
Welcome to So This is Love, a podcast about love, the loss of love, heartbreak and the meeting of self. We share stories on how the relationships we once had teach us about who we are and define who we become. And maybe through these stories, we can answer that age old question; is it better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all?
| Publishes | Twice monthly | Episodes | 63 | Founded | 4 years ago |
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Season 6 Finale!
At 17, when Smurf meets Bill, she thinks she has found true love and a way out of poverty. Guided by a mother who should have protected her, Smurf is led down a path that forces her to make desperate decisions to survive.
Years lat... more
Wangari & Raymond
Wangari and Raymond met young. The kind of young where love feels like forever, and questions about marriage and children donāt feel premature. He was her first love, and for a long time, he felt like her safe place.
But somewhere... more
Biggieās story is a journey through love, chaos, and self-discovery.
From one relationship to the next, he finds himself caught between extremes, intensity and softness, control and freedom. But no matter where he goes or who he is with, something w... more
In this episode, Wanjiru shares the deeply personal story of her relationship with Bett. This love unfolds not as a dramatic coming-of-age queer tale, but as something quieter and more profound: the journey of finding yourself through another person.... more
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Where have I been throughout the life of this podcastšā¦I just got to S1 E4! It is priceless to have a forum that addresses the ānever-talked-aboutā stuff that are an otherwise normal part of life especially when things go South. Talking is therapeutic - thank you to those who have shared their stories, and thank you Jules for the podcast. Now let me get back to binge listeningš.
This is a podcast that I really enjoy and keep coming back to.
One small issue that I have observed is that the audio volume tends to be quite low in comparison to most podcasts. What I mean is that if I listen to āSo This Is Loveā while driving on a highway, I must crank my volume so high that the next random podcast episode that I have queued up comes on too loud, which makes the transition overstimulating and jarring š
It would be quite amazing if the audio levels are adjusted for some comp... more
Awesome episodes every time! I am learning a lot about relationships and making me think if I have triggers or am I triggering anyone. I am also a mum now, so I am learning, unlearning and relearning from these relationships
You are an amazing listener, you help the story tellers bring out their stories amazingly. I always look forward to listening because each episode has something new and a lesson. Thank you Jules
I have NEVER missed an episode! You Listen! Learn and Get entertained all at once here!
Great job STIL team! š„³
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This show centers on intimate relationship stories, focusing on love, heartbreak, healing, and self-discovery. Across episodes, themes include infidelity, abuse, boundaries, mental health, and personal growth within family and romantic dynamics. The host guides guests through reflective, often vulnerable conversations that illuminate resilience, self-worth, and how love shapes identity. A standout aspect is the mix of deeply personal narratives with broader lessons about respect, autonomy, and healthier relationship patterns, making it a compelling listen for anyone exploring relationships, trauma, and empowerment. The format tends toward candid storytelling with guidance from the host, and episodes frequently foreground perspectives from w... more
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