality TV participant
Reality TV guest
Episode: Interview with Elise of Before the 90 Days
Soraya Giaccardi-Vargas
Media researcher, senior researcher at USC Annenberg-Norman Lear Center's Media Impact Project
USC Annenberg Norman Lear Center
Episode: SLOMW S04: An Epilogue with Media Researcher Soraya Giaccardi-Vargas
Peter Hamby
Host of The Powers That Be, a podcast from POC examining politics, economics and media to provide context, analysis and clarity without sensationalism.
Puck News
Episode: Presenting Puck News | The Powers That Be Daily
Chris Farah
Vanity Farah, comedian and recap host
Vanity Fair
Episode: 90 Day Fiancé: The Single Life 0506 “The Art of Breadcrumbing” with Chris Farah

Hosts

Mattie
Host of Reality Gays, co-host of the show; long-running, witty, and academically informed, with a clinical psychology background referenced in analysis.
Poodle
Host of Reality Gays, known for sharp banter, music/tv taste, and co-hosting duties across episodes; frequently drives quick, humorous takes.

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4.8 out of 5 stars from 8.2k ratings
  • Reality Gays

    Keep going queens!!!💋❤️🔥

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Libra_rising
    United Statesa month ago
  • Keep Going Queens!!

    Love this podcast so much! Mattie and Poodle are hilarious. I don’t even watch 90 Day Fiancé and can’t stop listening.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    a_lvl5
    United Statesa month ago
  • Love you queens!

    Keep going queens 💛💛💛💛

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    sabjil234
    Canadaa month ago
  • KGQ💜

    I love this podcast so much that I even listen to episodes of shows I don’t watch! Thanks for the laughs!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    HeidiHo13
    United Statesa month ago
  • Love Island!

    Are we in space?!

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    United Statesa month ago

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Engaging hosts who feel like old friends with sharp pop-culture takes.
Hilarious banter and candid honesty, even on heavy topics.

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#31
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#39
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#154
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#100
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#58
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#68
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Reality Gays AM GAY (Ask Us Anything!) July 2026 (Part 2)
Q: What would be your three expert categories if you were on GoFact Yourself, and who would be your expert to verify you got them right?
They brainstormed categories including pizza, 80s/90s sitcoms, and storytelling, to be verified by a celebrity expert, ultimately leaning towardWildcard picks like Park Overall for verification.
Reality Gays AM GAY (Ask Us Anything!) July 2026 Part 1
Q: Please rank all Reality Gays covered Daniels from worst to best.
They debate several Daniels from various reality shows, offering humorous assessments and justifications for their rankings, while acknowledging the difficulty of ranking such quirky personalities.
Reality Gays AM GAY (Ask Us Anything!) July 2026 Part 1
Q: What is your most unhinged quote?
They discuss a personal boundary with customer service as a humorous example, then pivot to how they both tease each other about being dramatic yet practical, highlighting the show's candid tone.
A Reality Gays Interview: "This is Poly’s" Power Throuple: Kami, Trent and Nita
Q: How has your coming out experience shaped your relationship with family and friends?
Coming out was hard and painful, but it ultimately led to living authentically and creating a supportive community that understands our dynamics, even if some connections were lost along the way.
SLOMW S04: An Epilogue with Media Researcher Soraya Giaccardi-Vargas
Q: What do you do as a media researcher?
Soraya explains that she studies the impact of entertainment media by identifying narratives and analyzing how they shape audiences' attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors on social issues.

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Two Southern LGBTQ hosts deliver sharp, humorous recaps of popular reality dating and lifestyle shows, blending candid commentary with pop culture tangents, personal anecdotes, and therapy-informed takes. Episodes orbit around relationship dynamics, family and cultural tensions, and the entertainment machine behind long-running franchises, all delivered with quick banter, affectionate ribbing, and unapologetic authenticity. The show stands out for its dynamic host chemistry, inclusive humor, and willingness to tackle heavier topics like trauma, therapy, and ethics in reality TV without losing the fun or fan engagement.

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