
Jake Anthony and Matt Marr are two Southern Queens who absolutely love reality shows about lonely hearts looking for love. They recap it all including: TLC's 90 Day Fiancé, Love is Blind on Netflix, Love After Lockup, and some other shows where the people are just hot messes looking for love. If you've been looking for your gay BFFs to dish this show, you're home Queen! Matt is a clinical psycholo... more
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Chloe uncovers devastating truths about Johny. Jenny looks for a way out of the family home. Anthony and Manon trade city life for the countryside. Dylan catches Pattiya off guard. Luke's dad rattles Madelein's trust on the eve of the wedding.
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Special New Year EARLY CLASSLESS Drop!
Nope, youre seeing it right, we're gifting your classless Love After Lockup early instead of the usual Thursday. Enjoy, Sissies!
Lacey meets an ex-con at release; Angela lusts after Tony; Lizzy reunites with D... more
It’s time for our An*l... Annual Ask Us (Almost) Anything! We are diving deep into your questions (recorded both from the boys' hometown while they're on holiday)
Thank you for y'alls support in 2025... We are excited to make more fun dickpiggery t... more
Happy 2026 Sissies! Y'all made it through 2025! Congrats!
On our 50th episode, the boys talk about the best and most notable TV shows, films, music and everything else that they love in 2025.
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You can gift the gift of gay all year round!
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The best podcast! I love listening after every episode!! I’m fully addicted hahaha. Matty and Poodle are the best!! Love yall!
Dorothy’s uncle tells her she’s not a kid anymore after she keeps talking to him about Ms. Gulch (aka the Wicked Witch of the East) trying to take Toto. It’s before the tornado. Love you guys!
Thank you, thank you for your coverage of the Mormon wives and I’m so happy that they come out on a timely manner.
I love listening to get away from this crazy world. Even time I need to get my mind off the negative thinking, I “listen to my gays”. Love y’all!
I sure hope that you guys can take off your big loses and pick yourselves up and remember that both parents took your brother and you to swim! Kyle can still be the one judging you!!
Love you all! 🫤😪🥱😬😥🫣😊😁😊🙏😣🤞
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The show focuses on the colorful and often absurd worlds of reality television, particularly relationship-based programs like '90 Day Fiancé', 'Love is Blind', and 'Love After Lockup'. The hosts combine humor and insightful commentary as they recap episodes, often reflecting on the awkward romances and eccentric characters featured in these shows. With a strong emphasis on LGBTQ+ representation and personal anecdotes, the discussions are both light-hearted and relatable, catering to listeners looking for camaraderie and entertainment derived from the chaotic search for love in the reality TV sphere.
What sets the show apart is its blend of laughter with thoughtful critiques, offering insights into personal relationships and the entertainin... more
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