
Kink can be scary, but talking about it doesn’t have to be! S and kirizal, a couple in a 24/7 Total Power Exchange relationship chat about kink, sex, relationships, communication, and everything in between
Winner of Best Media, Alternative Awards 2026
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| Publishes | Weekly | Episodes | 59 | Founded | a year ago |
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| Number of Listeners | Categories | SexualityHealth & FitnessRelationshipsSociety & Culture | |||

After a small disruption caused by one highly mischievous microphone cable, kirizal and S are back with a new episode talking all about contraception. Appropriately enough, kirizal was ovulating during this recording, and it shows. W/we run through a... more
In case you hadn't heard them yapping about it already, kirizal wrote a book. Actually, two books. 274k words in about six weeks, and as they settle into a well earned break from writing, W/we thought W/we should tell you all about it! On this episod... more
Mx requested something that wasn't arty and pretentious for O/our next episode, and kirizal delivered. This week, W/we're talking about 365 Days. Is a movie with only one scene of light bondage really a kinky movie? In this movie, most of the kink is... more
After your first long, hard, two week wait for new DSTN!, W/we’re talking orgasm control and denial! kirizal and S chat about what orgasm control does for O/our dynamic, why it’s fun (and awful), and some important safety talk. Plus - O/our previous ... more
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I absolutely love these podcasts. Am I into kink? No, but I am now thinking I want to try it. kirizal and S are so authentic, genuine and raw, it’s mind blowing. Highly highly highly recommend listening to this podcast. 💜
Really enjoying the podcast! I’m just listening for now and taking notes on how to get involved in a lifestyle like this. It’s fascinating, educational, and safety is obviously super important—can’t forget that! Loving all the tips and insights so far.
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A candid, relationship-forward show where a couple in a 24/7 total power exchange explores kink, sex, communication, and intimacy through personal stories, practical tips, and safety-focused guidance. Episodes blend conversational banter with guest-informed discussions on topics like roleplay, BDSM communities, consent, and the social dynamics around sex and identity. Unique strengths include long-running, experiential storytelling, a willingness to tackle controversial subjects with nuance, and a strong emphasis on safety, consent education, and community visibility. Potential listeners include kink-curious individuals, partners in open or power-exchange relationships, event-goers, and professionals seeking candid perspectives on relations... more
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