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Don’t Scare the Newbies!

kirizal & S
Kink
Consent
Power Exchange
Communication
BDSM
Relationships
Aftercare
Bimbofication
Fifty Shades Of Grey
Sexuality
Sex
Interrogation Play
Breath Play
Kink Community
Community Support
D/s Relationships
Safety In Kink
Intimacy
Pillion
Power Dynamics

Kink can be scary, but talking about it doesn’t have to be! S and kirizal, a couple in a 24/7 Total Power Exchange relationship chat about kink, sex, relationships, communication, and all the messy stuff in between.

Follow kirizal’s blog and find all their socials at www.kirizal.com

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This week, kirizal and S are chatting about sexual orientation - from O/our coming out stories (one at 14, and one at 41!), kirizal’s multiple coming outs and the pan vs bi distinction, T4T dating, and whether O/our kink identities are a part of sexu... more

Adult babies Jen and Tealeaves sat down with kirizal and S this week to share their experiences - through all the noise of stigma and misconceptions, they share the authenticity and joy of little space, kink as a core part of identity, the intimacy o... more

It's Pride Month, so in the first of O/our queer focused episodes kirizal and S jump straight in with the annual discourse topic, does kink belong at Pride? W/we also chat about O/our first Prides, the commercialisation and coorporate involvement in ... more

After the S-heavy long distance episode, W/we thought it was kirizal's turn to have the spotlight and dive into one of their specialist topics - addiction and recovery. kirizal spent most of their 20s battling mental health issues which spiralled int... more

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Ariel Anderssen
BDSM performer, photographer, and author
Self-described BDSM model and author
Episode: The Kink Dynasty: Life as a BDSM Model & Author With Ariel Anderssen

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Carizal
Host of the show and one half of the couple in the dynamic; guides discussions and introduces guests.

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4.9 out of 5 stars from 43 ratings
  • Can’t stop listening!

    I absolutely love these podcasts. Am I into kink? No, but I am now thinking I want to try it. kirizal and S are so authentic, genuine and raw, it’s mind blowing. Highly highly highly recommend listening to this podcast. 💜

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Stars Curls
    Australia8 months ago
  • Brilliant

    Really enjoying the podcast! I’m just listening for now and taking notes on how to get involved in a lifestyle like this. It’s fascinating, educational, and safety is obviously super important—can’t forget that! Loving all the tips and insights so far.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Silverbabybeetle
    United Kingdom9 months ago

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Getting Very Very Sleepy: Hypnosis with Lana and Edward
Q: What first drew you to hypno-kink and hypnosis as a lifestyle practice?
Edward explains a long-standing interest in control and vulnerability, Lana talks about how hypnosis became a foundational part of their dynamic through mutual curiosity and experimentation, finally integrating safety and negotiated boundaries.
Neon Lights in the Dark: 2025 Recapped
Q: What does aftercare look like for both of you?
Aftercare involves cuddles, reassurance, a bit of a debriefing, and sometimes some time alone. The specifics depend on the scenes we've done and can vary quite a lot.

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This show centers on kink, sex, relationships, and consent, with long-running discussions around power exchanges, safety, ethics, and practical negotiation. Episodes blend personal stories, interviews with guests from sex work and kink communities, and candid explorations of taboo topics—from hypnokink and branding to financial domination and edge play—always framed around responsible, communicative play. A notable edge is the mix of intimate relationship dynamics and entrepreneurial kink topics, offering listeners both relationship tips and industry insights in a candid, often provocative, but safety-conscious package.

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