Don’t Scare the Newbies!
kirizal & SKink can be scary, but talking about it doesn’t have to be! S and kirizal, a couple in a 24/7 Total Power Exchange relationship chat about kink, sex, relationships, communication, and everything in between
Winner of Best Media, Alternative Awards 2026
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| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 55 | Founded | a year ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | SexualityHealth & FitnessRelationshipsSociety & Culture | |||
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In an extra lengthy, rambly special, kirizal and S reflect on one year of hosting an award winning podcast. From how Don't Scare the Newbies! started and S's anxious dog reaction to the early analytics, to O/our favourite episodes and some lowlights ... more
This week, kirizal and S finally get around to talking about one of O/our most essential kinks - impact play! W/we chat about why S finds hitting people with stuff fun, how different types of impact feel to kirizal, and lots of all important safety s... more
Usually if kirizal asks S why They like something, the answer is “power and control”, so this week W/we dive into that favourite “conceptual kink”. What is control, and how is it distinct from power? W/we chat about what consensual control brings to ... more
This week, kirizal and S go back to the beginning and talking about swiping right (or is it left? W/we get confused) on each other on Tinder back in 2021 and then again on OkCupid in 2023. But, this isn't just about O/our success story - this week W/... more
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- Can’t stop listening!
I absolutely love these podcasts. Am I into kink? No, but I am now thinking I want to try it. kirizal and S are so authentic, genuine and raw, it’s mind blowing. Highly highly highly recommend listening to this podcast. 💜
Apple Podcasts5Stars Curls
Australiaa year ago - Brilliant
Really enjoying the podcast! I’m just listening for now and taking notes on how to get involved in a lifestyle like this. It’s fascinating, educational, and safety is obviously super important—can’t forget that! Loving all the tips and insights so far.
Apple Podcasts5Silverbabybeetle
United Kingdoma year ago
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Apple Podcasts | #10 | United Kingdom/Health & Fitness/Sexuality |
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Apple Podcasts | #93 | Australia/Health & Fitness/Sexuality |
Apple Podcasts | #102 |  France/Health & Fitness/Sexuality |
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Apple Podcasts | #73 |  Ireland/Health & Fitness/Sexuality |
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A candid, relationship-forward show where a couple in a 24/7 total power exchange explores kink, sex, communication, and intimacy through personal stories, practical tips, and safety-focused guidance. Episodes blend conversational banter with guest-informed discussions on topics like roleplay, BDSM communities, consent, and the social dynamics around sex and identity. Unique strengths include long-running, experiential storytelling, a willingness to tackle controversial subjects with nuance, and a strong emphasis on safety, consent education, and community visibility. Potential listeners include kink-curious individuals, partners in open or power-exchange relationships, event-goers, and professionals seeking candid perspectives on relations... more
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