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Don’t Scare the Newbies!

kirizal & S
Kink
Consent
Power Exchange
Communication
Sex
Interrogation Play
Breath Play
Community Support
Safety In Kink
Relationships
Fetlife
Intimacy
Consensual Non-Consent (CNC)
Waterboarding
Bagging
Domestic Service
BDSM
Personal Experiences In Kink
Risks In Kink
Strangulation

Kink can be scary, but talking about it doesn’t have to be! S and kirizal, a couple in a 24/7 Total Power Exchange relationship chat about kink, sex, relationships, communication, and all the messy stuff in between.

Follow kirizal’s blog and find all their socials at www.kirizal.com

Support U/us on Patreon at patreon.com/dontscarethenewbies

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This week, W/we’re bigger than ever - talking big dicks, big toys, and fisting. kirizal dives into what’s going on with their size kink, while S is in it for the objectification and mad science. W/we tackle the age old question of does size matter, c... more

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Carizal
Host of Don't Scare the Newbies, a lifestyle submissive in a 24/7 dynamic; frequently discusses kink, TPEx, and relationship dynamics.

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4.9 out of 5 stars from 35 ratings
  • Can’t stop listening!

    I absolutely love these podcasts. Am I into kink? No, but I am now thinking I want to try it. kirizal and S are so authentic, genuine and raw, it’s mind blowing. Highly highly highly recommend listening to this podcast. 💜

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Stars Curls
    Australia6 months ago
  • Brilliant

    Really enjoying the podcast! I’m just listening for now and taking notes on how to get involved in a lifestyle like this. It’s fascinating, educational, and safety is obviously super important—can’t forget that! Loving all the tips and insights so far.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Silverbabybeetle
    United Kingdom7 months ago

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Audience notes the show as educational and engaging, with practical tips for getting involved in kink communities and maintaining healthy dynamics.
Listeners appreciate the authenticity and candor around kink topics, safety, and consent, often highlighting how the hosts' transparency helps them feel more informed and less alone.

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Neon Lights in the Dark: 2025 Recapped
Q: What does aftercare look like for both of you?
Aftercare involves cuddles, reassurance, a bit of a debriefing, and sometimes some time alone. The specifics depend on the scenes we've done and can vary quite a lot.

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This show centers on kink, sex, and relationships through candid conversations between a long‑term couple in a total power exchange and their guests. Episodes typically explore negotiation, consent, safety, and aftercare, often weaving in personal origin stories, practical tips for safer play, and reflections on power dynamics, communication, and relationship structures. A notable throughline is how communities and shared experiences shape intimate practices, from polyamory and non‑monogamy to gender identity and community ethics, all presented with humor and openness. The format tends to be explicit about practices while emphasizing consent, safety, and emotional well‑being, making it a likely fit for listeners seeking practical guidance a... more

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