
Jake Anthony and Matt Marr are two Southern Queens who absolutely love reality shows about lonely hearts looking for love. They recap it all including: TLC's 90 Day Fiancé, Love is Blind on Netflix, Love After Lockup, and some other shows where the people are just hot messes looking for love. If you've been looking for your gay BFFs to dish this show, you're home Queen!Matt is a clinical psycholog... more
| Publishes | Daily | Episodes | 3437 | Founded | 7 years ago |
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Emma comes on strong with Jamal, leaving him uneasy. Steven makes his move on Iris despite Razvan's efforts. Michael asks someone out for the first time in two years. Sparks fly at sea, but a surprising rumor sends shockwaves through the group.
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Niles learns his marriage to Matilda may be annulled. Vittorio humiliates Jessy in front of his friends. Michelle pushes Felix to put her before his family. Andi braces herself to meet Nigel's lover, while Jon and Ally question their future together.... more
Niles learns his marriage to Matilda may be annulled. Vittorio humiliates Jessy in front of his friends. Michelle pushes Felix to put her before his family. Andi braces herself to meet Nigel's lover, while Jon and Ally question their future together.... more
The boys discuss two recent TV series, Disney+’s “VisionQuest, and Prime’s “Carrie.”
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I just adore Mattie and Poodle! Their joy and jokes have gotten me through some tough times and long car rides. I am always impressed with their social commentary on (sometimes trashy/classless) reality tv and how it applies to our daily lives. This is the first podcast I’ve ever gotten really invested in, and it has EVERYTHING - musical references (and full-on singing), Oklahoma stories, Southern craziness, grammar, therapy talk, opera, psychology, history, pop culture, feminism, NEW SEGMENTS, ... more
Who knew watching 90 Day Fiancé could lead to actual personal growth?
Mattie and Poodle are hilarious, sharp, unapologetically feminist, and surprisingly insightful. They understand that beneath the spectacular dysfunction of reality TV are very real relationship dynamics, learned behaviors, and cultural expectations that deserve examining.
The beauty of 90 Day Fiancé is that it magnifies the patterns we all recognize in our own relationships—just with worse decisions, questionable immigration... more
We just love you!!! So many laughs and best part of my day, My boyfriend is such a man bro and he giggles so hard too- love the live show, love the interviews, I listen to recaps for the shows I don’t even watch.
I am a longtime listener and am OBSESSED. Have gone to live shows and have merch! But…for the love! Let Mattie speak! Poodle interrupts approx 80% of Mattie’s sentences. Especially on information involving psychology and therapy. Mattie has had an actual professional career and education in this area, which makes his input about the shows so interesting . Poodle’s takes in this area are usually so awful and he interrupts Mattie’s informative and interesting takes to give his own “life coach” one... more
I love listening to Reality Gays! They always make my day and have the best takes. I appreciate them holding men accountable as well ;) KEEP GOING QUEENS
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Two Southern LGBTQ hosts deliver sharp, humorous recaps of popular reality dating and lifestyle shows, blending candid commentary with pop culture tangents, personal anecdotes, and therapy-informed takes. Episodes orbit around relationship dynamics, family and cultural tensions, and the entertainment machine behind long-running franchises, all delivered with quick banter, affectionate ribbing, and unapologetic authenticity. The show stands out for its dynamic host chemistry, inclusive humor, and willingness to tackle heavier topics like trauma, therapy, and ethics in reality TV without losing the fun or fan engagement.
Listeners can expect bite-sized, analysis-forward episodes that mix venting, praise, and witty impressions, plus regular s... more
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