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A Jaded Gay

A Jaded Gay
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Living in a world of fuckboys, homophobes, and inequalities can leave a gay feeling, well, jaded, so tune in for your weekly dose of gay empowerment. We're talking pop culture, politics, and dating hardships, all through the lens of overcoming gay trauma and nurturing our emotional wellbeing.

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Previously, we explored somatic therapy through the lens of pleasure and embodiment, revealing how the body can hold wisdom about our experiences. Many gay men carry tension, stress, and internalized shame from years of hypervigilance and navigating ... more

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Internet culture frequently jokes that getting a haircut is “gay therapy,” restoring both gay powers and confidence. But haircuts have long served as tools of self-expression, social signaling, and identity transformation within LGBTQ+ culture.

In t... more

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Historically, LGBTQ+ storylines in literature, film, and television were confined to predominantly tragic narratives, where heartbreak, loss, or death defined queer characters. Today, that representation is evolving, with authentic, multidimensional ... more

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International Transgender Day of Visibility is more than a moment of recognition — it’s a celebration of transgender joy, resilience, and the everyday lives that too often go unseen. Observed each year on March 31, the day uplifts trans voices, highl... more

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Recent Guests

Sean Hershey
Licensed psychotherapist and somatic practitioner
Mind-Body Medicine for Chronic Pain / Sean Hershey, LLC
Episode: 182. Releasing Gay Trauma and Shame Through Somatic Therapy (with Sean Hershey)
Steven Rowley
New York Times bestselling author known for The Guncle, The Celebrants, and Take Me with You
Author — Take Me with You
Episode: 180. The Next Chapter of LGBTQ+ Storytelling (with Steven Rowley)
Chris Tompkins
Founder of A Road Trip to Love; therapist specializing in working with gay men, couples, individuals; LGBTQ advocacy
A Road Trip to Love
Episode: 178. Heal Your Inner Gay Child (with Chris Tompkins)
Kyle Ridley
Emmy Award-winning journalist and host of The Tangle with Kyle Ridley
The Tangle with Kyle Ridley
Episode: 176. Navigating Disordered Eating Among Gay Men (with Kyle Ridley)
Heavens 2 Betsy Stratton
A drag queen and performer in the LGBTQ+ community
Miss Gay Pennsylvania America 2025
Episode: 172. Picture It: Ballroom, Drag, and Queer Expression (with Heavens 2 Betsy Stratton)
Ryan Lu
A content creator and podcaster helping queer individuals manifest their authentic selves and desires.
Delulu with Ryan Lu
Episode: 171. Manifest Your Best Year Yet (with Ryan Lu)
Eric Praniewicz
A friend of the host and returning guest, involved in discussions about pop culture and reality television.
Episode: 168. Real Housewives of Pennsylvania (with Eric Praniewicz)
Mike Johnson and Kyle Getz
Podcasters and creators known for their work in the LGBTQ+ space
Episode: 167. Best of Guests 2025: Politico Edition
Patrick Gevas
Organizer of Miami Beach Pride
Miami Beach Pride
Episode: 167. Best of Guests 2025: Politico Edition

Host

Rob Loveless
Host of the show; frequent guide through LGBTQ+ topics, culture, politics, and mental health discussions. Brings personal experience and community-centered perspectives.

Reviews

4.7 out of 5 stars from 59 ratings
  • It’s within gay culture that promotes jadedness

    I’ve never hid my sexuality and must think I’m straight and I’ve felt more hatefulness from gay people than outsiders - trauma seems to keep building up

    Apple Podcasts
    4
    Engelhafen
    United Statesa year ago
  • A Slightly Jaded Gay Review

    First of all, I absolutely love Rob’s podcast! The range of topics he touches on in each episode are things that we within the LGBTQ+ community can benefit and learn from, especially our history that’s often overlooked by mainstream society. The well-being topics he discusses are relevant because we all have *trauma* that we don’t know we have, and they’ve helped me in my therapy sessions. Lastly, this podcast is awesome to feel more connected with the community if one lives in an area which doe... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    MatiusDaninus
    United States2 years ago
  • The Podcast Every LGBTQ Person Needs

    Rob’s podcast has been a wonderful space for learning and conversation. The topics he discusses each week are thoroughly researched, insightful and provides a great opportunity for everyone to grow in their own knowledge and opinions.

    This podcast is a great resource for everyone in the LGBTQ community wherever they are at on their journey. From history to current events and topics that are important to our community, Rob gives a wonderful presentation and provides a safe space for everyone... more

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    godismydaddy
    United States2 years ago
  • Thank you!

    Rob creates a safe space with intimacy, vulnerability and authenticity for conversations about a spectrum of topics for gay men. I always feel like I’ve learned something after every episode!

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    Taos Artist
    United States2 years ago
  • I’m def jaded

    I know I’m jaded and I hate it. This isn’t the person I wanted to be, and Rob breaks down the issues that a lot of gay men have. From relationships with ourselves, others, social stigma, trauma, depression, anxiety, and many other issues. I love the tarot reading as well, because it is helping me understand what the cards mean and how to read them.

    Apple Podcasts
    5
    JJS-Sav
    United States3 years ago

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Episodes are described as empowering, informative, and culturally insightful.
Listeners praise honest conversations that blend trauma, healing, and community.
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182. Releasing Gay Trauma and Shame Through Somatic Therapy (with Sean Hershey)
Q: What is somatic therapy and how does it differ from traditional talk therapy when addressing stress, trauma, and physical symptoms in the body?
Somatic therapy goes beyond the conscious brain to work with deeper processes in the body, addressing emotional and physiological patterns that underlie pain and stress, and aims to help the nervous system feel safe, embrace emotions, and recognize the body's signals as informative rather than threatening.
180. The Next Chapter of LGBTQ+ Storytelling (with Steven Rowley)
Q: Why is it so important for LGBTQ+ communities to tell their own stories, especially in the current political climate?
He argues that authentic storytelling reduces denial of base humanity and helps shift cultural norms, but cautions that backlash is possible and necessary to uplift more diverse authors.
180. The Next Chapter of LGBTQ+ Storytelling (with Steven Rowley)
Q: When you look at the literary landscape today, how do you think LGBTQ+ representation in fiction has evolved since you first started writing?
Rowley notes a broader, richer array of voices and stories now being told, moving beyond tragedy to include joy, nuance, and diverse life experiences, including aging and found family.
172. Picture It: Ballroom, Drag, and Queer Expression (with Heavens 2 Betsy Stratton)
Q: What does the intersection of identity mean to you, and how do you celebrate identity in your performances?
As a black queer man, showing up in predominantly white spaces is important to me; I focus on performing pieces that center around the black experience to highlight representation and diversity.

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Frequently Asked Questions About A Jaded Gay

What is A Jaded Gay about and what kind of topics does it cover?

The show centers on LGBTQ+ life, culture, and politics through candid conversations that blend personal storytelling with broader social topics. Episodes frequently tackle mental health, body image, dating, and media representation, often featuring guests who are journalists, writers, performers, activists, or creators — all explored through a lens of empowerment and community building. A standout aspect is the willingness to confront timely issues (rights, healthcare access, representation) while weaving in spirituality, humor, and pop culture to keep discussions relatable and actionable for listeners navigating queer life and trauma recovery. This mix makes it a compelling fit for listeners seeking authentic, practical insights on wellnes... more

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2. Steven Rowley
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4. Kyle Ridley
5. Heavens 2 Betsy Stratton
6. Ryan Lu
7. Eric Praniewicz
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