戀愛自習室 - 大慶
大慶兩個超過十年交情的好朋友在某次日常聊天興起而誕生的節目 談情感、談做人。沒有話術、沒有PUA。 如果您喜歡的話也希望能不吝嗇您的讚與訂閱，這會幫助到我很多，感謝！ 事業繁忙，盡力更新。 每週末上傳新一集節目。 各大podcast平台請搜尋 : 戀愛自習室 合作或建議請來信：xu0494y4vu6@gmail.com IG：www.instagram.com/selfstudy.love/ 會在社群上多分享一些案例與想法，歡迎大家追蹤訂閱喔！感謝！ 朋友們有想法想討論、諮詢或者只是想找我聊聊，都歡迎到IG私訊我唷！ -- Hosting provided by SoundOn
| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 94 | Founded | 2 months ago |
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| Language |  ZH-TW | Categories | Self-ImprovementEducationComedy | ||
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你有沒有看過一些影集內，女主角為了想認識男主角，想法設法的靠近他，利用某種方式製造自然邂逅。
例如經典款：跌倒在他身上，書本撒落一地，各種巧遇之類的。
創造自然邂逅的能力，不僅僅在感情上能起到作用，也能在無形間累積各式各樣的人脈進而提升各個領域的表現。
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不管你的硬價值多高，經驗不足、認知不到位，就是無法把握好感情。你我都沒范姜、強尼戴普、andy老師價值高，他們都翻車了我們更該警惕自己。
可以把短期關係視為一種練功，運氣來臨時，對的人出現時，只有準備好的人才有實力把握住。
性能力在感情中的重要性被亞洲社會嚴重低估，女人慕不慕強有待商榷，但只要是個人就一定慕爽。
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學會如何自保不單單只是為了守護個人利益，更是為了維護彼此的感情。
一個失去價值的人不可能還具備吸引力，而一個不自愛的人討論愛他人也顯得空洞無力。
15條原則包含財務、選擇權、原則底線、red flag、情勒、情緒價值、付出犧牲、浪漫與現實、性、自我提升、信任、避嫌、事業、理性感性、尊重…等。
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兒子、父親、丈夫、老師、學生、上司、下屬，人除非隱居深山，不然必然得依照某種規範來扮演好多重角色。
現今的兩性動態這個規範在傳統框架解構後，逐漸變得模糊，有好有壞，壞在於你不知道該從何下手，如何扮演好另一半的角色，好在於沒有規則就等於強者可以自定義規則。
三從的出處是儀禮喪服，講的是喪事女性的身份地位，跟服從八桿子打不著關係，只是後世百姓用來PUA自己另一半亂用而已。
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一個優秀優質的人應該同時具備alpha跟beta的優點，而不是阿法男或貝塔男某一方一定比較有魅力。
價值種類區分為六大類：資源、外在、力量、聲望、藝術、夥伴，受哪幾項吸引則是因人而異。
貓線理論是最適合解釋"吸引"本質的比喻。
在原則上，對方必須持續的有所付出，我也才願意持續的給予，感情一定要互相才能健康長久。
實務上一定要懂得揚長避短，尤其是避短的部份最容易被大家忽略。
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請客吃飯頂多損失幾百元，但不請客看不見的損失可能上萬元，甚至難以估計。
打腫臉充胖子、因小失大、錯估價值、忽略時間成本、機會成本…等都是不請這頓飯存在的潛在認知錯誤。
行為跟動機必須要一致，你想幹人家又做著讓對方反感你的行為，我問號？
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想維持單身的理梨卻桃花不斷？再次證實感情的不直觀性。
聽聽女性角度的聊天與約砲該如何進行。
轉盤子並不是只有男人女人算盤子，所有能轉移你注意力的事情也都算。
為什麼你該多線經營？用珍稀資源的比喻讓你一次聽懂。
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因應不同的情境會有不同的動機與目的，因此對話本質上也是完全不同的。
情感關係聊天的三大原則是情感連接、情緒價值、跟價值展示三點。
7+1個步驟的無限循環讓你聊天高潮迭起再也不用擔心聊天聊不好。
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