反标准玩家
Mia牧心嗨！大家好，我是Mia，一个在东亚规训下长大、又一点点挣脱出来的心理咨询师。 这档播客，源于我自己的来时路，也源于看到身边太多相似的困境——东亚小孩九件套：束缚天性、压制情绪、无视需求、讨好人格、苦难教育、不停攀比、功利思维、放松羞耻和延迟幸福。 我们如此认真地把人生过成了不自由的NPC。 所以我想在这里分享我的探索和经验，有时观点可能有点暴力，但初心始终是：给同样走在觉醒路上的你，递一个坚定的眼神。 这不是标准答案，只是一个伙伴的经验，希望它能帮你更勇敢地活出“玩家”心态，在这场人生游戏中，找回自由和尽兴。 我们路上见！
| Publishes | Twice weekly | Episodes | 22 | Founded | 6 months ago |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Language |  ZH-CN | Number of Listeners | Category | Religion & Spirituality |
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十多年前，大学还没毕业的我，在一次背包旅行的火车上偶遇了颜三哥，他坐我旁边，主动帮我把重重的的背包放上行李架。
半年后，受他的邀请去他新办的暑假班做志愿者，它有个温暖的名字，叫幸福学堂。
而10年后他的学校越来越大，孩子们也越来越多。他不是什么教育家，也没有因此赚到钱，但是他给受到应试教育伤害的家庭提供了一个避难所，赚到了很多真实的感谢、成长和陪伴。
他说这十年，完成了他人生的启蒙，让他找到了有意义、值得做的事情。
我听了，心里一片温暖和湿润。
这次的shownotes 借用允珊优美的文字再合适不过：
天赋的重要性，是我们这一代人以前非常容易忽视的存在。现在的学校，放眼望去，把教育变成了两件事，努力教书，但不育人。
钢琴拿到十级，并不代表那是你的天赋，那获许只是你努力、懂得刻苦、和父母的要求。
会画画、手很巧，也不能证明那是你的天赋，那可能是练出来的技巧。
考试得到高分，更不能证明那是你的天赋，那往往只是会读书、会背书、适应制度。
从小乖巧懂事，也不是天赋，那可能是你生存的方式。
同样，把一件事做得很好，也不一定是天赋，那可... more
这期是内向的来访小K 带来的困扰，关于面对权威的：
为什么我总是看到领导就想绕道？明明我也知道领导不过也是普通人，而且我工作也做得很好啊，但是就是会忍不住紧张，忍不住想躲。有什么办法可以改变呢？
权威议题是我们东亚小孩成长过程中绕不开的坎儿，小时候怕老师，长大了怕领导。这是我们从小受到的教育在我们心里种下的一个不平等的上下位的关系模式。
害怕权威，我们害怕的是被他人评价甚至定义。
而在几十年的漫长岁月中形成的害怕和信念已经变成本能反应时，要怎么去改变呢？
希望这期内容给你一些答案和启发... more
这期内容是我目前人生观的一个重要组成部分，那就是当你的意志大于现实世界的意志时，现实就会向你倾倒。
当我们总是感叹：这就是生活呀，这就是现实，我也没有办法… 的时候，停！你不是没有办法，你只是太害怕去想办法，去看见第三条路。
这期内容我详细的讲述了我们常常觉得自己无法掌控生活这种感受背后的心理信念，我们偶尔想要跳车、想撂挑子的冲动背后的觉醒能量。我用了《知否》中，小公爷和顾廷烨举例，说明了两种完全不同的人生态度，以及我们常常觉得被现实硬控了的背后，其实是我们总是相信了自己的恐惧。
如果你也... more
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I really like the voice of the host. She is a very professional psychological counselor, and her podcast has given me a lot of inspiration.
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