
Kink can be scary, but talking about it doesn’t have to be! S and kirizal, a couple in a 24/7 Total Power Exchange relationship chat about kink, sex, relationships, communication, and all the messy stuff in between.
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| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 44 | Founded | 10 months ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | Health & FitnessRelationshipsSociety & CultureSexuality | |||

This week, kirizal and S are chatting about sexual orientation - from O/our coming out stories (one at 14, and one at 41!), kirizal’s multiple coming outs and the pan vs bi distinction, T4T dating, and whether O/our kink identities are a part of sexu... more
Adult babies Jen and Tealeaves sat down with kirizal and S this week to share their experiences - through all the noise of stigma and misconceptions, they share the authenticity and joy of little space, kink as a core part of identity, the intimacy o... more
It's Pride Month, so in the first of O/our queer focused episodes kirizal and S jump straight in with the annual discourse topic, does kink belong at Pride? W/we also chat about O/our first Prides, the commercialisation and coorporate involvement in ... more
After the S-heavy long distance episode, W/we thought it was kirizal's turn to have the spotlight and dive into one of their specialist topics - addiction and recovery. kirizal spent most of their 20s battling mental health issues which spiralled int... more
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I absolutely love these podcasts. Am I into kink? No, but I am now thinking I want to try it. kirizal and S are so authentic, genuine and raw, it’s mind blowing. Highly highly highly recommend listening to this podcast. 💜
Really enjoying the podcast! I’m just listening for now and taking notes on how to get involved in a lifestyle like this. It’s fascinating, educational, and safety is obviously super important—can’t forget that! Loving all the tips and insights so far.
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This show centers on kink, sex, relationships, and consent, with long-running discussions around power exchanges, safety, ethics, and practical negotiation. Episodes blend personal stories, interviews with guests from sex work and kink communities, and candid explorations of taboo topics—from hypnokink and branding to financial domination and edge play—always framed around responsible, communicative play. A notable edge is the mix of intimate relationship dynamics and entrepreneurial kink topics, offering listeners both relationship tips and industry insights in a candid, often provocative, but safety-conscious package.
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