
Jake Anthony and Matt Marr are two Southern Queens who absolutely love reality shows about lonely hearts looking for love. They recap it all including: TLC's 90 Day Fiancé, Love is Blind on Netflix, Love After Lockup, and some other shows where the people are just hot messes looking for love. If you've been looking for your gay BFFs to dish this show, you're home Queen!Matt is a clinical psycholog... more
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The boys discuss Madonnaâs newly-released album, âConfessions II,â as well as the 2026 Emmy Awards nominations.Â
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Sarper and Guillermo clash outside the bar, and Kara is left in tears. The couples head out for a night away at wilderness therapy. They split into three teams, where the couples struggle to communicate as they navigate the harsh environment.
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Mattie and Poodle are one of the great comedy duos of our time. The banter, the jokes, and Mattieâs exasperated âokâ truly bring you in to every show. Thanks for the laughs and love. Keep going, queens!
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Two Southern gay hosts dissect popular reality dating shows with sharp humor, candid relationship commentary, and personal anecdotes. The conversations center on behind-the-scenes dynamics, red flags vs. green flags in romance-driven TV, and how real-life therapy, trauma, and family culture intersect with televised love stories. The hosts mix sizzling takes on shows like 90 Day Fiancé and other romance-focused reality programs with playful banter, crowd-pleasing sponsor reads, and a strong sense of community for listeners who crave witty critique and relatable humor while staying supportive of LGBTQ+ voices. A standout vibe is their blend of unapologetic shade with empathy, making the show feel like a supportive, funny hangout for fans who ... more
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